How often should I give it to my woman?

Question

to keep her from cheating?

I have come to realize that for a woman, sex is like a drug and if they don't get it enough they'll pull that whole "I love you but not in love with you" line so that they can get a different member rammed into their meat grinder.

In other words, the URGE to BREED will override a woman if she doesn't get it enough.

So what is a good frequency?

Answer 1

A women will cheat no matter what you do if she's going to cheat. "Giving it" to a woman just to keep her from cheating is not a healthy relationship. Not to mention, it makes you paranoid. You have got to learn to trust her. If she can't be trusted, seek help or move on, find another woman.

Answer 2

In my experience, women rarely cheat solely because they're not "getting it" enough at home. Granted, if you completely withhold or only give it extremely rarely, many women will stray--but that is likely ONLY after trying everything she can to get it from you.

In a healthy relationship, both partners give sex to eachother as an act of love...and they give it as often as their partner so desires (within reason).

A woman who cheats is usually looking for more than just sex, so your question of how often you should give "it" to your woman may need to be examined to determine precisely what "it" is she really needs.

Answer 3

Hai friend..

Sex is something special that god gifted us to show our love. It is neither drug nor lust. As a husband, you must educate your wife what is meant by sex. Tell her that if a husband is not willing to have sex with his wife, she should understand that.
If without sex a wife can cheat upon her husband she is not a woman but a devil's child. However,. husband should not take advantage on her weakness.
I hope all the best for you in educating your wife to be more understanding life partner.

Hope it did help you.

Answer 4

A cheater is a cheater, regardless of the state of their sex life. You could give it to her every day, or once a month, it doesn't matter. If she wants someone else, she's going to go after it. I agree with whoever said that quality is more important than quantity

Answer 5

You need to have a talk with your woman.
Explain to her you are not a mind reader, to only ask you for what she really does want.

Explain how you really want to please her & make her happy, & in return, tell her what you want from her as well.

Let her know you will be happy to give your all to please her.

In the end though, if you have done your best & she still cheats, drop her like a hot cake & get another girl.

The End.

Answer 6

Joe,

Ask your wife what her view of sex is. I expect she will say things like 'for love', 'for physical pleasure' and to enjoy intimacy with a loving, respectful and caring man.

Share your view of sex with her, I am sure she will disagree.

Peter

Answer 7

Although the way that you say it is a bit crude. You are right. I prefer daily. AT LEAST. If I can have more than once daily, then that is even better.

Answer 8

is she married to you or to sex? well, i think quality should be key. if u give her quality time & know her better -what pulls for her, no matter where she goes for sex she'll come to you.

quantity can never make up for quality!

Answer 9

welll Joe, just enuff to keep her "meat grinder" well oiled..i would say more than the once a year thing you do with her now.

Answer 10

you make it sound like a chore you have to perform to keep her around. Time to let this one go I think.