At a concert I ended making out with a close friend who I knew had feelings for me but I don't share them for a large deal. Broke his heart.
Then at a party realised (practically got it spelled out by a mutual, somewhat drunk friend) that another good guy friend of mine is also head over heals and since I clearly don't feel the same for him, I should tell him before I break his heart. He constantly tried kiss me or hold me but I learn't from the previous night and backed off. He doesn't know about the concert
The guy that I actually like (who is both these guys best friends) found out about the concert and the potential heart break ahead and offered some "brotherly" advice and protection. Now I feel even more for him than before
I've never ever ever purposely led any of these guys on. I'm not a flirt. Up until this weekend my love life was non-existant!
2007-04-29 02:59:35 · 9 answers · asked by Girly girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is bad news all around. If all three of these guys are into you, and you're friends with all of them, you cannot (CAN NOT!) date any of them. If you do, you risk ruining their friendship. You also risk your flirtation (yes, you are a flirt) and your concert fling coming into the light.
Best bet - keep all three on the "friend" burner, and look elsewhere for love.
2007-04-29 03:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by crackerhammermike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Making out with a guy is leading him on. Especially when women place a higher value on a kiss than guys.
2. I think you don't have any idea what you want, but you decided you really wanted to trade up to the guy's hotter friend, so you told him you weren't interested.
3. Whether or not the third guy is interested doesn't make a difference as long as you haven't made out with him.
4. The guy you want, if he is any kind of friend to the guy you made out with, should have had nothing to do with you after he found out. So you shouldn't be so enamored of a guy who drops his friends to comfort the girl who broke his friend's heart.
5. It is pretty obvious you can still have the guy. But you need to ask yourself whether you a) deserve this guy b) can deal with being with him while the other guys are around and c) whether it is fair to them to do that.
Whether you did it on purpose or not, you made this bed. Perhaps you need to get away from all three until you figure out what exactly you want.
2007-04-29 03:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Glenn J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You appear to be too young or not ready for any relationship. From the way you put this 'problem' in perspective, shows that you cannot make up your own mind.
Finish going to school, start a career and then fall in love. Boyfriends are ok for now, but friends is the optimum word.
2007-04-29 03:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by Yafooey! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 01:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by declue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get everyone together and sort it out as great friends. Tell them straight and honest but do not avoid them... it meakes them feel worst. Tell them that you just want to explore and see who is better for yourself. Honestly all guys have intentions to be more than just friends- so get real and tell them. Breaking hearts is sometime inevitable but do it clearly without them habouring hopes or being diminished- in the ego sense
2007-04-29 03:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anderson B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 guys craving your attention, and you think you have a problem? Wait till you're in your 40's and you'll probably realised you missed out on a great deal if you don't grab the opportunities by the goolies.....
2007-04-29 03:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop making out with guys you dont like
stay away from guys, period
2007-04-29 03:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boo hoo
2007-04-29 03:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are working it>...
2007-04-29 03:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋