Guys and gals- Why should'nt I sleep around everybodys doing it?

Question

I need to know why! I mean should marrige be a factor? But I want to be happy with the opposit sex. Who gets married any more- For true reasons without the prenups! Just a general question for all to answer!

someone caught me red handed with answering my own question! I just wanted to see what type of answers I would get from the great people of yahoo answers!

Answer 1

Not everyone is doing it and if you are in a relationship and you are thinking about it then obviously you are not happy and you need to move on...


Isnt this your answer for the Question ..should I cheat???
No NO NO NO NO! If you do she will find out and by you already telling her she will always have it in the back of her mind! If you want a real relationship you would stay true to you love! The best way to help calm those sexual urges is to call her when you feel it in your loins! You guys sound like you are serious why don't you marry her? Is she not yours would you let some other man take her? I mean now is the time to really think if you are ready to give up a great relationship for some sleazy one night stands and a few std! pssssss no comparison! Alex I will take option A for 300! 30 years from now you will regret losing the love of your life!
It is difficult to contain the beast but.........................
Ask God to help you with these Urges! Save all that lovin for your wife. She will greatly appreciate it! It will also save you headaches!

Yeah thats what i thought now you need to follow your own advice

Answer 2

The best way to have better sex is to date around, not sleep around. You'll have better sex when it's with someone you truly care about.
John Gray, the author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, says that many people limit the number of dates they go on, because they’re afraid they’ll be pressured into sex.
While that pressure may be real, you don’t have to give into it. Learn to say and mean “No.” If the person persists, cross them off your dating list and meet someone new.
Why, though, should you put yourself through such an ordeal? Because without it, you may never meet the person who’s right for you.
Dating requires a philosophic approach, and part of that philosophy is this: Dating is a numbers game. The more people you go out with, the more good times you’ll have, and the faster you’ll find a loving mate.
If you limit the number of dates you go on, you’re also limiting the number of good times you could be having, and potential mates you’re meeting.
If you can accept dozens of awkward dates and near misses, you'll further your chances of finding the right person. Ask yourself if you are willing to meet a few clunkers to meet someone golden? If so, start dating around and remember to always practice safe sex.

Answer 3

No, wait till your married , there are so many great reasons , why you should wait, here are a few
1) you wont regret it
2) you wont get std's or hiv, or aids
3) you can share it with your husband
4) pepole will know that you have good morles, and save themselfs too
5) you will respect yourself,and your furhute husband

Here are the bad things
1) you can catch something you dont want
2) you most likely get pregant, at a younge age
3) you can never get it back
4) most guys will use you , then leave you
5) you will be brand for life, with a shameful name

I wish I took my own advice, now I regret it, cause even though I broke my promise of my weding night, I can never give my man, what he wants on the wedding night, when we get maaried, haveing sex is not everything, those pepole who do it, will be the ones who will regret it and not you, dont listen to the stupid pepole who tell you to do it.

Answer 4

First of all "sleeping around" is a very promiscuous term.
Studies have shown that girls who do that have very low self confidence, esteem and self-respect issues, and it only gets worse. Guys who do that end up being STD riddled jerks, and have serious commitment and emotional problems.
All around bad idea. I absolutely believe marriage should be a factor, as in you should never have an intimate relationship with a person you would NEVER marry.
Respect yourself enough to not get out of control. and hey, just throwing this out there, maybe you could wait until you find the right one.
The everybody doing it argument continues to be completely misleading, incorrect, and frankly lame.

Answer 5

STDs and pregnancy are good reasons. Hardly anyone waits for marriage anymore, but I would suggest that you only have sex with someone you feel you could raise a child with for 18 years. That's a good way to determine who's deserving of your physical love. Here are a few things I've learned about STDs since I contracted herpes.
1. A lot of people think doctors test for STDs at regular checkups.
2. A lot of people believe herpes and HIV tests are included when you request STD testing
3. 20-25% of Americans over age 12 have genital herpes.
4. About 85% of people who have herpes do not know it
5. Condoms do little to protect against herpes because it is not restricted to that area.
6. Many people who have STDs do not tell their partners for fear of rejection.
There are many more, but I focused mainly on herpes because it is what I know. It is incurable! So is AIDS which is also FATAL! I've never had sex that would be worth dying over.

Answer 6

and you are the same type of people with questions like (oh god she is pregnant what can i do?) or (it really itches down there, do i have a STD?) or (that *** was messing around with my best friend and me too)

sex almost ALWAYs involve feelings. dont want to get messed up over that. people become bitter from that

the freedom of being married is my husband and i can do things to each other that is actually illegal for those not married. draw your own conclusions

Answer 7

You shouldn't sleep around bcuz you respect youself and your body. Lots of people get married without prenups.

Answer 8

I think it all depends on how you want to view yourself. Also, there is a very real danger of catching something you can't get rid of. Marriage is not just about sex.

Answer 9

Sex isnt everything and thinkof how amazing it would be if you would of saved it for just one person.
I'm not a virgin but i wish i was.
And i defintly cant just sleep with random people, i feel nasty.

Answer 10

Use protection and be honest about your intentions. Don't lie about wanting a relationship just to get sex. When your libido eventually calms down and you are mature enough, you may someday be ready for a relationship.