I love this girl very much and i have tried my level best and even told her that i loved her so much but still she ... I have many female friends and they trust me a lot I am guy who is not a pervert and they know even if i ever touch them its not a bad thing. But still the girl i love does'nt feel the same for me. I came to know she hangs out with a pervert((without knowing) and she sometimes even goes alone with him. Even i am cool ,rich , and don't look bad. What do you think is the problem, i would be happy to know your opinions
2007-05-06 18:35:20 · 16 answers · asked by samir 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Asking a chick a question like this will get a very predictable answer - and a very wrong answer - because most chicks are too stupid to understand what drives their innate desires
The reality is most chicks are hardwired via their DNA to subconsciously be attracted to controlling, deceptive, and cheating jerks - ones who in effect can offer the exciting and illusive promise of genetic immortality
Whereas monogamous "nice guys" are deemed evolutionary dead-ends and thus boring
Seed spreading males simply had better odds for 5 milllion years and chicks via their DNA "understand" this and react via their chemistry
2007-05-06 19:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a complicated thing, I have many male friends that feel that because they are the "nice guy" they are destined to be alone because girls only like jerks. While it is true that all girls go through this phase, I can assure you that it doesn't last forever (I married a nice guy). And I have to say that even if you are perfect, rich, handsome, nice; that doesn't guarantee that she will love you. It isn't like a resume where the most qualified wins in the end. My advice is be patient and keep looking. Pining after someone who doesn't want you will never end up well.
2007-05-06 18:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ann J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be the most awesome and amazing guy in the world, but there will still be girls that are not attracted to you. Try not to take it personally. Everyone has their own preferences and there's nothing you can do to make someone fall in love with you if they don't have romantic feelings for you. The sooner you move on the better off you'll be. Wouldn't you rather be with someone who reciprocates your feelings?
2007-05-06 18:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can tell you is that if she doesnt feel the same about
you then maybe you should sit back and let nature happen.
you cant force a girl into loving or even liking you. If shes hanging out with a pervert than maybe you should tell her
and if she doesnt believe you than let her find out on her own
but dont push her because that may be what she likes!!
2007-05-06 19:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you read my answer, understand you arnt going to like what I say. Thats because im not going to sugar coat it for you :)
Unfortunly due to the fact that you probally have been silver spooned your whole life (thats a saying meaning you grew up somewhat spoilt) you may think that acting in a certain way having cerain amounts of things will make you the perfect man for her. Time to wake up now :) it doesnt work that way.
For starters be yourself. If you have been posing all this time its going to be hard. Find yourself and work from there, its possible that you dont even like her after all that. If you still like her and she doesnt like you for you then move on. There is no use in wasting your energy on her if she isnt going to like you back
2007-05-06 18:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I appreciate real love..
But sometimes the person that you love doesn't love you back.
Years ago when I was single, this guy liked me a lot, probably he thought he loved me. I didn't feel the same way. I broke up with him and was honest with and told him I d idn't feel the same way for him. He claimed he loved me so much that he would wait for me forever. Well, I never did fall in love with him and he did get married eventually like 10 years later.
So he did find someone he fell in love.
2007-05-06 18:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by ACME 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Like: Fun to hangout with likes to do physical activities like sports, or swimming, snowboarding/ski attractive honest clean both outside of body and inside smart not completely against physical relations dislikes: dumb smelly ***** gets around doesn't want to do anything just wants to hangout but won't do anything how she acts on her period how parents act
2016-05-17 07:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea girls do appreaciate real love sometimes, but it depends if the love is real or not. have u known her for quite long, and if you do seriously like then u should tell her and if shes still not interested then find sumone else becoz shes obviously not into u.
2007-05-06 18:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by ask n u shall receive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't pay any attention to you after all the ways that you've demonstrated your love for her then i think you can do better and that just means that she's not worth you loving her and your love shouldn't be wasted on her.
2007-05-06 18:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Sexychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you. Someone once told me, your not truly in love unless the other person loves you back.
2007-05-06 18:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋