Hi, my job demands travelling a lot. Many times my secretary travels with me and she is also married. Of late, she is trying to indulge with me...... Of course, She is a real cute girl. She promises that she will keep things secret. Should I go for that? Only during weekends, I am at home and you can imagine, what I loose in this life......
2007-05-08 21:10:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok, kudos for not going ahead doing it. I'm impressed.
No, it's not right. You KNOW it's not right that's why you're asking people. It will always come back to bite you, TRUST ME. I've been in a simliar situation (actually recently). Please don't, someone always finds out or she gets caught and her husband tries to beat you up or something. Or if you've watched enough TV you know she might be like 'HE MADE ME!" and nex thing you know you're in court for assault/rape.
Don't do it, too much can go wrong long term for a sweet little short term. Just get a hobby or go to a gym or somewhere to meet ppl.
Good luck, make the right decision!!! Think about KHARMA! lol
2007-05-08 21:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am gonna guess that this "girl" is young. Here is my suggestion. Get things a little "hotter" at home. try AFF if you don't know what it is email me and i will explain. Drop some hints to the wifey see if maybe she might be interested in a little 3way. dont just come out and ask her !! just start getting a little more freaky than usual for a week or so.. then kick it up another notch.. who knows maybe BOTH of you can indulge!!
2007-05-09 04:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your fault that you travel a lot meaning you are responsible for what you 'lose in this life'.
Don't mess up your wife's life just because you can't keep you pants zipped.
These types of arrangements always have a way of leaking out, so do as you please but just be prepared when the **** hits the fan (you being the fan ofcourse and also the **** because you asked this dumb question)..
2007-05-09 06:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by sexybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will definately enjoy today but she is married This will definately cause problem later.
Do you like her, respect her as human.
How would you feel when situation occurs
Are you both prepared to handle things that are to come out of this.
Why do you think you donot have other better choices
you can be a friend to her and explain her dangers of this or is she prepared to divorce her husband .
2007-05-09 04:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by prajakta s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it's wrong and that you shouldn't do it. Whether you give in or not is entirely up to you - sounds like she'll go along with anything. I suggest you take your wife now and again to help resist temptation, or get a secretary who won't tempt you.
2007-05-09 04:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sunny 1st 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a lot Cheaper to hire another Secretary than it would be to Divorce your Wife Mate.
2007-05-09 04:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by ashymojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself if you're willing to lose your marriage over an affair with your secretary. If you do this, sooner or later, your wife will find out and then she will have every right to divorce you. Just know what you're risking, and if you are willing to risk your marriage, it's time to get help to make it better or get divorced.
2007-05-09 04:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man don't do it... if you want to have something with her let your wife go.. would you like it if your wife has an affair while you were out making the money? please that is out of the question. don't do to others what you don't want done to you... this woman knows your married and she is asking for an affair what kind of decent woman would put her self out like that. Think about it things always have a way of coming back at you... Don't do it... Good luck.
2007-05-09 09:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..... it is tempting..
But seriously.. you should NOT... because you are jeopardizing your working relationship as well as ruiningher LIFE.. plus hurting her family.
If you use your head to think..I am sure you know the answer. You do not want to be in the shoe of your secretary's husband.
take care..
2007-05-09 05:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by trymejames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. Just think if the same happens for your wife, how you would feel. It is the matter of what logic tells you and what your feeling demand. Just follow your logic.
2007-05-09 04:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by lost-in-love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋