i have been knowing my friend for 7 years. I think he wants to go to bed with me cause he wants to meet me in places were there is no one. we both r mormons and cannot do this things....we have abstained from sex and decided to wait until marriage all our lives....we have very intense arguments and each other accuses the other of being in love with each other.
there is A lot of tension between us now, cause maybe he might be sexually repressed.....and sometimes i feel pressured by him b/c i dont wanna lose his friendship and feel like i must do what he wants. it confuses me because my church says that respectable girls dont go out having sex with their friends and if u like the guy and u go to bed with him, he will not love u and respect u...but only use u for that moment...
i def dont want that.....i feel like he is now lookin 4 satisfaction elsewhere, while im here fighting my hardest not to give in...he is frustrated w/ me and hates talking to me now, is my friendship dead?
2007-05-05 20:38:13 · 11 answers · asked by prettyinpink i 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks to all of u who have answered my questions!!!
2007-05-05 21:58:08 · update #1
AND WHO WILL, THANKS!
2007-05-05 21:58:38 · update #2
Hi
I would say that you should stand tall in what you believe, don't give in. Just because he want to have sex with you and ignore your comitment and faith doesn't mean that you have to do it as well. If he loves you and respects you like he should he will wait for you and won't push you to do something that is against your will and faith. Don't give in, if he wants to be angry with you let him be.
Just know that you are stronger in faith and that you don't just do it to save your friendship but to stand tall in your faith.
Pray about it. For prayer is the strongest medicene for any problem as I always say.
Kind Regards
Jacques
2007-05-05 20:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jacques G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 21:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by lorenzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open with him and call a spade a spade.
Let him know that you get the very distinct impression that he wants to have a physical relationship with you and that you are in no way interested in that.
Let him know that your morals are more important to you than this friendship, but that you'd like to keep both in tact.
If there's truly a friendship there, it can and will endure.
If he doesn't back down after this, walk away...he's not truly a friend.
2007-05-06 22:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by Ender 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is pressuring you to have sex when you don't want to, then he is not a good friend. He should respect that you don't want to have sex. If he decides he doesn't want to be friends with because you don't want to have sex with him, then he is not a good friend. Never let anyone pressure you in to having sex if you don't want to. Him being frustrated and not wanting to talk to you is his problem. He shouldn't be making you feel bad for not wanting to have sex. He might be trying to make you feel bad so you will have sex with him and that is disgusting behaviour. If you don't want to have sex, don't do it!
2007-05-05 20:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by xoɟ ʍous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants sex that bad, he can get it where ever and face the consequences as far as the church goes, but there's no reason for him to drag you down with him. Marriage is more than just sex.
2007-05-06 04:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by mormon_4_jesus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur friendship means alot 2 him then he wont let it end like that. if ur a realy religious person or want 2 be then dont let anything or anyone come in between that.
2007-05-05 20:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by NiNi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a choice whether or not to be a mormon. You've made your choice and, unless you change your mind, you will have to learn to live such absurd situations.
2007-05-05 20:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think he is a jerk and if he don't talk to you anymore don't worry because he doesn't worth your friendship anyways.
2007-05-05 20:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont meet him in places alone make sure its full of people.
2007-05-05 20:41:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
mormons are wierd anyway, but maybe you could just give him a 5 knuckle shuffle, and slurp him like an ice lolloy, thats not sex is it
2007-05-05 20:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋