Okay, I have been with my girlfriend on and off for a year and a few months. She's cheated on me once, she didn't sleep with the guy, just made out with him. When we first started dating we had sex all the time. Like an everyday thing. Now, we never have sex... like ever. She tells me she loves me and that im wrong for not trusting her enough. But thats just the thing, she lies to me constantly. Whenever i ask her something like "Who'd you hang out with the other day?" she always says "huh?" then a few seconds later, she answers the questions. I may be wrong but that implies a lie to me. I told her I don't care if she hangs out with other guys but just stop lying to me. I always take her places to run her errands, and it feels like everytime we get alone together she wants to do something else. Is she using me?
2007-05-05 10:37:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey hi!!
well the thing is that she is not using in
but she is getting bored of you slowly and slowly
so i guess you should try something to get your excitement of before when your relationship was good
i guess thats the reason
well i doubt she is not as much interested in you these days
so go ahead do something which brings her back buddy the way she was
best of luck
2007-05-05 10:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by Muffi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like she is losing interest, but still hanging on to you. I say not having any sex all of a sudden is a huge clue that something is wrong. You need to sit down and do some serious talking with her. Get things out on the table and open so you can either move forward or break up.
2007-05-05 10:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by hsmommy06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say if it's being "used", but she definitely isn't being honest with you about something. For whatever reason, it doesn't sound much like a romantic relationship anymore - sounds more like friends.
I think a major trust was broken. You don't completely trust her and she feels guilty. She also may not like you asking her what she was doing. (I'll do that second of silence when I feel like whomever asked didn't have the right to).
That's just my feeling on it, but it's hard to say. I would say (and I know it's hard to hear this) that the romance is dying and it is "comfortable" for both of you, thus, neither of you has ended it. Find someone that wants to be with you. You deserve it.
2007-05-05 10:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ann B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy that is so plain to see. I am sure you've known that for a while. My advice: Leave while you're still young. Things will only get worse if you stay. And no sex??? She's probably saving it for someone else. Or maybe she's giving it to someone else and is tired by the time you see her. Wake up dude. Good luck.
2007-05-05 10:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by Caribbean Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be attracted to a girl who treats you like this? She's playing you for all she can. Unless there are really GOOD things about her that you haven't told us, you need to say good-bye -- politely -- to this woman.
I'd bet almost anything that if you walk away she'll come after you! Then it's up to you whether you want to continue to see her or not...
2007-05-05 10:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by luvrats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant judge theres 2 sides to every story. but if its bad
enough to ask these questions and your gut tells you somethings wrong then listen to yourself. life is too short and theres too many people out there . good luck
2007-05-05 10:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by firefly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey from what you said she is using you because i had a guy treat me that way and i just tried to ignore it but it just got way worst so i would move on and try to find a girl that will treat you right
2007-05-05 10:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dude. Sorry, but she is. She shouldn't all of a sudden make a big change like that.
2007-05-05 10:41:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for a new girlfriend
2007-05-05 10:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably - go with your "gut" feeling.
2007-05-05 10:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋