My girlfriend won't tell her parents about me and it's driving me nuts. What can or should i do??

Question

she told me that she won't tell them because her mom will talk a lot. This makes no sense to me. I personally feel as though I'm being rebuked, and i think she's more in love with the idea than with me. Telling her parents would distort that idea, so she won't tell em. However, when they ask and she says "no", she's denying what she claims to be love. It seriously hurts.

Answer 1

Hmmmm..... maybe she is cheating on you? No! (Im jking) Maybe she is uncomfortable with her parents knowing she has a boyfriend. Or maybe her parents said she can't have a boyfriend untill she is 35. I'm not sure. But things you could do are:
1: ask her; maybe she already has.
2: talk to her parents and be like "your daugter is fun to be with; it's great dating her.
3: Just be with her when her parents are there.

Good Luck! ☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺

Answer 2

With so little information to go on, I am only speculate that there might be some issues involved that you don't know about. My first question would be - how can you have a girlfriend and her parents are not aware of you? First of all, she might not be of age to date, her parents might be strict, and nonconforming of a relationship at this time, she may not be totally comfortable with you yet. I am a little older and when I liked someone -there was no way I could keep it secret. I would tell my mom and she would observe how this would affect me, my grades, emotions - etc/ Parents who know their children, KNOW when they are involved. It sounds like you don't even see her at her home. Now can you have a "girlfriend" and you don't go to her home? I think that she might not be as serious as you. Ask her. That's your best choice.

Answer 3

Maybe she cant have a boyfriend :) still