Family & Relationships - 29 April 2007

after reading alot of true crime books especially ones which involve sex crimes and murders my girlfriend of 3 years now refuses to have sex,as she see's it as some sort of dirty act!,don't get me wrong sex isn't what i'm all about but a little intimacy once in a while would be nice,i've tried talking to her about it,even taking her out for meals trying to romance but nothing, what should i do?

2007-04-29 23:54:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-29 23:54:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm at that age where I'm wondering what's it all about. Why do we work 5 days a week and only have 2 off? Why do we have to wait so long before we can retire? How can I travel more when I can only have 4 weeks off a year? Anyone else feel like this?

2007-04-29 23:52:28 · 14 answers · asked by Sunny 1st 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

if he does not trust me but loves me and cares for me and i am willing to do anything and everything to make him turst me again but he say he needs time should i give him his time or is it over.

2007-04-29 23:51:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I love her very much,but i'm getting tired of always having to make the first move.We've been married 8 years now,I don't think it's because she'to shy.Any suggestions?

2007-04-29 23:41:02 · 19 answers · asked by 8seconds 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this woman at work and she is married. What should i do??

2007-04-29 23:35:15 · 12 answers · asked by Wayne 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He was my world.

2007-04-29 23:31:41 · 9 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex got his own bussiness but hi is saying hi is not geting any $.

2007-04-29 23:12:26 · 8 answers · asked by jofenixone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex got his own bussiness but hi is saying hi is not geting any $.

2007-04-29 23:11:50 · 4 answers · asked by jofenixone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

His phone, laptop now have passwords, he is abusive ,verbally and some times phisically and very demanding no thank you no please, as if he just hates me. He never used to be like this

2007-04-29 23:06:14 · 14 answers · asked by Crocky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend is going to ask out this boy....who i'm going to marry when i leave school...and she like my bestfriend and we haven't told anyone we're gettin married....she thinks he really likes her and she'll be crushed when he says no, i mean he might even say yes :' - ( we just need some advice on what to say....please help.

2007-04-29 23:05:05 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Singles & Dating

how you perfer to be kissed when you want to be in the mood! Comments. Best answer 10 pts.

2007-04-29 22:59:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean can you earn there trust back even if they dont want to be with you but they still love and care for you.

2007-04-29 22:56:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-29 22:51:03 · 15 answers · asked by Merlin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-29 22:49:49 · 3 answers · asked by a.d.a.m® 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-29 22:28:42 · 9 answers · asked by TOPOLLILLO 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-29 22:24:03 · 13 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1 in Singles & Dating

I care about my boyfriend alot, but theres another guy that I feel the same way about. And I would never cheat, I just dont know what to do. What if I pick the wrong person then its too late to have the other one back? Should I choose the one I have a deeper relationship with, of the one I have a better friendship with?

2007-04-29 22:11:55 · 10 answers · asked by Nicolle 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend is extremely shy almost on the verge of being obsessive compulsive.ie she takes school rules to the extreme for example she takes the 'no talking in lesson' rule to mean even if the teacher speaks to her she cannot reply to them. this happened recently when one of our teachers called her angela (which is her sisters name) by accident and she just sat there saying nothing relying on me and my other friend who were in the lesson with her to put the teacher right. and also if she wants to say something to the teacher she'll jus keep saying it over and over to me or my other friends in a half whisper in the hope that we will alert the teacher to whatever the problem is,this has began to get on my nerves immensely and sometimes i just end up flying off the handle at her and ill shout something like "ffs your just going to have to tell them yourself" but however im not normally a horrible person and if anything i tend to be quite lenient towards her more so than other ppl, so....

2007-04-29 22:10:15 · 12 answers · asked by francesca s 2 in Friends

2007-04-29 21:35:50 · 18 answers · asked by MEENAKSHI KALA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I LOVE A GIR L WHO IS MY CUSINE. NOW SHE GOT MERRIED. WHE REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER FROM MORE THAN 6 YEARS NOW. THERE IS NO SEXUAL ATTRACTION IN US WHE JUST LOVE EACH OTHE FROM SOUL. AFTER HER MERRIED I DONT WANT TO DISTURB HER MERRIED LIFE BECAUSE SHE NOT MINE ANY MORE BUT WE LOVE EACH OTHER ENDLESSLY STILL . I KNOW THAT WE WELL NEVER MEET AGAIN . WHT SHULD I DO . PLZ HELP ME

2007-04-29 21:32:01 · 13 answers · asked by yourloving18 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's people at school and work that I talk to AT school and work, but I don't really have any friends. Nobody invites me anywhere, so I rarely go anywhere. I have siblings, but my brother doesn't really have friends either, and my sister is quite a bit younger than me. I've never done anything with anyone (except family) outside of school (except organized sports). I have been on one date, but that didn't work out. All I want to know is how the heck do I make a friend. I feel like nobody would want to be my friend because I'm shy and quiet when I first meet people, and they would think I was boring.

2007-04-29 21:22:05 · 4 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Friends

I totally been flipping out on her lately and I have been pretty mean.. what are some ways I can say sorry

2007-04-29 21:18:25 · 5 answers · asked by music_freak1322 1 in Friends

i've been going regularly to a night club alone, due to my husbands' encouragement, he's a lot older, works long hours, and wants me to have a life. there is this chap who's similar age, who works there, we became friends, he's a widower, he's fallen in love with me, gave me a red rose, written poetry. he knows i'm married, respects that, and is happy being friends, on his night off, which is once a month, i spent the evenings with him at the club, chatting, dancing and cuddling, he's tactile like me, whereas my husband isn't, i've tried talking to my husband that i need to feel more wanted. i know he loves me, as he shows it and tells me, but he's not a huggy type, and i've always been insecure and need more hugs, he's happy having little or none, i know it's a problem i have to deal with, as my husband says he is what he is, he's not the easiest person to discuss things with, and takes it as an attack on him, however nicely its said.

2007-04-29 21:15:48 · 9 answers · asked by chakra girl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Thanks all. If it was just fun and sex why would he want to spend his life with me? He could just go out with me and have some fun without even committing. By the way I never talk about marriage or something like that with him and even avoid such talks. But he would always talk like he would wish to have kids with me and travel places etc. He says he will never find a girl like me, funny, smart, sexy and beautiful. I love him but never show enough to him.
We both had partners before of course. He said he was loyal to his previous gf.
I had men committed to me as well. But didn't want as it seemed to be early or I wasn't sure. I consider about it this serious now, because I love him, and i reached age 29, where I realised I should marry someone I love.

2007-04-29 21:12:19 · 14 answers · asked by coco_80 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to do something special for my boyfriend. He has been so great through some hardships these past few months. To be more specific, I would like to do something special in the bedroom. Maybe a new position or something kinky or dressing up. I was also thinking of buying some sexy lingerie. Im sort of a tom boy so I am not very comfortable with my body but for him I am willing to do it. Any advice on what to do? Any advice on how to be more comfortable with my body? Anything helps. Thankyou.

2007-04-29 21:10:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were having an argument about his married brother. I have never cursed at his brother or any of his family member ( I might have called his brother irresponsable, impolite but I never said things like he is a basta** etc). My family, on the other hand always shows love and respect to my husband. So, while we were having this fight about his brother being irresponsible, out of the blue, my husband called my sister a bitc*. When all my sister has been is respectful towards him. I thought he said that to make me mad but it was completely uncalled for since I never cursed his brother even though his brother is sometimes disrespectful towards me. This fight happened two days ago and we are fine now but the problem is that whenever I remember that my husband called my sister a bitc*, I feel a little angry. Is it ok for me to feel a little angry at this even though the fight is over now but I never cursed at his family member ever during a fight with him???

2007-04-29 21:08:16 · 19 answers · asked by cutey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I kinda like partner, but it sounds a little detached, soul mate is overused, lover I really like, but people have their minds in the gutter. Boyfriend/girlfriend, just a little young sounding. I dunno, gentleman friend/ lady friend?

2007-04-29 20:49:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has undergone IVF,failed completely,boy was borned in 8th month has died.Doctors has said that she is not fit for giving birth again,if she goes for another time she will die.
.She dn't even respect my family members,she is behaving like a monster,so i call her father send her father home.Please suggest me.I dn't want to divorse her,but want to go for 2nd marraige.Please suggest me with great soultion to my problem.

2007-04-29 20:43:35 · 26 answers · asked by Srinivas Rao A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-29 20:40:12 · 15 answers · asked by happinezz 2 in Marriage & Divorce