OK, so I met this dude at the club on Friday and he got my number. The next day, he texted me saying "hey beautiful" and that he wanted to hang out with me that day, but I told him I couldn't. So the next day, he texted me again telling me he was gonna call me later that day, but before he did he started asking me questions such as: "What is your fav. color, your mom's name and what do you like to do?" Now, I thought that was kinda odd since he JUST told me he was gonna call me later and I figured he should ask me questions like that over the phone. Anyway, we never spoke that night, but yesterday we did. He asked me what was my middle initial and last name? Again a little odd. He told me he wants to hang out with me at least 3 times a week and and that he wants to make me his girl and to send a pic of myself to his phone, so he can show me off! Mind you, I JUST met this guy on Friday! Now please, I need your opinion on this guy, tell me if you think he seems like he may be a stalker.
2007-05-08 01:49:56 · 18 answers · asked by Essie 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, he says he's 24 and I'm 22
2007-05-08 01:56:26 · update #1
It definitely sounds odd to me. I would say it depends a little on your age and his maturity level. To me he sounds young, and it's better to follow your initial instincts on a person you meet.
2007-05-08 01:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by marsha a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me that seems a little odd since you just met. The questions about you middle initial and last name, and wanting to hang out with you at least 3 times a week seem weird for just meeting him. Maybe talk to him a little more and try to get a better sense if he is a stalker. If someone said that to my sister I would probably tell her not to talk to the guy anymore.
2007-05-08 08:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lets get Denarded in here! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think he is a stalker - maybe strange but that is the way he is - maube he just came out of a relationship and now he is not sure how to start again - he is uncomfortable with the situation - but at the end of the day - what does your mind tell u?
2007-05-08 08:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im confused if you didnt want him to call why give him the number?Most of the time when you meet someone at the club it is usually drama but he seems he wants to know you more.It can only go as far as you allow it dont you want to know his last name and things about him?He may be a good guy looking for love its not usual finding it at a club but its not impossible.You opened the door by exchanging numbers.
2007-05-08 08:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like a stalker and he might be trying to steal your identity. Make sure you have all of your credit cards and see if there is any recent activity on them. Ignore this guy completely. He's BAD news!
2007-05-08 08:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by Bood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it does sound like the guy is trying too hard...but im not sure that he is a stalker.
I think that you don't like this guy because you arent having to work at this relationship and its too easy for you.
He's a bit over the top and it doesnt sound like you really find him to be sweet (he could be sincere) and you don't really appreciate his technique.
Perhaps you should timeout this guy and let it ride for awhile.
2007-05-08 08:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you. He should have ask your address and visited you at home. Not by just texting and telling you that he wants you to be his girl. It seems to me he is not serious. Better not aswer all his texts and calls.
2007-05-08 09:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by cutiefy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT SEND YOUR PICTURE! This guy might be a freak and post in on the internet! Be carefull with your personal info that you give him - ever heard of identity theft?!
2007-05-08 08:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by AMS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um he seems weird. If he doesn't tell you why he has to know your mom's name, chances are he's weirdo, either that or he gets close to you so that he can get close to your mom. Neither is a good thing
2007-05-08 08:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by einsamkeit666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep totally sounds like the stalker type id b givin him a wide berth
2007-05-08 08:53:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋