I've never had a boyfriend and i don't think i ever will. Also, if i do ever get a boyfried, i dont know how to kiss. I know it sounds stupid but its true. Can anyone help???
2007-05-05 05:29:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You will, dont worry. Be careful though I was kinda like that and it caused me to have low self esteem and be really eager to be loved, by that i'm trying to say that when I did start getting involved with guys they were for the wrong reasons and I would pick guys that were no good for me and dont want you to do that. I just mean reguardless of how long it takes keep your self respect and be picky look at it that way its not that your not good enough its there not good enough, the kissing comes naturally well after a couple trys dont worry just remember at your age they cant know that much either and pretend they dont. LIfe is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. So when kissing or dating always remember, why should you be scared of them or insecure there no better then you, think to yourself they should be the nervous one, i'm worth it, i'm a good kisser, they'll be thinking one day that your the one that got away, turn this crap around man, good luck Kim
2007-05-05 05:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it's ok 'cause believe it or not their is tons of girls who have never had a bf nor have ever been kissed. I can tell your young, just like me. mmm.... but all i can tell u is that the right guy will come to u and he'll guide u through the kissing! Don't let him do anything else but kissing, unless u want to but i mean it's not correct or at least thats what i think. Hey, i was going out witht this guy he was my first boyfriend and things didn't turn out so good 'cause he was so immature and all he wanted was going all the way! My only advice to u is wait till the perfect guy comes and don't do things u'll regret! Kissing is good and it's so special when u kiss a guy u really r in love with! And don't worry, good luck!
2007-05-05 05:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Precious me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never say never. There is a young man in your future however, you have to allow time and space to meet and arrange your position. At least you are hopeful when you say 'If I do ever"...but why are you worrying about 'how to kiss?" Matters of the heart always know how to take care of itself. When you do meet someone that you can truly care for and who cares for you - believe me, 'how to kiss' will not be an issue. There is just something about loving someone that takes over and the lips KNOW what to do. Stop worrying.
2007-05-05 05:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are nervous but having a boyfriend sometimes can be overrated. You will find someone, i thought i never would but once i build up myself esteem and loved me i didnt even think about guys then they all came to me. I don't know how old you are but don't rush life enjoy being you and getting to know yourself first, seriously!!! I am 23 and i have a on again off again boyfriend and it sucks. I am in grad school enjoying life as a free chick and it's fun. As far as kissing start with pecks and you'll eventually pick it up my dear. It's no big deal...alot of guys cant kiss. they try to suck your face off and thats not attractive!! Good Luck!
2007-05-05 05:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by mia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound stupid, and I feel sad for you, I hope you find a boy friend and feel the ecstasy of having that first sweet kiss. You must venture out of your present circle of friends, take a chance on life, let guys know you like them be pleasant, and smile a lot, take a chance, don't let rejection stop you, keep on trying. good luck to you. and in the mean time from me to you here is a sweet kiss on the lips, Ummmm!!!!!!xxxxxxxxxxxxx Ummmmm!!!!!!!!! there how did that feel?
2007-05-05 05:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by niddlie diddle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure one day you'll have a boyfriend...it takes time...keep yourself busy doing lots of differnet stuff...that way you will make new friends & widen your chances of meeting someone that you like...when it comes to kissing well it's just a natural thing...don't worry about that...get out there & get yourself involved in some new stuff with people...good luck to you
Sea ya
Daytripper
2007-05-05 05:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Daytripper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well with that attitude, you aren't ready for a boyfriend. Get some confidence. Kissing comes naturally, don't worry about it. First you just need to be comfortable with yourself and know that you will find someone, eventually. Don't be in a hurry to find love!!
2007-05-05 05:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me , you will get a boyfriend and when it happens , stuff such as kissing will all come natural to you
Don't be overly worried about and enjoy your youth
AND it doesn't sound stupid btw
2007-05-05 05:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by banjaxed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its very hard to go thru life w/o at least one "lover". Start flirting with the guy you want. and then from there kissing is easy...cant really screw up kissing unless you try to swallow thier face =) haha. really its natural
2007-05-05 05:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by tmtyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch movies, not porn, but romantic movies. Practice on your arm or a mirror, or if you have a hot friend then if she is willing practice on her. You will get a boyfriend. Be patient.
2007-05-05 05:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by The Dark Knight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋