i am just 12 and how can i chase him ? mummy is ill so she cant do anything now. my sis and we r worried. he doesnt behave that good that other fathers behave 2 their family.
2007-05-06 21:52:32 · 10 answers · asked by Neeta 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i dont hav that guts 2 ask him wat is the truth ?
2007-05-06 22:05:42 · update #1
How old is ur sis???? If she is elder then tell her to ask ur father. If u r in a doubt which is not clear, then dont take iany decisions. Let ur mom be well, then she will ask him. Or do some detectivity. Coz this is wat should be done. Otherwise u cant get him red handed.
2007-05-06 22:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by || SMI || 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes fathers dont think clearly like mommy's do. We get carried away by someone we believe is better than mom.... Even worse, sometimes woman will only want him for his money or just to use him... You have to understand that your father is not trying to hurt you or it isnt that he doesnt love you... Maybe he is confused right now as to what to do. Maybe he cant see clearly because he is hurt and you dont know how..
When you see your daddy... Hug him.. Hold him tight, and tell him that you love him. Tell him that you miss him and that you dont want him to ever leave you. Tell him that he is very important in your life. He will feel your love... Love is the best weapon for anything.. good luck
2007-05-07 05:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow that is so sad and not something a 12 year old should have to worry about.
Do you have an adult (other than your mother) you can confide in and ask for help? Maybe someone that could talk to your father and let him know that YOU know and that he worrying and hurting you and the rest of your family.
*Hugs* Hope you find the help and support you need.
2007-05-07 04:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by NoSurrender 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is between your mother and dad. Of course your afraid but, there's little you can do if your mother can't do anything. At twelve years old he's not going to listen to what you have to say.
Keep your moms head above water and give her support, it's to bad but something happen in their relationship to break it down, maybe the illness.
2007-05-07 05:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is for your mom and dad. You are best not to get involved. If your mom is so sick maybe you can speak with an aunt or uncle. Otherwise you should mind your business because you may be the one getting hurt feelings.
2007-05-07 04:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by je 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is unfortunate. Just stay strong and if you need emotional support try to go to your mom for help.
Try not to get involved if you can...it's between your dad and your mom.
2007-05-07 04:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by cowmav 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey - Your heart is in the right place, but you should stay out of it. Try your best to help your mum at home. Try not to judge your dad either.
2007-05-07 05:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by pete the pirate 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is really between your parents and has nothing to do with you. If you're bothered by it, talk to him and ask him to be honest. As far as checking things out without his knowledge, you need to butt out.
2007-05-07 05:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think your mom ought to cut his nuts off.
2007-05-07 04:59:55 · answer #9 · answered by Theodore H 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
aiya you r just a child dont care adult matter
2007-05-07 05:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by sharehelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋