I like to have sex with different men, especially (but not always) when drinking . After the first or second meeting I usually lose interest. I like the persuit more than the actual sex itself most of the time. Sometimes I even have sex with different men on the same day. I can't seem to get enough.
Some of my friends say that I am just a big slut but personally I don't see much wrong with enjoying my sexuality.
This is a serious question, please refrain from smart *** remarks.
2007-05-06 18:23:06 · 42 answers · asked by TinaAnne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should add that I am 31 yrs old. Thank you everyone for your safe sex concerns, I always use protection.
2007-05-06 18:35:45 · update #1
You are a serious whore.
2007-05-06 18:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
The biggest concern I have for you is STDs or STIs which is what they are called now. What you are doing is very risky to your health, especially because with many STIs people can look symptom free, which makes you think they are healthy. Make sure you use protection, and although it may be awkward since it seems like you hardly know these people, I would attempt asking them even though they may not be honest with you. Also don't lose your respect. You can get a reputation from being sexually active and there will be people who try to take advantage of that. They are likely not to take you seriously if you say no, which can result in rape.
Morally, people have a range of different standards. If your behavior is not emotionally hurting you or anyone else then I don't think there is anything wrong with it if you don't.
If you don't want your friends criticizing you about it then I would try to keep a lower profile and not flaunt that you are having sex with so many men...(if you even are in the first place). Everyone has their own comfort levels so they need to realize that and let you do what you want.
But once again, the most important thing is for you to stay healthy so always use protection and try to communicate with your partners before you engage in sexual activities. It will help you avoid a whole mess of problems in the future.
2007-05-06 18:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by Steeler17 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmms in my opinion u are quite normal. since u said u like the pursuit more than the sex which means u dun really require the sex but u only desire for it n its quite normal. Especially if ur abt the age of 14 to 18 then i will be veri normal cos tat tis age ur hormosomes are still developing n so u will be curious abt such things...
and of cos u actually wan sex after drinks cos it makes u veri comfortable after drinking, so wanting sex after drinking is ver normal...
wad u can do is get e regular sex partner n dun keep getting different people, as in get a boyfren or a sex buddy then u can hav sex wif the same person and this reduces the risk of sexual diseases and ur frens wudn't say ur a slut anymore.
(plz dun count tis as a smart *** remark ok?)
2007-05-06 18:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by tired guy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nymphomania is more common then people think. Some Psychiatrists would suggest that you were abused somehow as a youth, or had a missing figure in your life. However, to diagnose would mean I believe sex as something bad (or had a diploma to do diagnosing which I DO NOT). I personally applaud you for embracing your sexuality and even more then that, enough to openly be honest about who you are. Men do what you do and they are perceived as conquerors. Don't be ashamed, just be smart and most of all SAFE.
2007-05-06 18:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I read this I thought of someone I knew that was just like you but for her she used sex to hide other issues that were going on in her life. If you are questioning it I think the best thing for you to do is figure out the "why" behind it. Are you having sex b/c you really do like it or is there something else going on. Perhaps you are a sex addict and the next thing for you to do is talk to someone. No matter what comes out of this just remember to practice safe sex and don't degrade yourself. Come to terms with who you are and why you are that way and then figure out what direction you need to go in and if this is the path you still want to be on then accept it and don't allow others to question you on it.
2007-05-06 18:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by sm4u_us 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u do have a problem & its going to lead u into dangerous grounds such as contracting AIDS & HIV.
u may then say that u use protection but as u should know that no protection has a 100% garentee.
its alright to enjoy ur sexuality, even if u want sex all day but the problem lies in doing so with a whole lot of partners.
U need to find a man that can hold your interest and keep up with ur sexual side, and they are out there.
every action has its consiquences do u want yours to be in hospital, thin, completly sick and unable to enjoy what u love most?? (not a wise-crack)
2007-05-06 18:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There isn't any thing wrong with enjoying sex, and I don't believe there really is such a thing as too much. Sex is a beautiful and wonderful thing and half the fun is the pursuit. The main caution for you is to be careful who you do it with. You don't want to catch youself with an STD and that could keep yourself from ever having sex again. Eventually you will find someone that you will want to be with for the rest of you life and sex with that person will always be great.
2007-05-06 18:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are a natural slut. You are a female man- live for sex. It is up to you what you choose to do with your life though. Do you feel guilty after sex? If you do, then you should be concerned but if not then you are probably ok.
2007-05-07 15:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by james 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be safe... there are a lot of "things" going around these days, protect yourself.
Treat your body like it's sacred... it is!!! If you want all of these different men "inside you" then that's you.. I'm non judgemental, but maybe you should examine the reasons you are like you are!!
If you want to change, maybe you should seek counseling or at least talk to a non-judgemental friend or family member.
2007-05-06 18:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by tilaboo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do you regret these encounters afterwards? drinking tends to make some people make decisions they normally wouldn't. this type of behavior is usually a sign of someone who has very low self esteem and is fooling herself into mistaking sex for love. years ago i used to feel the same way about there being nothing wrong with 'enjoying my sexuality' but as i matured i realized all i had done was cheapen myself. men had no respect for me and told their friends i was easy. they would want sex but they wouldn't be seen with me as far as taking me out, or meeting their family or friends. today i enjoy my sexuality but with just one person. the man who truly loves, values and respects me. my husband.
2007-05-06 18:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by CRYSTAL L21 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think u have smthg seriously wrong, smthg u r trying to heal/ avoid by leading such a sex life. there is not s single word of emotions/feelings involved. and u talk about men as a sex toy rather then humans. ever thought why u never allow urself to get emotionally involved, and just rush to sex?
2007-05-06 18:30:52 · answer #11 · answered by lord 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋