There is this boy in my class who acts really mean towards even though he knows me for less than a year. There are other new people who came to school but he's only mean with me. Then he tells me that he likes me.. What does it mean?? That he really really hates me or that he likes me?? But I really dont know whether I should trust him or not since he told me tht he liked me while we were chatting.
2007-05-05 05:18:23 · 12 answers · asked by animallover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i do like him.. i think but i am confused too in a way because of the way he acts. once we were stuck being lab partners and he actually put a "barier" between us so that we both were on differen sides! What kind of guy acts like that??
2007-05-05 05:40:25 · update #1
He does like you. He just doesnt know how to show it, so he shows you by messing with you and getting on your nerves. That way you will notice him. I dont know why people do this, but sometimes they just dont know how to express themselves sometimes. Just try talking to him and asking him if he really likes you, and if he really does, just expalin to him that he doesnt have to be mean to you for you to notice him.
2007-05-05 05:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by BAPESTA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem when younger, this guy was really nice to me alone, but in front of his friends I was treated really bad, & if he decided to stand me up, no big deal for him. I would take what he says with a grain of salt, & being mean to someone is abuse. I, if the meanness bothered me, would go to the counselor at school to have a talk with him, or perhaps the both of you together. NO ONE deserves to be treated Mean. I think he may like you, but remember words, or just words, & actions shout a whole lot louder than words. I wouldn't trust him. I would probably call him on being mean to me & explain that I don't appreciate it, & if that didn't stop it I would go to the counselor. You can still chat with him if you desire, but beware, & I know from experience, alittle, well alot, older than you are, that if you should become involved with this boy he would still probably be mean, perhaps in different ways, but in anyway is unacceptable. I think deep down he has seen women, & or girls treated badly, & then made nice to, & it turns into a merry go round that's very hard to get off of. You sound very intelligent, just for asking, so use that inner little voice that warns you when something is not exactly right. God Bless
2007-05-05 12:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by spankyone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, guys like him are just dumb like that, especially when they hang around other guys. He likes you, so the only way he can express it is by being mean. Lots of young guys do this; it's perfectly normal. But, if you really want him to show that he likes you like a normal person, talk to him and let him know that you don't appreciate him doing what he does. He may or may not respond well to what you say, but if he doesn't, forget him! He's got alot of growing up to do anyway, so if he can't act right, then tell him what he can do.
2007-05-12 11:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mendi W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from this one. First of all he can't tell anyone that he likes you. Sounds as if he ashamed to admit it. For young people in school this is hard to take. I've been there. I was 9 years old when my family moved from Wisconsin to Grosse Pointe Farms, Michigan.
I was this curly haired girl from Wisconsin, who wore glasses, which made me a target for some rudeness by others. After I been there for about a year. One guy asked me over to his after school for some snacks. We had a really nice time and later (before dinner time) he walked me back to the school. He gave me a little kiss on the cheek, and then asked me not to tell anyone that he liked me.
That same year another boy, whom I thought was the cutest and sweetest boy I had ever met (Robert Knudsen), gave me a ring for my birthday. It was a green-stoned ring (my birthstone is the emerald), and I kept it for years. But he went to GPH-North and I went to GPH-South, and I never saw him again.
Anyway, when he gave me the ring and wished me happy birthday with it came the words 'don't tell anyone.'
These guys were not mean to mean in front of anyone, but this guy is mean to you. So he seems to be very insecure about himself, and is finding his acceptance in other people. Tell him that if he can't be nice to you in front of other people, that you don't want to have anything to do with him.
It may be that he was hanging out with some kids who were pressuring him to feel hostile towards you, but he's learning about who you really are.
Talk with him. Don't leave it up to your imagination. It has a way of tricking us into seeing things that aren't really there. Ask your friends about how they feel about them. Get insight from those you trust.
Most of all trust your gut instincts. They're usually the best. And don't let hormones control you. There will be others that come along and if you're still in school - LOTS of others. Be patient. Go have some fun.
2007-05-05 12:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by Zoie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does like you but wants to hide it to become the laughing stock of the peers.
If you too like him, tell him to stop this and be nice to you, if he wants your approval. He should change his behaviour. This will also mean that you are not ready to take his bad behaviour in friendship (don't be a doormat, don't push him either, both are equally bad).
If you don't tell him to mend his ways as he doesn't fit your description.
Hope, this helps.
2007-05-05 12:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by sanjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that hes probably between 13 and 15 and very confused.
2007-05-05 12:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1/2 of him is gay. anyways action speaks louder than words. if a guys mean to you and says something opposite then hes lying. i read in news articles where husbands are mean to their wife, like beating them up for 20 years and at the sametime saying he loves her to her. do you want to go into a relationship where a guy beats u up everyday for 20 years or more and at the same time says they love you?
2007-05-05 12:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probly just covering up so nobody else will think that he does. if the men says he likes you he likes you. do you like him
2007-05-05 12:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by Oh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you but is very immature & dosen't know how to express his feelings
2007-05-05 12:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He mey like you... but if he's mean like this, he's bad news.
2007-05-05 12:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by Tay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋