he wont talk to me about it!!!?

Question

When i was cleaning the house eg. bathroom
I looked my bf's draw for a condom that i knew there.
But it was gone...............
So i txt him & asked him where did it go.
his reply ............ dont worry i used it on myself
it kind of upset me , but i know guys do it the thing is
i now asked him y he did it n do i not satisfy him enuf
he yells and says i dont have to talk to you bout this
wat wat wat help wat does it mw mean or just any help to wat i have said plzzz

Answer 1

Guys don't like to use condoms as it is,and to put one on to jerk off is the most lamest excuse i have ever heard. By him not willing to talk about it tells you right there that he is guilty as hell. Your man is cheating on you, but you will let him get away with it because he'll tell you he has never cheated on you and you will believe him. Like we all do that's how they get away with it,because we play dumb.

Answer 2

Okay, it is unusual, but it does happen.

I've used a condom on myself before. It felt good,and I didn't have a big mess to deal with later.

However, most guys are embarrassed or humiliated when their partner asks them about masturbation. I'm 38, have an extremely active sex life, and still masturbate daily. It doesn't mean I don't want my wife, most of the time its her I fantasize about, it just means I need 2-3 minutes of just ME time.

Still, you should talk about it, but understand he's going to be defensive. Whether he used it on himself, or with someone else, its going to be hard to talk to him about it.

You've already questioned him and put him in this place by asking if you "do .. not satisfy him enuf" He probably is satisfied, but for guys, an orgasm can be a great relaxer during the middle of a stressful day. And doing himself means he's not faced with the pressure of making sure you get off too.

so, talk.

If he did use it on himself, be gentle and understanding, and dont get offended and hurt.

If he used it on someone else, Get Out!

Answer 3

It sounds shady to me, i thought men don't use condoms on their selves when they ejaculate, and it is also pretty shady that he won't talk to you about it. If you two are really close he shouldn't have a problem talking to you about an issue like that because he know that you are his girlfriend and you of course will be concerned about where the condom went. I say wait a minute until he cool off but keep a tab on him nonetheless (if you know what I mean) and try to talk to him again,if he refuses to talk to you then you do not play an important role in his life and need to consider other options male-wise.

Answer 4

It means that he's sleeping with someone else. You know it. Otherwise he would have had a better excuse. You caught him off guard. The thing is, what are you going to do with this information? Either use it, or lose it. Trying to "catch" him is only going to drive you crazy and drive both of you further apart. If he won't talk about it when he gets home, consider getting out before you catch a disease.

Answer 5

So you looked for the condom (you suspected something).
The condom was gone.
It was important enough to text your bf right away.
He gives you an answer but you push for more info.
What did you want him to say?
What did you expect??

Do you believe him?
If not, you need to decide what you want for yourself... you either let it go & forget about it - or let him go.

Answer 6

So he used it to jack off?? Who cares, better than using it with your best friend.
He needs to get his rocks off more often than your allowing.

Answer 7

you suspicion is correct
because he get upset that meant he did something wrong

Answer 8

because he's probably cheating on you.