is homosexuality wrong!?

Question

i am a homosexual and been living with my gal for the past 3years.we both get along really well.but my parents are not agreeing for this,we've not yet married.my parents are well educated my dad a business tycoon,my mom a neurosurgeon.actually i live out of india,i'm an nonresidentialindian.wen i came last time to india i've seen this gal.she is well educated has a good family background,even we happento be distant relatives.i wanna live with her.she give's me the confidence i'm the best.we've gone to bed for atleast 6 times by now.how can i make my parents accept her.

Answer 1

There is nothing either good or bad. Thinking makes it so.
I would think that majority would tell you that it is wrong. It is looked upon as a slightly twisted and perverted form of sexuality.

Answer 2

it's not normal. You openly accept your homosexuality coz you think its right.But in most cases it's not normal. Most homosexuals turn to enjoy the opposite sex sometime or the other. Think carefully about where you're life is gonna lead you, do you value your parents' opinion in this matter?After all they seem to be experienced, successful and well-qualified people.If ever in future you are through with this phase of homosexuality then your life is gonna take another sharp twist.If you still think you are right and are definitely going to be a homo all your life then sit your parents down and tell them about it very clearly.Mebbe you can ask your gal for help in convincing them. by da way you haven't clearly specified whether the gal from India is the same gal whom you've been living with.If not then think about the other gal before you decide about marrying one,adultery is wrong even among homos.Personally I would say that homosexuality is wrong, morally and even from the health point of view.
Being an Indian homo girl from a good background you can be sure that you'll be in for a verry difficult and complicated life even if you are an NRI.So, think again!.

Answer 3

That is what happen when u try to change the rule of nature! Simple.....YOU CANT! Look closely around u. How mankind destroy mother nature and what are the consequences! U will never win, that's 4 sure! As 4 me...it has been and will be Adam & Eve, none other.

Answer 4

We can never make other people accept our values, we have to show them that our values have credibility and worth for us. Homosexuality is not wrong it is simply an alternative to the norm whether it be by natural predisposition or by choice. If two people truly care for each other then that is what is important.
Being distant relatives may be the actual reason why your parents can not accept her. They may consider this a 'taboo' even if it was a hetrosexual relationship.
Be their daughter in every sense of the word and if they can not accept your relathionship then respect their view as long as they respect your right to be with whom you want.
Be happy, too many people are alone and unhappy without those who have found joy in another to be unhappy. Only because it is not accepted by parents etc.
Joy and happiness to you and your partner.

Answer 5

I could not get it. You are a homosexual but you are living with a gal for three years. As for your question, homosexuality is not wrong but in long run, it does not give the adequate physical pleasure. And it is difficult (not impossible) to sustain a relation purely on emotions for life time.

Answer 6

i dont think that your culture will accept something like that but my personal opinion: i find nothing wrong with couples of the same sex, if you are happy and she is happy why not afterall i have seen more straight couples break up the same sex couples, do what makes you happy afterall this is your life and i think that everybody has a right to be happy, Prev years i knew a same sex couple and you know how much i wanted to be a part of that family as there were so much love a whole lot more then in my streight family. GO FOR IT and good luck with love

Answer 7

i don't think its wrong i have many many friends that are gay (this coming from a straight person).

I don't think anybody should be judge by who they love if that is your feelings then go with it..

your parents cant be blamed for their feelings, you will need to give them time to deal with this news. But let them understand this is you and they should love you unconditionally no matter what you are, you haven't changed in any way and you cant make your heart love something, or someone you don't...

They will need time to except her if they are in disagreement over your sexuality but do make them understand how you feel about her and that you plan to be with her for a long time don't scare them try and let them get to know her.

hope this is of some help to you

Answer 8

Yes, always has been always will be. it is an absolute truth. But, having said that that does not give one license to not like someone or be cruel to someone just because they are homosexual. If you are homosexual it is not fair to marry someone who is heterosexual. it just isn't. It is the ultimate betrayal in a marriage situaltion. So in 3 years you have slept together at least 6 times. She lives in a sexual desert. That is not fair to her. She is not "your cover" for mommy and daddy. She is a person, not a personal thing for you to use to save face with your parents.

Answer 9

Sorry friend homosexuality is not legal in India rather indulgence in unnatural sex is an offence under section 377 of Indian Penal Code which states Whoever voluntarily has carnal intercourse against the order of nature with any man, woman or animal, shall be punished with [imprisonment for life], or with imprisonment of either description for term which may extend to ten years, and shall also be liable to fine. Since the homosexuality is an offence you cannot even marry with another guy who also is not recognized in Indian in any form of marriage whether religious or civil. In case you are interested in legal gay marriage you will have to do it in any of those countries where it is legal. As far making you parents accept your partner for any such marriage which you propose to do you'll have to convince about your homosexuality to them & your intention about your marriage with him. In India some cases of homosexual couples living together as married couples have been reported & few families of these people have also accepted their relationship, so just try out with your parents & see their response

Answer 10

Homosexuality is wrong, disgusting, and completely counter to nature and harmony. This mortal plane of existence is not the end. What we do here and now has consequences, and this unnatural behavior will have a heavy price.:(

Answer 11

No, homosexuality is normal, despite what the homo-phoebes say. The fact that you love someone of the same sex is your business and no one else's.

You cannot MAKE your parents accept her. You can only hope they realize that you are serious about each other and are happier together than apart. Shame may play a big part of their reluctance to accept her. They may be worried about what the neighbors and relatives will say.

Good luck!