How do guys find girlfriends?

Question

Please explain in as much details possible.

That cant be true! Love does not happen! Something must have cause it to happen.

Ive waited and stopped looking for 6 years! I dont think that works.

I am 19 and will be turning 20 next month.

Answer 1

It might help if you advertise yourself. Unfortunately, the days of free profile conatcts at AOL and Yahoo are long gone.

You can put up a profile for free and see if people respond.

The trouble is you have to pay to read their letters. And you can't place email address on your web site. If you establish your own web site you may be able to list it, From there people can email you directly. Surf around and see what you can find. I disagree with people saying saying wait for love to find you. You have to find it. My logic is say someone does find you and then after awhile is not interested then you will have lost alot of time because you followed advice to wait for love to find you. If you make looking for love a career or something like that , than that is hopeless. My advice is put a profile on a couple of personal sites and then just do your regular thing while waiting for women to respond. Some of the best are Match.com, udate.com, and profiles at yahoo, but check them out first.

Answer 2

I guess it depends on your age for starters. Myspace can find a relationship. I know of many people that have hooked up from meeting on myspace and i know of two couples that are getting married because of it. I am one of them!!!

A bar can be a place. But think about it, everyone is drinking and etc...A lot of times that doesn't always work out either.

I hate it when people say go to church to find one, the grocery store or even the library. that is sooo old school.

I wish you would have given an age...It would help a tad bit more. If you are in your late teens early twenties or late twenties....try the myspace approach. you can do a lot of talking before actually meeting the person. when you do finally meet them, you already know them!!!

Answer 3

There are as many ways to find a girlfriend as there are guys looking for a girlfriend. It happens differently for everyone.

It would help if we knew how old you are.

Most relationships are based on having things in common with each other. Opposites might attract, but they rarely LAST! So to find a girlfriend, someone who you'll find interesting and who will be interested in you, you need to find a hobby or activity that you enjoy and meet girls who also enjoy it. If you like photography, take a class. If you like pets, get a dog and bring it to the park. If you go to church, join the choir or some other related group. If you like to read, join a book club. See what I mean?

If you don't HAVE an interest or hobby, you might think about getting one. How interesting can you be if you aren't interested in anything?

If you are at all interested in animals, one of the BEST places to meet girls is at a riding stable. For some reason, almost ALL horses are owned by women. At most stables women outnumber the men by 20 - 1! So if you have any interest in riding at all, taking some lessons might be a great starting place to meet girls. Just be warned -- the girls you meet there will be OBSESSED with their horses. But they will also be THRILLED to find a guy that also likes horses!

Other things you can do... Always be well groomed. Guys on TV might look 'sexy' with three days growth of beard but in real life it's YUCKY. It looks like you haven't bothered to shower! Keep your hair and clothes clean -- and wear clothes that FIT! Don't use foul language and DON'T get drunk -- unless you want to have a drunk as your girlfriend. Look women in the eyes, smile and LISTEN! Ask her about herself and LISTEN! Be friendly.

Don't push, let things happen naturally. If nothing happens, it wasn't meant to be.

To BE confident you first have to ACT confident. It takes practice.

Be yourself. If you are a natually funny guy, that's terrific. Girls love a good sense of humor. But if you AREN'T funny, don't try to fake it. Show your sense of humor in other ways, such as by laughing at yourself when you make a mistake or trip and fall.

Don't be afraid to be enthusiastic, if that's how you feel. The "strong, silent type" isn't really what most girls want. Girls LOVE a good conversation about almost anything, but especially about feelings and such. I know, I know, most guys HATE that, but if you can bring yourself to learn to express your emotions you will have girls FALLING all over you!

Be a FRIEND first and then you might become a boyfriend.

And you probably will have to make the first move -- ask for the first date. Even today most girls are shy about asking a guy out.

I hope that's enough detail for you! Good luck!

Answer 4

Just be urself and she will find you..because if u acted like someone else..u gonna be founded by the wrong one..plus..try to be exist in alot of socities..as many as u can..and when u like a girl..give her a chance to konw u well..and then when u make sure that she is the right one..give small hints..then make them more clear..and u will know if she an acceptor..then u can take the serious action by telling her.(i m a girl and i m sure of what i m saying)..trust me.

Answer 5

Well, it's all on where you're looking. It all starts with just talking to a girl. Whether it be at school, work, or online (myspace, email, AIM.) Just be friends at first and see what their interests are and such. And if you two feel something for each other, then usually the guy asks to take her out somewhere and then eventually asks if she would be his girlfriend.

Answer 6

Unless you want to stay friends with the guy, which you don't sound like you do, then yeah, definitely tell her. If it was my boyfriend doing that, I would want the girl to tell me. That's what any girl would want, right? Tell her, you might even make a friend out of her :)

Answer 7

I met my husband at work. He just stood behind me while we were getting a presentation. I thought he was a little too close, but I didn't move. From then on it was just a lot of flirting and "going out after work with the crew". Then it was just going out after work without the crew....

Answer 8

If you are looking for girls in one certain place

your not going to find the right one

let her show up


enjoy the single life

Answer 9

I met my hubby through a friend.
We were at the same get together and hit it off.

Before that, it was kind of random. But mostly guys I met through school.

Answer 10

try to find a dance party at the rec center or even in callage or school. look in the news papers and look for single dance clubs, because you didn,t say what your age was we thing your to young for date sight they yahoo,personals .com that,s good for all ages. good luck churches are a bad place to look for love.