I am a 24 year old pediatrician. I have naturally blonde hair, and blue eyes. I am 5'3" and 108lbs. I own, and operate my own private medical practice, and own numberous homes through-out the U.S. which I have worked for, and bought by my self. I have never been married, and don't have any kids. However I would like to get married with in the next 4 years. But it seems that no guys even want to date me. I am sweet, kind, compassionate, sucessful, fun loving, sassy at times, and I love to laugh and I smile all the time. I have the BEST family and friends in the universe too.
2007-05-08 20:42:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys, can you please explain this to me?
Thanks!
2007-05-08 20:44:57 · update #1
It usually happens when you least expect it and with the last person you least expect.
It might not be the ENT doctor you've been eying, but maybe that Mexican bartender you meet when you and your girlfriend go to Cancun in August.
2007-05-08 20:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by MoMoney23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Jillian, Woman to Woman. You don't want to tell a guy that you are a doctor and how successful you are at the age of 24. It takes a normal guy years to do what you have in such a short time. You need to act like a normal woman and if they ask you, you going to tell a little white lie. You will if you want to get marry. You can always tell him why you told a little white lie before you get to the church to be marry. The problem Jillian is you intimidate men. Always be yourself but don't tell what you do or the success you have. Believe me this is how you will get a guy and keep him. Good Luck My Friend.
A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-05-09 04:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given that it takes 4 years of undergrad education, 4 years of medical school, and 3 years of residency before you can operate your own private medical practice as a pediatrician (at least in the U.S.), either you're also a genius because you started college at age 13, or completed 11 years of higher education in 6 years. Or, 'somethin's fishy.
2007-05-09 03:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by livingwell 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmm....maybe when you date, you're giving off the vibe that you want to get serious fast? When you date guys, make sure that you can be fun w/ them in the beginning (i think the first 4 months constitutes the "beginning")-I wouldn't even bring up the "M" bomb (marriage) or the "S" bomb (serious relationship). If guys know they can have fun w/ you, they'll want to date you and get serious...in time.
What I"m saying is you know your agenda, but don't let THEM know it till you know that you and Mr. Right are hitting it off. Don't be like in the first two weeks, "So where is this relationship going? What are you looking for?" Guys run for the hills when they hear "Serious RElationship" too soon
Anyway, you sound like a successful together with-it type of lady-good luck in the sharky dating world.
2007-05-09 03:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be a very stunning lady, Guys tend to be almost victimized by a successful woman. It's that Guy thing again, nothing to do with you. Don't try to hard to find a guy the right guy will come along when you least expect it. You will catch someones eye, But don't try to push it to much. Guys can think that they are being intimidated by you. May be that when guys see you and look they may very well think to them selves, Now there's a classy lady the guy who is with her must be a luck guy. I know it is difficult for a lady to approach a man it's usually the other way around. When you meet a guy for the first time try to talk about his job and his ambition try to keep off the subject of your job etc. Let things flow don't try to push to hard. you are young and love will come just be yourself.
Dr Knowitall
2007-05-09 03:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by coofooman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have achieved all this and you're only 24 the men probably think they can't give you anything. When you do meet a man don't blurt out that you have achieved all this. I also hope you don't have an high and mighty attitude to go with it. Men hate that. But just chill when you meet someone and don't just talk about you. Good Luck.
2007-05-09 03:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by golden tigress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem with you. I can name hundreds of guys that would dream to be with a girl of your description. The problem might be your perception. You may be too picky or you don't give certain guys a chance. Just start slow and go out more, guys will come up.
2007-05-09 03:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by cal_stateuniversity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want it that bad go on an internet dating site, if you dont swing that way then be a bit more flirtatious get out more get your friends to hook you up with some of the mates, when the times right it will happen
2007-05-09 03:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by hello everyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you but it may be the fact that you are only 24 and have accomplished so much. Most guys are probably too afraid to even approach you.
2007-05-09 03:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're a great catch. Don't stress, someone will come along, just make sure the person you choose is good enough for you and just as intelligent and successful.
2007-05-09 03:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by Sunny 1st 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋