well me and my boyfriend are deeply inlove with each other but i dont know why he wont ask me to marry him! maybe because we are too young or maybe because he is not ready! but i really dont know.
2007-05-05 13:32:17 · 14 answers · asked by VICKY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
is he financially stable,? he needs to feel ready mentally and financially ready before he's confident to ask.
how old are you both ?it's best for him if he's over 25 and you at least 23. emotional stability is extremly important. you show him respect and he will drop to his knee and ask.
2007-05-05 13:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by hevn4sure 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, depending upon the specifics of the case and your living circumstances, including your precise ages, many here have already mentioned some reasons this has not yet happened; so I won't simply revamp what has already been said - many of which are quite valid possibilities; so i'll just add a couple of other possibilities:
One is that although you are obviously, madly head-over-heels in love with him, he may not have quite the same reciprocity or intensity of feeling.
Coupled with this is that some guys are mainly 'in it' for the sex - assuming that this is part of your current relationship.
If that is the case, why would he go to all the hullabaloo and costly expense involved with wedding rings and weddings in general, when he is getting quite what he wants between the two of you anyway?
This may be a hard way to put this to you, and a tough thing for me to consider to you, but you wouldn't be the first to which this type of thing has happened!!
Would you?
You really do need to bring up this topic, if you think it is time and if he won't, and 'test the waters'.
2007-05-05 14:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by dr c 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must still be very young for marriage, your sentence structure is not very great, should start with:
"My boyfriend and I". "Deeply in love" means you are still to young. Are you sleeping together ? He may not want to commit to anything long lasting if he can do it now and change beds later. And you know what I mean.
2007-05-05 13:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by John P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might because he has alot of things on his mind or maybe the times isnt just right when you get married it takes alot of time and effort and maybe he isnt ready for that but if he loves you the way he say he is one day youll see the ring,
2007-05-05 13:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kristie c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? How old are you? Deeply in love means a different thing to a 16 year old than it does to an adult.
2007-05-05 13:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the two of you ever discussed your feelings on marriage? Maybe he never wants to be married. I might say that you're not "deeply in love" if you haven't discussed this very important aspect of life.
2007-05-05 13:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by chattylc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lets say your 20 something it could be because he wants to jet a good job and a place of his own so he,s planing his way in life so he will be able to raze a family. with you. that take a lot of plaining. and money. some men it takes till they are 27 to get serous.good luck.
2007-05-05 13:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you and how long have you been dating? Are you sure he is as "deeply in love" with you as you are for him? And what's so great about marriage anyways?
2007-05-05 13:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend will ask you to marry him when he is ready and when he feels it is the right time to do it.
2007-05-06 10:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why dont you ask him to marry you?....its 2007 for crap sake...
can the tradition ....do something different..
2007-05-05 13:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋