Ok I met this guy a week ago and we hit off straight away!! He was honest with me from day 1 but the problem is he was only visiting our town on business and he went back home yesterday! He asked me if I would go with him and now im torn in 2 my heart tells me to go but my brain says stay as he lives 1800 km away from me! Look I have been in love before but this is different I have been crying my eyes out since he left!!! What should I do?
2007-05-05 23:38:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know its really bad and I know he is honest as he gave me all hes details he told me from the start he has kids and that he is divorced! I just feel maybe I should take the chance maybe I wait to long and then well never know!!!! I think I need a slap to bring me back to reality
2007-05-05 23:46:25 · update #1
Even for true love, I wouldn't just pack up and go - you should really know a little more about him first. Is calling him an option? Try a long distance relationship for a bit, see what happenes.
2007-05-05 23:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by ohhnicholas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go and visit him and try it as a long distance relationship for a while. But I would not suggest moving to be with someone you only met just a week ago.
2007-05-06 06:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by Subigan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get to know him a bit better and for a bit longer first before doing anything drastic and travelling 1800km away. What if something goes wrong when you're there? you'll feel alone because you'd be in a strange place with no-one you know. You'd then go back to your home town with your tail between your legs.
2007-05-06 06:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just do it! You only live once, and you never know, he might be the one. If you don't, you'll always be wondering what might have been. And if it doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world, I'm sure you'll get back on track. It's better to regret something you did than something you didn't do.
2007-05-06 06:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been a week. That's not enough to pack up on. Try the long distance thing for a few weeks, get to know him better before you rush off.
As for his honesty from day one......It's only been a WEEK. He could tell you anything he wants to for that period of time. I'm not saying he did lie to you, but really it's just not long enough to be 100% sure of his honesty.
I wish you luck, but please take it slow so you don't mess up.
2007-05-06 06:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God--what a tear jerker---move all that way because you met a guy a week ago??? Snap out of it, sister---what if he doesn't want you after you get there??? Are you going to kill yourself?? God, Get over it---grow up---he probably has a girl in every town he visits--he found you didn't he?? God what a drama queen.
2007-05-06 06:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend that you think logically.
You've known this man a week and you are ready to move to his town and disrupt your life totally?
I would recommend that you just plan a little 3 day visit and see if you really do want to relocate.
2007-05-06 06:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by khrome_wind 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First see if there is a relationship between you when he is back home. Leave it and see how it goes because you don't want to make the biggest mistake of your life.
2007-05-06 06:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by golden tigress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to know him a little better before you take such a serious decision, friend. Go and visit by all means......but to pack up and go is a bit hasty, IMO.
2007-05-06 06:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by lou b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Till someday, someone reached out to me, and showed me, Christ’s. Sin was always on my mind, it was really hard to get my hands off. If u been there u see what I am trying to tell u. God loves you so dearly that he sent his son for you and me, so that we may be saved. If you are going through a problem or battling out an addiction in your life for a long time. I don’t know about u, but God wants to heal u today, right now and right away.
If u would like to have peace in your heart. Pray this prayer and ask Christ to come into your life. Pray it out loud, “Dear Lord Jesus I believe you are the son of God. I believe you died for me. I repent to you of all my sins, wash me with your precious blood right now. I ask you to come into my heart. Be the Saviour of my heart & soul. In the name of Jesus I pray Amen”.
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With Love: Bob
All i have to say wait till u guys get married
2007-05-06 06:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by philips_bob 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋