English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

There is a really hot 8th grader who also thinks i'm hott too. but what do i say to him? he wants to go out with me, but i hardly know him. he tells his friends i'm hott, but when i try to talk to him, i can't even look him in the eye to see him. i guess i'm just too shy to actually talk with him. So.......... WHAT DO I DO?help me i'm desparate 4 an answer!!

2007-05-05 16:12:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

22 answers

ok ready for this. listen to me on this one. guys LOVE to flirt. theyre always up for it. and no matter what you do, we want it. we're just nervous to make the first move because we enver know if you will pull away or not want to or something. BUT, we're always up for it. we'll never pull away or anything. even if you're acting weird, he wont care. he'll jsut be thrilled you're talking to him. once talking touch him arm while your talking. if you sitting put your hand on his thing. rub his thigh kind of. you may be extremely nervous, but remember this, he'll love it. he wants it. he wont even notice if you're nervous. he'll be too focused on this hot girl is finally, not only talking to him, but touching him. really, dont worry. start of with "hey, so, i heard you like me". it may sound stupid and your nerves may be shot, but this puts him on the spot to do something. he'll finally have to man it up and make a move. beleive me. really. this will work. he's going to be more nervous than you are, but he's going to love this whole thing

2007-05-05 16:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by kublobla123 1 · 0 0

Ask him what he thinks about you and if he would like to become friends and get to know you better,
Establish rules about what he can and cannot do when you are with each other and do not be alone with him as that will put you in a compromising position.
Do not wind up a baby with a baby.
Be very careful.
Be cool, even if you are hot.
doodad

2007-05-05 16:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by doodad 5 · 0 0

Considering I AM a boy. Why are you shy? You like hi and he likes you back.
If you are still having trouble. Have some friends to back you up or give you advice.
Just say "hi" everytime you walk past him and every now and then, have a small conversation.
Having conversations on MSN or IM are usually easier.

Hope this helps!

2007-05-05 16:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Well, if you are really unable to talk to him, I guess you will have to resort to trickery...like bump into him and drop a load of books. If he's smart, he will jump right in and start talking, as he helps you pick up your books. Now isn't this silly when a simple "Hi" would do the trick...

2007-05-05 16:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by Great Grandma 3 · 0 0

if his name is jesse. then don't. there is this sad 7th grade girl at my school who likes this boy in my grade (8th) and he's bad news
he's hott and he knows it so he thinks he can get any girl
he always plays with girls hearts
poor girl.
as for you
just ask around and make sure he's not faking it.
thats what my jesse does
He fakes its bad.
and the girls actually think he likes them
its funny sad
but mostly sad

2007-05-05 16:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by Meow 2 · 0 0

I dont the two.. i agree identity fairly have a advise looking guy that i presumed replaced into cute & everybody else theory replaced into gruesome that way no worrys approximately women tryin to take yur guy

2017-01-09 13:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well first just be you nd just ask the basic questions. what ur av color fav singer you wont know about hem unless you ask. so before you say yes or not to hem tell hem you want 2 get to know hem 2st before jumping into a relationship. nd if he really likes hem then he will wait then get into the relationship

2007-05-05 16:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0 0

Hey, aren't you glad Sanjaya is finally gone from American Idol? How do you think Paris Hilton will like jail food?

2007-05-05 16:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by eag_chitown 2 · 0 1

just fix your hair check your face look at the surrounding go to him and talk to him but just be your self relax he thinks your hot too

2007-05-05 16:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by cute cherry 1 · 1 0

Well im a guy if it were me, I would want the girl to always want to be nice to me and talk to me. I would like compliments, thats just me....

2007-05-05 16:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by torin 2 · 1 0

fedest.com, questions and answers