I 'am agay guy and i live in acity where people cant andersatand that i almost have no friends so is there any advice to help me get along with that !!!
thank u :)
2007-05-06 23:45:52 · 9 answers · asked by freespidys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I 'am agay guy and i live in acity where people cant andersatand that i almost have no friends so is there any advice to help me get along with that !!!
and no one know that a'm agay even my perents .
so is it right to tell some one & what exactely should i tell and who whould be the right person since i have no close friend .......
thank u :)
2007-05-07 03:21:46 · update #1
Hi if i was you i would be honest about yourself and some times it is easyer to tell a female about your sexuallity . i am a straight male but do not have an issue with gay lesbian tell your parents just get them to sit down and explane why and how you and what makes you gay ..
2007-05-14 22:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by jasonrozee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still under age, all you can do is try to make friends with as many people as will accept you. Usually girls are very understanding and enjoy gay guy's company.
If you are an adult, start saving your money, and transfer jobs or start looking for jobs in a more liberal place. Usually large cities have a larger gay population, and more liberal attitudes. Good Luck!!
2007-05-06 23:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find one good friend. That's all you need. Then it won't matter what "the people in the city" think. And do be so concerned with what other people think. Most of the time it's just your own mind making you think that way, not the truth. People are more concerned about themselves than with you being gay, trust me. People have more on their minds.
2007-05-07 00:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by The Lamb of Vista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose larger figuring out I have a companion. Things are a little bit extra tricky for the reason that whilst you're unmarried, you do not manage anybody else's issues however your possess. You ought to deal with your self. Yes lifestyles is extra tricky with out a enormous different however I would not difference it for the arena!
2016-09-05 10:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to move into a community where they are more opened minded. they have gay communities in practically every city. you just need to locate it. however, if your young and want to let your parents know then dont be afraid to explain to your parents whats going on. they might turn out to be more understanding then you think. but on the other hand, we dont knwo your parents so not quite sure how well they will take it. but just be yourself and you will make plenty friends. good luck
2007-05-14 11:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie Pie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are obviously not at ease with your own sexuality and fear the rejection of others more than being true to your real self. find an online support group. try gay.com or safezonefoundation.tripod.com. there might be an organization near your town too if u key in the search words
2007-05-14 23:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by kiki68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could try going for walks and making friends with passers. It may seem a bit strange at first but you might end up with a partner. :) Good luck!
2007-05-06 23:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by hayleylovessimsxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instinct if it feels right to share with someone and they are a true friend they will be their for you. But this is a risk you have to be careful gossip is allways around.
2007-05-14 22:00:39 · answer #8 · answered by REDHOT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a lack of understanding of the gay community so many people tend to shun them.
Am sure there are gay pubs/clubs in your area, Go check them out ?
2007-05-14 21:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by aunt_webby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋