I still live at home, in my early twenties, and I think that if I liked someone and they liked me , could she stop us ?
Like if she didn't like him and I did?
2007-05-08 01:47:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you all so much for your understanding
2007-05-08 01:59:51 · update #1
hey sweety... unfortunately... i know how u feel... im not quite in ur same shoes... but kinda... i live at home too and its sucha pain in the @ss.... but i dont think there's anything ur mom can do to stop u...
if u really like some1 go for him, dont let ur mom interfere... i know that parents can be over protective... but the only way for u to really learn... is by experiencing by urself... yeah ur mom surely wants the best for u... but if u really like some1... go for him, because if u like that person is because he makes u happy... even if that happyness doesnt last forever, still is the great moments that count not the bad times....
try to go with ur heaert, be careful when dating so u dont gnet hurt real badly... let ur mom know that even tho she might disagree wtih ur choise... it is ur life, and that guy makes u happy... that u know u might get hurt and dissapointed along the way.... but if that guy is making u happy for now... that's all that matters because at the moment he's bringing joyful smiles into ur face....
and if anything were to happen, if things don't go the way u thought they would... just be tough... u'll find some1 better who will know that u deserve better and treat u like a queen... HIS QUEEN!!!
good luck, and try to become more independant, or otherwise u will always lock urself up from getting waht u want.... not only a boyfriend... but whatever ur mom might disagree wtih...
hope i helped a bit
:D
take care
2007-05-08 01:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could she stop YOUR emotions? It doesn't make sense. She could stop you two from seeing one another by telling you thatif the two of you go out you'll have to pay rent. But if you're in your early 20s i'm sure she'll WANT you to go out so you can find a a future husband
2007-05-08 01:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by Bood 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie...your in your 20's so what gives them the rights to make you dislike someone, you have a mind of your own so if you both like each other then go for it...the best thing you can do is get your own place and live your own life...your a bit too old to be living with your parents
2007-05-08 02:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're over 18 so no there's nothing she can do. You have to ask her why she doesn't like him though. Sometimes an outside party can see what you can't. My mom's never been keen on my sisters boyfriends or mine, didn't stop me from dating. Maybe there's something about him she sees that she doesn't like about him and knows in the end you'll see it too.
anyway , good luck
2007-05-08 01:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by Weimaraner Mom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In theory she has every right not to let him in the house, but I'd hope she doesn't go that far. Obviously she cannot stop your emotions, that goes without saying.
I'd hope she would let you live your life and make your own decisions and learn from your own mistakes.
2007-05-08 01:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by brianthesnailuk2002 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well she cnt nesisarily make u not like sumone u decide that on ur own. she can on the other hand not let u see him at the house u live in concidering its hers. i suggest u ge a steady job and work to get outof her house then u will b able to see him at ur house. besides doesnt that sound bettr than ''oh i live with my mom?"
2007-05-08 01:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by peices cowgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if you were under 18 she could have some say, but if you are over 18, you are an adult and able to make decisions for yourself.
2007-05-08 01:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by marsha a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes mothers have a sixth sense about things, but you know you are an adult, and you will get hurt, fall in love, fall out of love and cry yourself to sleep at night (NOT YOUR MUM)
You live your life dont let your mum lead your life
2007-05-08 01:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no she cant stop you liking osmeone that is a feeling no one can change for you!!!
it is your own free will to like who you want and as you are in your early twenties you can date who you want
2007-05-08 01:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all to me mom knows best. but maybe there is a reason she don't want yo to go out with this guy. i understand u too like each other. but your mom have a problem ur an adult try talking to your mom like one insted of doing your own thing find out whats the problem if it's nothing big try and show her why u love him and he love you
2007-05-08 01:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋