i met this girl where i work, we started talking, then she said she likes me. no doubt i like her too, but then she says shes twisted, because her ex says hes coming back from vegas soon, and she promised him that she would wait for him. she says she doesnt want to go back out with her, but shes constantly thinking about him. iono what to do...
2007-05-08 04:17:26 · 33 answers · asked by jay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Neither do I mate, but I keep tryin to make em happy.
2007-05-08 04:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by TJ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well first i would tell you that no man can ever understand a woman.
Second if she still has feelings for this other guy then you should just get over her because it will always be in your head that she could leave you for him.
Third, if she says that she doesnt want to be with him than she shouldnt be twisted. That is just an excuse for her not to be with you because if she wanted to be with you she would not even care if her ex was coming back into town.
2007-05-08 04:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a big problem because if you are already attach to her this is going to be really painful. But why don't you gave her a chance to wait for his ex boyfriend and just wait to see if she still loves him. Talk with her that you like her but you are worried about the issue so she can made up her mind soon. Just try to be cool in this situation, there is not a lot you can do, because taking any further action could hurt you. We are talking about other person's feelings.
2007-05-08 04:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by blueskyseaus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you like her as you say: what if you got together? would you want it to last?
of course...
So why complicate matters now, tell her how much you like her and step back. Tell her you cannot have her heart if it belongs to someone else. Let her cut the ties to her ex. If she doesnt then you know she doesnt feel the same and you are not meant to be. You may feel like a desperate need to act now why you have the chance but which action would bring the truest and safest of answers.
2007-05-08 04:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but do not get involved with a girl that has an EX who obviously she is not over. shes doesnt know what she wants, even though her ex has made it clear he doesnt want her there is still that small part in her that hopes when he comes back they will live happily ever after. im making us girls sound bad, but we really arent, you just have to find the right one.
2007-05-08 04:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by AsH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you want to date a girl with that kind of integrity? how important is a promise to you? i would think that if she REALLY didn't want to get back with her bf, then she would have and you would be dating her right now. tell her to call you back when she decides to give up on her ex
2007-05-08 04:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess with her. Clearly she is going to take her ex back, and she is just trying to have some fun in the meantime. At your expense none the less.
2007-05-08 04:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by ellasdaughter2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep outta the way. Give her time to figure out what she really wants. There are plenty of fish in the sea, find one that isnt already caught up in another fishermans net.
2007-05-08 04:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by Candy C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. Plenty of girls out there, no point in getting wrapped up with one that ain't interested.
2007-05-08 04:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She obviously has some issues. I wouldn't mess that or her. You may only end up getting hurt if you get in too deep. If she is questioing about this other guy, then what makes you think she isn't also questioning you? Don't get in that mess. trust me:)
2007-05-08 04:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run in the opposite direction.
2007-05-08 04:21:32 · answer #11 · answered by Taryn K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋