I'm Fat,not too handsome & ugly.But I'm reliable,kind & trustworthy,I wanna propose to a girl,How?Help me!!!

Question

I'm having trouble like most guys did, to propose my feelings to a girl. The problem is I think she is way outta my league. But I gotta try.. or I'll never find out about her feeling and I want to make sure that I'm worthy for her. Can you Guys give me some suggestion, tactics or advices? Anything would be appreciated. Preferable answers from girls.

Answer 1

Just give it a go - be tactful - and you have nothing to loose

Answer 2

Well, I may be outta touch with this since I am a generation behind. however, I would say a very good starting point is to " Not say things like I am Fat, Not to Handsome & Ugly"
I think, rather than pointing out what you're not you should point out what you are. But also remember you are not buying a Camery. it is not solely based on features included, and how well its going to hold up over time. Relationships are primarily based on Chemistry. if that don't work the rest won't matter.
The best perception people can have of you is the best perception you have of yourself.

Answer 3

I was married to a beautiful man before and have dated men most people would consider fat/unattractive. The beautiful man turned out to be a major pain in the *ss, and the "ugly" man was someone I was genuinely attracted to. Still, you will have more opportunities, and quicker, if you make the most of whatever you have...be it brains, looks, kindness, etc. If you are overweight, then get in shape. Most people are attracted to those who take care of themselves. Would YOU be attracted to YOU? If not, then work on those things. We are all a work in progress....and not everyone is attracted to those who just happen to be lucky in the gene pool and have nothing else to show for their life...or no substance. At this stage in my life, I actually don't want the hassle of being with a gorgeous man. I"d much prefer an avg. guy with a good heart.

Answer 4

Hmm...Well, first off... are you guys in a relationship? Your looks won't matter to a woman who loves you and is willing to call you her boyfriend. A man of character is far more sexy than a man with great abs. Sure, women like men who take pride in themselves, but it isn't the deal breaker for most. Don't say she is out of your league purely based on the physical. If you know that you love this woman and she is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, (don't just settle because you think she is too good for you) and the feeling is mutual, than go for it. Make the day, or evening, special. Take her to a nice resturant, then to a place that is special to you both

Answer 5

I'm a guy and I will drop my realistic two pennies.

if you are fat and not attractiive, yet not ugly, you will face complication... I'll be watching to see how many people thumb me down, too. I don't care, because i know this is true.

Initially, if the girl is slim or average and is extremely pretty, you have no chance there, pal. When a girl says appearance doesn't matter to her, approach her intimately and see what she tells you. Bet she says, " Well, I am not into having a relationship right now, but I'll let you know when I am ready."

If an attractive guy approaches her, she won't be saying that.

Answer 6

If I am the girl, I would want you to tell me what’s actually on your mind? Proposing to a girl in an abrupt manner can scare her away. To be honest, sometimes looks do matters coz we will be seeing each other every single second, under one roof in years to come. Try be her friend first, and if she does a disappearing act on you, I don’t think that’s the girl you want to be with.

Answer 7

Well a diet would be a good idea regardless of wanting to be with a girl---at your age you should not be fat--change what you eat--it is about time to grow up--you aren't a child. Plenty of people like you are dating and marrying---there is no rule about only male models getting married or dating. She may say yes--and she may say no--take the shot. dress nice, wash your hair, brush your teeth--stand tall and be proud of who you are--ask like a man. If she says NO--just thank her and try someone else. Hey we all get shot down once in a while....that's life. If she is really out of your league, don't set yourself up to be a failure---you may not even like her after all the trouble......Have a plan--if she says yes--where will you go--what will you do?? Stand up and be a man..relax, smile and good luck

Answer 8

If you are at the place in your relationship where it's time to propose, don't think about weight and looks, it doesn't matter past the first few dates. Don't just blurt it out, but don't drag it out all night, either. Think about your relationship, what about it do you like the most? What does she mean to you? Tell her that, and then propose.
Best of luck to you both.

Answer 9

Tell her with some flowers and a card that you have deep feelings for her and stop putting yourself down! Love matters to- you know and if she does not appreciate you then someone else will. As for what Reality said got an extra beer for me as i am getting sick of love myself and we can drink to love of the beer. Maybe i would die sooner but what the heck!

Answer 10

Not all girls go for the appearance. There are many couples out there who look exactly the opposite of each other - handsome guy with ordinary looking wife or vice-versa.

Answer 11

fat n ugly......do u have a good personalty? i gues that cud make up 4 it. i think u shud definetly go 4 it tho. u sound lik u have low selfesteem - fix it. confidence is attractive. do u talk to this chik? if u dont, get ot know her. show her what a great guy u r. n then if she warms up to u then go in 4 the kill
good luck buddy