Family & Relationships - 29 April 2007

I am in a backwards relationship. It is an agreement we made together a long time ago. I work and he stays home with the kids. I do help, especially on my days off, by cooking and helping around the house. But since I work full time should HE have primary responsibility over the home? It seems like nothing gets done around here! He says he does but I don't see it. We always have dirty dishes and dirty clothes every where and its always cluttered. What do you think?

2007-04-29 03:31:31 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-29 03:30:31 · 28 answers · asked by cleo_alter_ego 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I got this quote from love story and i still don,t understand it,pleast tell me what you think it really means.I want to know this so thanks for your oppinions.

2007-04-29 03:22:50 · 7 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok... So yesterday I txted the guy i like as a joke... Well he didn't text back so my friend told me to call him... Like just for fun... Well he answered and I hung up!!! So I was talking to my friend and he called me but i didn't answer... So umm... My friend called and apoligized for me... But, she took my phone when i was in the bathroom and txted "i'm gonna get 10 dollars if you txt me back... and also theres another reason why i texted u... but you have to text me to find out" (thats what she wrote) and he never texted back... Thank god... but he's in two of my classes in school and I know he's gonna wanna know what it was and why I was such a freak and texted and called him... so now i don't know if i should just call him today and come clean or what.... cause he's not really in my group of people. im hang out with the athletic people.and he's with the super hot girls with big boobs who can't shoot a basketball in the net for their life... What should I do??????

2007-04-29 03:15:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was trying to talk my ex-girlfriend into going back out with me, but she told me that she needs time to heal (from past relationships, excluding ours) and that eventually she will give me another chance, but in the meantime we can be "friends with benefits". Ok, so we're in high school, but we decided a while back that we are both saving ourselves until marriage. so how does the whole "friends with benefits" thing work out without sex? does it mean that we can date but just not a relationship? or makeout? Help me! I dont understand!

2007-04-29 03:14:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lack self astem which is making me jealous when my husband & I are out with friends.

2007-04-29 03:09:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For the last couple of months I have dated this guy. He's educated, attractive and treats me royally. Since our meeting we've spent almost every weekend together.We are dual military O's and he is set to PCS to Tx where I am currently stationed. My issue-he has remarked to me his views of a potential wife. In my opinion most of the qaulities I possess beauty, brains, independence, confidence etc. However, last weekend he talked about having children. He explained having a large family is important to him because he was an only child and he missed not having siblings. I on the other hand have 3 siblings and I don't want to have kids. I haven't told him because I am afraid this may end our relationship. Currently he is on a training mission but upon his return we are traveling to Cancun with friends for a long, well deserved Memorial Day weekend. I don't want to be misleading; should I address my not wanting kids then or wait until he brings it up later?

2007-04-29 03:09:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok about a month ago I realized that spiderman 3 was coming out. So I asked my husband about it and said why don't the three of us go and see it (me, husband and son) on the friday it comes out. However, it actually comes out thursday/friday at midnight. Well, going with the fact that we planned to go see this, is it dumb of me to be a little upset that he is going to see it at midnight and that I wish he would just wait to see it on friday with me and our son. I just got mad because I feel like it kind of ruins the time we PLANNED for just because he likes to see the midnight show. Is it wrong that I wish he would not see it at midnight? He says he could have seen it and not told me at all and that is why he doesn't want to tell me because I am being unreasonable. I guess I just wanted him to ask me...say that I know we planned this but I really want to see the midnight showing too...is that alright. Is it wrong for me to at least expect this respect? I know...maybe stupid..

2007-04-29 03:06:51 · 22 answers · asked by superwmn315 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been happily married for a year. He only seems flirtatious with one of our friends who is engaged. I know deep down he would never cheat on me but my mind wanders & thinks the worst. I dont like being the one in our relationship to always have a problem with jealousy & start the arguments. I want him to be more attentive when we are out with friends to boost my confidence.

2007-04-29 03:06:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-29 03:06:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-29 03:02:25 · 7 answers · asked by RAYNE B 1 in Family

At a concert I ended making out with a close friend who I knew had feelings for me but I don't share them for a large deal. Broke his heart.

Then at a party realised (practically got it spelled out by a mutual, somewhat drunk friend) that another good guy friend of mine is also head over heals and since I clearly don't feel the same for him, I should tell him before I break his heart. He constantly tried kiss me or hold me but I learn't from the previous night and backed off. He doesn't know about the concert

The guy that I actually like (who is both these guys best friends) found out about the concert and the potential heart break ahead and offered some "brotherly" advice and protection. Now I feel even more for him than before

I've never ever ever purposely led any of these guys on. I'm not a flirt. Up until this weekend my love life was non-existant!

2007-04-29 02:59:35 · 9 answers · asked by Girly girl 3 in Singles & Dating

What Do I Do?

2007-04-29 02:57:52 · 8 answers · asked by jared1975_22 1 in Singles & Dating

My uncle was 7yrs dead now, and he has 2 adopted sons, wife left. Is there any possibilities that I am his legal niece have an authority or rights as heirs too..?

2007-04-29 02:54:42 · 6 answers · asked by carol p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-29 02:53:37 · 7 answers · asked by aziz_masum 1 in Singles & Dating

Live in bf has yahoo ad, lied about it, left evidence, got caught. Gets calls, hides to talk. says meeting with these women as "not a date" Says needs to talk to someone not as close to his problems, too stressful to talk to me because I get emotional. Been together 3 + years, live together, not married but basically have blended family, ex wife makes life hell for everyone, multiple stressful situations of his that I stick through. We both wanted me to stop working for the summer to be home with kids so kids can go to activities they want. Now afraid all I will be is a babysitter while he cheats, which he feels isn't cheating. He blames my weight as reason to look. My weight is now more than it was while I was losing weight in relationship, but still less than it was when we met. Stress from his ex and all the fall out of the divorce, new custody battle, a house fire and financial concerns plus he wants dinner late at night all have led to weight gain. He says lame excuses.

2007-04-29 02:52:02 · 31 answers · asked by Lynne 1 in Singles & Dating

i was hurt by the guy i love more then anything in the world what can i do to get back at him. i know its wrong but i have to do something his family has hurt me for the last 6 please help me and i will do anything for people

2007-04-29 02:50:28 · 31 answers · asked by suepooh23 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

im doing a poll for one of my classes and iwas wondering how often do you think about sex? and also, who do you think are more sex crazed? men or women?
sorry if this is under the wrong category i didnt know what to put it under.

2007-04-29 02:49:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-29 02:47:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was able to unwrap a starburst wrapped in my mouth and my friends, which were guys all said that i was a good kisser since i was able to do that. The next day, my friend J comes out of nowwhere and kisses me and we makeout. Everyone sees it and they are surprised because we are complete oposites. Even his ex sees and she was just scared. Then when we stopped. He says i heard you were a good kisser and damn you are my tongue is still tingling. I just look at him and laugh. I am afraid now because i think that people may think i am a hoochie or something. How do i fix it or do i leave it alone?

2007-04-29 02:25:31 · 16 answers · asked by henryjperc 3 in Singles & Dating

I just shrank myself down an inch tall and you found me spying on you, what would you do?

Just trying to get fun creative answers. Go nuts,lol.

2007-04-29 02:20:59 · 15 answers · asked by Stang 1 in Singles & Dating

a problem shared is a problem halfed.

2007-04-29 02:18:20 · 19 answers · asked by versace_girl_2002 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Back when my boyfriend and I were "just friends" he showed me his grandmother's wedding ring, which he plans to use when he proposes. At the time, we chatted about how he could have the stone re-set. None of his ideas fit with my style, but since we were just friends at the time it didn't really matter.

Well, now he's been sending out test balloons that indicate he might be getting ready to think about popping the question. How can I let him know what kinds of rings I'd like? My style is kind of unusual and I don't wear a lot of jewelry so he might not know what kinds I like....I love him and I want to marry him, but I also don't want him to have his grandmother's diamond reset in a ring I won't really want to wear for the rest of my life...

2007-04-29 02:18:11 · 11 answers · asked by weirdiscomplimentary 6 in Weddings

I've been with my current boyfriend for almost three years. Things started out great, like they usually do, but went downhill from there. He has started to constantly put me down and now everything has become my fault. He's at the point of being emotionally abusive. I know he has been unfaithful at least 3 times maybe many more. We do have a son together and he is a great father. I feel like i owe my son the chance to have both his parents together. I just don't want to do anything to hurt my son, even if it means being unhappy. The worst thing is now their is this guy I used to work with and i've seemingly become more interested. i saw him last night and he came over to talk to me while he was workin and he touched my arm and got close and i went completly stupid. I know he likes me just not to what extent. I honestly like him too. I think i know what i should do but I'm afraid i could make a rash decision. any advice????

2007-04-29 02:17:40 · 10 answers · asked by mommyshlee 1 in Singles & Dating

or if you are bi or lesb ian a woman you have just met?
Say you have just met them in a bar/club/pub?

I am interested in seeing double standards as a guy has asked this question and he has received a very positve response.

Will I get the same response as a woman?

2007-04-29 02:15:27 · 18 answers · asked by ella 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-29 02:14:58 · 18 answers · asked by julieanne29 1 in Family

I have been told this is legal by my attorney and not to be concerned Morally I feel very strongly against this and I would not do the same because of my beliefs. Obviously we got divorced for our differences including morality. Many people including professionals agree with my opinion. I have been told to choose my battles with my ex carefully. I could care less how my ex lives I just want what is best for my kids. Is this situation worth the battle?

2007-04-29 02:13:45 · 10 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when you gently try to move them aside and explain that they are heavy, he responds, No they are not heavy - maybe not to him....

Who hears me on this?

2007-04-29 02:13:25 · 12 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Marriage & Divorce

after 3 months of dating

2007-04-29 02:10:47 · 15 answers · asked by . 3 in Singles & Dating

Good looking guys always have a lot of male and female friends and so popular.

2007-04-29 02:09:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating