Right or Wrong?

Question

I've been trying to attend a church here in my area, but I've had a hard time finding one. So, one of the girls at work invited me to her church 3 weeks ago but I never attended, due to the fact that I had trouble with the driving directions. My Girlfriend, doesn't want for me to attend church with that girl, because she doesn't like and trust the her. Especially because I've cheated on her in the past. She tells me to find a different church. Well Today after I left my girlfriend at work this morning I met with the girl outside of work and we took off in our separate cars to church. After church we both headed in our own seperate ways. Know if me girlfriend finds out about me meeting someone else behind her back, all hell will break loose. Eventhough Nothing bad happened. Did I do the right or wrong thing?

Answer 1

Going to church doesn't equal cheating. Having friends of the opposite sex doesn't equal cheating. Going to church with a friend of the opposite sex doesn't equal cheating. Sounds to me like your girlfriend is a self-absorbed, insecure control freak who doesn't want you to have a life. The only thing you did wrong was not stand up to her about your rights to have friends and a life.

Answer 2

Why would you do that to your girlfriend don't you like her anymore.I no you don't respect her because if you did you wouldn't of did what you did.You also no it's wrong, why else would you hind it from her. What would you do if you fount out that your girlfriend went somewhere behind your back with some other guy the one person you told her not to go anywhere with what would you do. Would you get mad, would you get even, or would you leave her.But because it's you, you think because nothing happened it's ok, remember you cheated on her once before, if I were her I wouldn't be so forgiven this time.You deserve what you get for being a bad boy.You are not a trust worthy boyfriend to have.

Answer 3

Well at least you did not pick her up to go to church with you and then stand around talking for about 30-45 minutes with another woman. Everyone was ready to go home. I needed to get a bite to eat(diabetic) so i said a word or so to the pastor about just going on and walking home (about 3) miles. He agreed that i should lick my thumb and go so i did .The wind was blowing me away. His car door was locked. They were waiting to lock up the church. I walked a good little ways down the road and got a ride. Then i drove out to eat a bite He knew i had come and gone but left a note saving he knew i was there since i had left his bible(on the porch) he handed it to me because i guess his hands were not loaded down and he could talk more freely. I feel like when he took me to church he should have been ready to go on out the door with me. Trying to act like B/G-no need for it after today. An just think i could have stayed home and not gone though this! Next Sunday i will go for the early service-by myself! Was he right or wrong? Am i right or wrong? Just be honest with your girlfriend-that is the most important thing.

Answer 4

Yes it was wrong. I think if I would've been in the same situation I would've waited for a day that the girlfriend could've attended the church service with me, now if she finds out you said it all hell is going to break loose, you're doing nothing but digging yourself into a bigger hole.

Answer 5

You did wrong and here is why. In the past you`ve cheated on your girlfriend therefore you are on borrowed time with her. You have to show her you can be trusted and you`re reliable. She asked you not to attend this Church and you went anyway. Which indicates you can`t be trusted.

Answer 6

Trust is a big thing in a relationship! Without it there really isn't one. I believe if you love someone, trust should be there as well. If she believes in you, you shouldn't have to go behind her back. And if going to church with someone else offends her, then ask her to go to church with you, I think
church and believing in something is great and awesome and will help in the future with raising a family.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

you should be honest with your girlfriend.It's hurting on her part if she finds out what you have done.Though nothing happens but you know for a fact that she disagrees with you of going out with that girl.Talk to your girlfriend and tell her that you should be together in going to church @ the importance of Sabbath day so she will find time of going to church with you.

Answer 9

Wrong. You did something you knew your girlfriend wouldn't approve of behind her back. Just because its for church doesn't mean being deceitful is okay.

Answer 10

dude, you are a freaking liar, yes , you did a bad thing and you know it.... you want to nail the church girl... if she was disgusting and gross, you WOULD have found a different church like your girlfriend said, different cars, whatever, your girlfriend is working all day,,, YOU SUCK