2007-05-05 13:57:27 · 21 answers · asked by Family Guy Obsessed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what is wrong with all of you guys, tonight there has ben so many questions about whether you should have sex or not,the answer is no, he just wants to get in your pants and you deserve more than that,I am warning you with a big RED SIGN that says PLEASE STOP AND WAIT UNTIL YOU GET MARRIED,someone needs to love you for you and not what you have between your legs, dont give up something so specail and precious to him because his hormones are flarring up,you say you love him but are you sure? is he clean? and you know what I mean by clean you could get pregant and or get an std,then what are you going to do,your life is on hold ,because of that one mistake you made for someone you felt you loved, well honey dont confuse love with lust, its not worth it and he can hurt you ,it seems he loves you but he just wants to get in your pants TRUST ME I KNOW,PLEASE dont make that same mistake,PLEASE, and I know you have doubts I know for a fact even if you are not aware of it ,I know you have them because youwouldnt have asked the question if you werent,please please please dont do this you are worth so much more than a f%ck and leave
2007-05-05 14:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by cleanheart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't try & sound like an old goat but you need to wait. 15 1/2 is way too young to be having sex. Just wait a while. You'll see that you made the right decision. You're asking the question but you already know the answer. You'll feel better about yourself if you don't. Trust me. I started having sex at 17 and I swear that I was not ready. Relationships get more complicated after that. Ask yourself, how would you feel if you had sex with him now and you guys broke up a few weeks from now or even a few months from now??? Have fun, hang out, and relax. If he puts any pressure on you then break up with him. You don't need that. Don't just give in to your urges.
Take care and good luck. I hope that you wait. I know that I didn't have any adults in my life at the time that I felt comfortable discussing that issue with but I hope that YOU at least do. Speak to an adult if you can and see what sort of advice they are able to give you.
2007-05-05 22:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by prego 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is YOUR decision! Nobody can make it for you because there are too many variables. Are you doing it for the right reasons (not because you are afraid to lose him)? How long have you been together? Are you exclusive?
My recommendation is to hold off. Many of your friends may already be sexually active but that does not mean you should be too. Fifteen is still pretty young. You better be sure because there is only one "first time".
If you decide to go ahead, BE SURE TO USE PROTECTION!
2007-05-05 21:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are not ready for the consequences of the act. Could you support a baby? Are you ready to die from a disease he may have that you don't know about? Do you have a job? a car? an apartment? Are you considering this just because he wants it?
2007-05-05 21:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IMO - no, don't do it. 15 1/2 is very young, you've got many years ahead of you to make friendships and learn about life. esp, you dont want to risk the chance of getting pregnant or an std.
2007-05-05 21:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please say 'no'. Even if u really love him, sex at this time is not the way to show him how much your love is. Save it for someone u're going to marry. Sometimes, we think that the guy is our soulmate, but we're sooo wrong. You're young n this life's journey is still long for u. Been through this before, so trust me.
2007-05-05 21:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by Permatasari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess your not a christian. Save that event for someone great that God will put in your life. Sex right now will just destroy a little piece of your heart. Does your father know about this.
2007-05-05 21:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by trash07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait til you're a little older and in a more meaningful relationship. If he's pressuring u to have sex when you're not ready, he is not worth it.
2007-05-05 21:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait till you are older, and MARRIED!! Do you want a baby? AN STD? Do you really think he will support you in either scenario? I don't think so. He wants some booty and he is outta there. Guaranteed!!!
2007-05-05 21:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait until you are older but if you don't wait then use protection because you never know now who has what diseases and your too young to get pregnant.
2007-05-05 21:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋