We're in a relationship, very happy, while in the act, he looks me in the eyes, holds me tight, kisses me, very passionate, and kisses me on my forehead and holds me tight when we're done... Is it love or is he good at pretending? I've read that men can fake it too.
He has told me he loves me, but I'm so mistrusting b/c I've been so brutally burned before by people in my life, not just boyfriends, but family members too so it's instinct for me not to trust. Any thoughts anyone?
2007-05-05 13:28:18 · 15 answers · asked by Karla Marx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I should add that we've met each other's parents, I'm 28, he's 30, we're going to get married. :-|
2007-05-05 13:36:55 · update #1
Well, he seems sincere. True, guys can fake it, but they can be truthful, too. You can't let past experiences make you doubt everyone you fall in love with. He seems like a decent guy and by his actions, he is either a brilliant actor (which I highly doubt) or he really cares about you. Just give him a chance and see where it all goes. He may turn out to be the man of your dreams, if he isn't already. Good luck, sweetie, you can never be too careful with your heart, but sometimes, you gotta let people in. ;)
2007-05-05 13:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Dana Mulder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take certain factors into consideration like how old are you, how long have you been dating, etc. Does he show his sweet side when you're not having sex or only during. Most men only fake it to GET women into bed, so if he's doing it during/after then he's likely sincere. Try to relax and enjoy it. You don't have to fall head over heels if you're not ready.
2007-05-05 13:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Snicker Poodle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once came across a guy like that..
Right when it's over he whispered in my ear
i'm forever yours...
after that day he never talked to me
again for 3 months and now he has a girlfriend
and we never did date again after.
The first time we had it he didn't say i'm yours
or anything but he held me right and kissed me a lot and smiled and held my hand ect.
He also talked to me a lot after but face it
unless you've been in a relationship with him
for atleast a year than obviously he
only has one thing on his mind.
2007-05-05 13:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is not enough info here. But you cannot drag your past into every relationship or you will poison them all. 1 on 1 counselling advised.
2007-05-05 13:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, males can pretend too. But he might actually care about you -- take the time to find out.
2007-05-05 13:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's love. A guy who doesn't care about you wouldn't do these nice things before, during and after.
2007-05-05 13:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he means it. I have always said that when you make love to some one you love its the best sex you can have than just having sex.
2007-05-05 13:34:01 · answer #7 · answered by Chris F 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds good to me.
Men CAN fake it, but not like girls can.
2007-05-05 13:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get God involved in your life. He will be the ONLY one you can trust !!!!!!!!!!!! If you don't feel right in this relationship, get out.
2007-05-05 13:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by trash07 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should always trust them until they give you reason not to!
2007-05-05 13:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋