recently ive noticed that i tell little white lies a lot- mostly too my friends and i really dont like to lie to them but its always just something that would either hurt their feeling or they are being nosy and if I told the truth it would be embarassing so i just make up a little story-but the I feel really bad but its just so much simpler than trying to explain it to them!
like when my friend asked me if my other friend hadnt had a bday party or if she had and just hadnt been invited...akward cause my friend had had a party and not invited her but i wasnt about to hurt her feelings so i just said that she had done some family party-bad? is it worth hurting someones feelings or being embarrased about something stupid that no one really cares about just to tell the truth???
2007-05-06 08:39:44 · 2 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is always best to be truthful. Although your friend's feelings might have been hurt it her lack of invitation to a party was not your doing. Do you know why she was not invited? Did you know before the party that she was not invited? Is she a good enough friend that you would have asked for her to be invited or asked why she wasn't? You haven't really said if the friend was a good enough friend of the party-giver to have been invited. It is the perogative of the inviter whom they chose to invite. But if you really like her as s friend then be a better one and be honest with her.
2007-05-06 08:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emily, First off you have a beautiful name ! Hon I know what you mean but I am happy you realize there may be a problem ! Truth is, A lie by any name is still a lie. It is number 9 on the ten commandments.Thing is the truth hurts sometimes,but the truth is never wrong ! On judgement day we will recieve our reward for our honesty ! In Jesus name love,Kenny M.
2007-05-06 16:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋