Family & Relationships - 8 May 2007

my wife is pregnant and having a hard time. i started a new job a few months ago and enjoy the people i work with (all men by the way). i come home saying that we were talking about this and that. i want to share my day with her. she keeps saying i don't want to hear about how good your day was because i've felt like puking all day. Then she proceeds to say things like "well if you like those guys why don't you just go down on them or fudge pack them in the back of their cars if you like them so much". I understand how she feels and i tried to tell her that i do. My point is this when i told her that i understand how she feels don't swear at me. she can be upset but not swear and say really crappy things. she said "you just arent supportive at all". I am but it's hard to be when she's being nasty as hell. How should I react? just swallow it for her sake or something else?

2007-05-08 14:08:29 · 15 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know it sounds silly and nothing compared to what others are going through but in a way I feel like I am abused. I am ignored. I dont want to whine about it as I feel ashamed for even mentioning it because he doesnt hit me or call me names. I was just wondering what other people might think. He doesnt say good bye in the mornings, doesnt say good night, doesnt tell me where he's going, doesnt call when he's going to belate. We dont talk when he is home, he falls asleep five minuts after getting home or he goes outside to work on his van. All day all night. I feelHe gets up on weekends and just goes about his merry ol business. Never thinks of me in any way shape or form. I feel like a nothing. He has put my ideas down for years so now I have no confindence at all. I wanted to go to school but he said that he would not pay for it. Does this sound like abuse or am I just being a whiner? Im so sorry to complain. I dont know. If you dont mind could you please give me your honest opinion

2007-05-08 14:04:21 · 24 answers · asked by My_Two_Centz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a Mom, I live in California and I have a six year old daughter. My daughter has just informed me that a 14yr old boy (her step-father's cousin) had kissed with his tongue. As she is stating this she mentioned that she was used to it. So I believe it is not the only time this has happened. I called the Sheriff's department to report it, apparentally it is not against the law for a 14yr old boy to french kiss a 6yr old child. I don't understand how there was no law being broken. I called Child Protective Services and they stated it was out of there jurisdiction because they don't live together. I feel like no one is doing anything about this. What if he does it again? What if its not all that he has done? The deputy said if I want him to talk with my child and then the 14yr he would...your d*mn right I do! Is it like this everywhere? Is it ok for teenages to french kiss children? Someone please help me understand....

2007-05-08 13:57:47 · 14 answers · asked by affinity26 2 in Family

For 17 years I struggled as a single Mom, and worked my way through all the crappy jobs, to keep my kids in there home, and to keep a certain lifestyle. A year ago I finally got the dream job, with the good pay, benifits, retirement, and was going to be able to be financially stable, and my husband, and kids, and myself, would'nt have wanted for anything. But Just because, somebody didnt like me, for no reason, and got me fired, it affected all our lives. I was devastated, and had to go on medication, and have not been able to work for a year. After working all those years to meet the goal, and to get there, just to have it taken away, and have to start all over. Now my 17 year old daughter got mad at me, and said, hurtful things about me not working. How I just sit in the chair and watch soap opera's, and put money into the yard,and she had to get a job, because I can't. She keeps all her money, so I don't know what she is talking about.

2007-05-08 13:57:37 · 63 answers · asked by Sunday 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean , is there ever a time when there are no feelings left ?

2007-05-08 13:50:08 · 13 answers · asked by kramer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He has lost interest in sex. I thought he might be having an affair but he tells me he is not and I can find no proof of it. He has always been honest with me. Anyway, I asked to use his body for my sexual gratification and while he was able to maintain an erection, he never climaxed...even after I gave him oral. I tried intercourse and oral for over 10 minutes but he never even breathed heavy. He says that he just doesn't feel sensitive down there. What might be wrong with him?

2007-05-08 13:43:18 · 14 answers · asked by mackinawmissy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

whose is suppose to pay and put on the rehersal dinner in a wedding. Is it the grooms parents, brides parents or the best man?

2007-05-08 13:41:00 · 14 answers · asked by msmajesty18 1 in Weddings

2007-05-08 13:39:53 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-05-08 13:39:53 · 32 answers · asked by Arya993 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a bf but my two bff hook me up whit 20 boy and the problem is that they are all bff i did'nt knew till 2day and if i break up w/ them they be hurt and if they find out they are going to get hurt wet should i do ????

2007-05-08 13:39:44 · 14 answers · asked by lil pimp ^ on here 1 in Friends

2007-05-08 13:39:37 · 13 answers · asked by Amanda D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Then please help me to understand what is. I want you to understand my point before you jump the gun. I know that teamwork is important and so is communication. There are several other things like companionship, etc. However these things are rarely the bases for divorce. An affair is the leading cause for divorce and has always been. So my question is for those who say that "there are more important things than sex". What is the most important factor in your realationship and would it be the bases for divorce?

2007-05-08 13:38:59 · 23 answers · asked by dadgonewild 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Almost all my friends are emo. I've been friends with them forever but they want me to be emo too. UGGGGH....................... HELP PLEASE!

2007-05-08 13:38:53 · 16 answers · asked by rosebabi478 1 in Friends

Today would be my 10 year anniversary, but my husband and I were divorced about 1 year ago. I feel really depressed, and I've done things since my divorce to keep my mind off of it. The month that my divorce was finalized a took a 6 month trip around Europe, Asia, and Africa seeing all the places I wanted to see but never had. Then when I got back, I moved out of the house he and I lived together in, and I got a roomate. Then I got a new job, and I've really gotten my life straightened out. But today, I feel unusually depressed. Should I go back to my therapist that I went to before my divorce was finalized? Or will this mood pass, and it is completely normal? Any other divorcees that know what I'm feeling?

2007-05-08 13:33:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

as you read, answer and ask all these questions, what are you thinking? Or just what are you thinking about at the moment
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and no im not bored, im depressed and this is better than doing some stuff ppl do when they are depressed you know
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thanks

2007-05-08 13:32:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have already broken my hymen and I have tried to have sex three times and each time im in tears when he isnt even half way in. and it isnt just the guy because i have tried with two different guys. help?!?!

2007-05-08 13:29:37 · 52 answers · asked by Reese 2 in Singles & Dating

my brother and sister.he never contacts them they ar both under 10yrs ,he last time they went 2 visit my granny .they was there for about a week and my dad only so them for about 10 hours .does he really want to have anything to do with him?he is an alcholic and has a new wife the situasion is very bad.he does say that he misses them and wants to be with them ,but when hee has the chance he would rather be with his wife.im not going into,to much detales because if i did i would be here for ever hehe.thanx.and sorry about some of the spelling im dislexic thanks agen for baring with me.xxxx

2007-05-08 13:29:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my husband has not had sex with me in 5 months, Is this normal? He is always stressed out and helps care for out two kids. I asked him why, he says he is always to tired. I will end up divorced if this keeps up..he is always home, but do you think he is cheating or just needs help mentally?

2007-05-08 13:29:28 · 64 answers · asked by josiejo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my hubby wants a divorce we have been married for almost 7 years i told him ok if that is what he wants. my problem is why doesn't it seem to be affecting me i mean i haven't cried or really even cared about it one way or another. is this a normal reaction. we didn't have a bad marriage we are best friends and still are we still talk about everything. we only had three arguments in the whole time we have been married . his wanting a divorce is coming from out of the blue so why am i not upsit about it. every one keeps asking me if i am ok about this and the truth is right now i am fine. has any one else felt this way

2007-05-08 13:27:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mom babysits my niece. My mom was diagnosed w/breast cancer. I told my sister, my mom can't baby sit my niece any longer, because my mom can't deal w/the stress. My mom has a huge heart and is willing to continue to baby sit my niece. I have another sister that is willing to babysit my niece, just to give my mom a break. However, my sister, (the mom of my niece) continued to bring my niece to my mom. I talked to my sister and told her that was wrong, that she was not thinking w/the right mind by still briging her child to my mom as my mom has cancer and needs zero stress. My sister got very upset and claims I'm blaming my niece for my mom's cancer. I never blamed her. My sister told me she wants me away from her daughter and she also said her husband, my brother in law, also wants me away. I love my niece w/all my heart and it hurts me so much to come home and find my niece wanting to greet me happily and my sister tells her to go to her, she doesn't let her be close to me.

2007-05-08 13:24:57 · 2 answers · asked by Joy 1 in Family

I just found that my mom isn't in love with my dad anymore.
She doesn't really treat him that kindly.
I mean, she's not mean to him, just a little concieted sometimes.
He is out of state right now, for my cousin's barmitzvah.
So she was telling me how she thinks my dad is a little
sad because she is not saying "I misss youu!!"
I asked her why she doesn't miss him.
And then we had a little confersation and it turns out she isn't attracted to my dad anymore because he is fat.
Which is stupid because he isn't like 300 pounds with blubber all over his legs and arms. He just has a potbelly.
She said if he worked out, and got into shape, she might
have some lust for him.
I'm really upset. She seems so fine with it!

&&I know for a fact they don't have $ex anymore.

2007-05-08 13:24:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a whopping six (One of which is "Go, go Power Rangers" for gags). I need songs that she doesn't really listen to and talk some-what about love but what we listen to is so similar that she would know all of the ones I wish I could put on.

NO:
RAP
POP
COUNTRY
CLASSIC

2007-05-08 13:21:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband and I have been together for almost four years we just bought a new house in September ..and noticed a great change in his personality he was treating me very disrespectful I thought it was the stress of everything then I noticed on the computer that we share that he had been deleting his history and I just wonder why .I never said anything to him ...when one day I was checking send mail and found an e-mail from another woman he claims he knew nothing about it but it was addressed to him ...in the e-mail he asked her to lunch, the e-mail was dated November 6 he Started a new job on that date ..,he said they never went to lunch I don't know whether to believe him or not ....he denied the whole thing saying that someone set him up but that wasn't possible there was three emails one writing to her and then her answering and then him asking her to lunch ....I don't feel I can trust him now ......I never believed that he would do something like this

2007-05-08 13:19:10 · 18 answers · asked by Just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

( I am 11.)

2007-05-08 13:18:00 · 19 answers · asked by mmsgirl_2014 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i can talk to any guy however i want and say what i want and be perfectly comfortable but with the guy i LIKE, im just like this retarted shy girl! i dont want him to think im like that, how can i talk with him better? anything i can say to him to start a convo?

2007-05-08 13:17:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure what my question is. but i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. and we both love each other so much!! He lives 30 minutes away, his mom hates me, i don't see him for but once a week, and he works, so i barly get to talk to him, so last night when he got home he said we would have all day to talk(it's happened other time also) then he says he is going over his friends and he'll call me later. here is the thing.. he called me talked to me 15 minutes.. since his mom is a uber ***** he has to be off the phone by 8. so now the day that we were suppose to spend the day talking together is gone. Am I being to dramaic? what do i do?

2007-05-08 13:17:51 · 10 answers · asked by Between Two Hearts 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-08 13:14:36 · 2 answers · asked by Dani 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Are there any other ladies on here who are happy to be single?
I feel that there are so many single women out here crying and complaining that they're single and I'm very happy with it. I mean I do want someone someday...but I'm content. Anyone else tired of their friends always whining??? I mean it's like women feel that their lives and their happiness are based on if they have a man or not....do y'all feel me?

2007-05-08 13:13:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 13:12:52 · 12 answers · asked by Miss_Tash 1 in Weddings

2007-05-08 13:10:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating