i´m man and my friend "too", he told me if i want to have sex with him and i thought than that could be a joke and i said yes... but late but we didn´t do nothing.....
then his behavior with me change and we didn´t talk for 4 mounths.. now we talk again but when we were drinking beer he told me again if i want to have sex with him...
he touch me a lot but if i touch him he push me i dont understand what is his problem and he has a girlfriend...
that is normal what do you think????
2007-05-08 18:08:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow, that is a dilemma. He's a close friend and has a girlfriend. When does he usually mention this? I ask because you did mention that he discloses this information when he's drunk. Drinking can be a catalyst for "revealing" true feelings. Has he ever discussed with you at length about any of his curiosities of same sex relationships? It could be that he is trying to either tell you he's attracted to you and embarrassed. Or, it could be that he's living a double life. Most young men try to fit into a particular mold to keep from being different. What we may think as obvious may not be so obvious to that particular individual. Sounds like he's trying to keep up appearances by dating women and "joking" with his friends. Why would he not speak to you for 4 months, if he was not struggling with his sexual identity?
2007-05-08 18:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by smiles331 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably confused about his sexual preference. Do not push him. Let him make his decision on his own. Sometimes it takes people awhile to know what they truly feel inside. Maybe he is just denying it to himself. Eventually he will know what he wants.
2007-05-09 01:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you have a hidden desire to check this out. Give it a try and see what your real feelings are no harm done...
2007-05-09 01:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by ancientcityentertainment 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE is just being an ahole. He just wants to be playing games. I say, start playing around with him first. Good Luck!!!!
2007-05-09 01:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by hippie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're gay, stop hanging with this guy...and no, it's not NORMAL.
2007-05-09 01:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by miri-miri-off-the-wall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..he wants you. Or he's a really lousy drunk.
2007-05-09 01:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he is having trouble deciding if he is gay or not
2007-05-09 01:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_4_dale 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋