Family & Relationships - 29 April 2007

After i get done with college this semester, im thinking about moving out and never looking back. My parents play the blame game for everything that goes wrong in thier lifes, this has gone on for years now. There is so much violence, its unbearable, im afraid of even my sister because she has held a knife to my throat before, im afraid of my mom because she gives bloody noses, my dad chokes me and my brother hits me. Like im the F*cking human punching bag. I never complain either...it would only make things worse...Im trying to better my life by going to college and getting a good job. But my question is...Should i just cut every tie with them?. im done, i really am, i cant go one day without tears and getting blamed. Some advice please

2007-04-29 14:51:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We met and fell in love and tied the knot in 2003, we have a lovely daughter who is 30months old. I love my husband and he loves me too but sometimes I feel so angry at him that I dont want him even touching me. He is a good husband but his only problem is he likes to bother me (tickle me,kick me playfully and stuff like that). I have asked him to stop since we met but to no avail...Do you think this feelings has anything to do with his "playfullness"
I really want my husband to pay attention and be sensitive towards my feelings

2007-04-29 14:48:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well im single and want a bf, but i dont think i want to date him because he's lied to be before and told a secret of mine, but i know he likes me and i dont want to be mean to him and tell him that he's the last guy i would date(b/c he actually is, i need someone i can trust) When he ask me out, what should i say?

2007-04-29 14:46:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone says ecstasy is the worse for you or whatever..but to me so many other drugs are they make you crazy and x isnt addictive but i heard that it kills hella brain cells..i have freinds that have done it for years and they havnt realy changed

2007-04-29 14:46:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-29 14:46:14 · 7 answers · asked by shortey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have 3 kids.10,8,6. This is about my 8 year old daughter. Me and her dad wasnt together and my mom died 2 weeks after she was born. I thought the best thing for her was to give her to her father. I ended up not seeing her for 6 years never connected to her, it actually felt as though I gave her up for adoption. I was okay with the situation. I moved on raising my son and even had another girl who I loved and cherished. Okay so 6 years later I get a phone call that My 8 year old's Father is now on Meth. I go and get my daughter per her stepmom and knowing that I had to. I take him to court and the Judge ruled for me. I now have full custody.He abandoned her with her step mom for 2 months and she said she has her own kids to care for. Its been Two years she's 8 now. I want to say I love her but I know that I love my other kids more. I just wish she could go home.Will this feelin ever change? Will I ever come to love her? I know she's been through alot. Please don't judge me.......

2007-04-29 14:45:54 · 9 answers · asked by borednomaha 1 in Family

My husband and I are separated and have been for 7 months. We have no assets, other than his business which has a great turnover. I was told by a few people, he has said he wont apply for divorce as this will ensure he pay's out minimal costs to me in the long run. He pays the rent and gives cash to me weekly/fortnightly but has stated to me he will not apply for divorce. He has a girlfriend now which he refuses to admit to, but friends have told me they are an item. He is trying to avoid getting a valuation done on his business as this is all I am claiming as we have no other property, other than a car and furniture. He has made an offer to me, wants to settle out of court but I feel he is trying to rip me off. I suggested that we get a business valuer in and go halves in the cost and he said he has no money to do this. I dont know whether I should accept his offer or call his bluff. Why does he want me to apply for divorce?

2007-04-29 14:40:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i used to live somewhere and then my parents made me move. now they want to move back and i really like it here. i just don't know what to do. how can i talk them out of it?

2007-04-29 14:33:08 · 1 answers · asked by l michelle 1 in Singles & Dating

hey yall im a 7th grader and i have a crush on and i really like him this 4th grade and he likes me and hes 11 and im 12 turning 13 in june and hes turning 12 in november so is it okay??

2007-04-29 14:19:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok this song is on now 7...i think its # 15....its like...somethin about missin you and youll always be my baby and stuff....anybody know thats got now 7??

2007-04-29 14:18:40 · 4 answers · asked by Katie. 2 in Singles & Dating

And why?
For me, it would be one of my old friends. She let her boyfriend beat the crap out of me and to this day they are still together. I feel like I could have done with out that whole thing! LOL

2007-04-29 14:17:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been struggling with this for 2 years now.They are both friends of ours!?!?!? HELP

2007-04-29 14:17:30 · 34 answers · asked by deblee882 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm trying to figur eout if a guy likes me

2007-04-29 14:17:05 · 4 answers · asked by Kristina 1 in Singles & Dating

Im nice person and freandly . but when i get mad or piss i get out of control i start trowing stuff puch the wall, but i dont hurt do body fisical i just start yelling.

2007-04-29 14:16:17 · 4 answers · asked by boriqueno 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-29 14:15:11 · 9 answers · asked by Shawni 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys I need input! I never know what to get a guy for his birthday or for just any occasion. What is a good present? Socks?

2007-04-29 14:13:08 · 4 answers · asked by Patsy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been on and off for 2 years and we are very close. We never had sex until recently.I love her very much and she's my sweetheart but the sex just sucks. I don't want to leave her but IDK. Everytime we have sex she always orgasms and is satisfied but I'm not. I feel like she gets what she wants but doesn't give me anything in return, please help me.

2007-04-29 14:12:44 · 7 answers · asked by Oceanside 1 in Singles & Dating

what can i do?

2007-04-29 14:12:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-29 14:09:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What should i do so im a good girlfriend?

2007-04-29 14:06:57 · 18 answers · asked by Holly 2 in Singles & Dating

It doesn't make sense to me that she goes out of her way to associate when she can just as easily pretend that I am not here.

I am currently single and would rather not speak to her altogether.

2007-04-29 14:04:46 · 6 answers · asked by JJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-29 14:04:34 · 12 answers · asked by Blake S 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I need a cutesy name (e.g, Brookers, off of youtube..) BESIDES Anna Banana! Its getting annyoing..It has to be one word =/

2007-04-29 14:02:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Friends

2007-04-29 14:02:04 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont do drugs -dont smoke-dont drink(ud think i would-lol)-have constant fights w/ my dad-mom could care less-their separated-i have pretty good friends-good crowd not bad-ive gotta find a place 2 live in nassue county or ill lose wats left of my life-w/o my friends im completly lost! if u no wat i can do plz lemme no ps im 14 and im 100% independent oh and is it possible for a kid 2 live on welfare at my age?
il get some1 (over 18) 2 sign pappers if i have 2 ill shop for food and work if i gatta
but i need a lif in nassaue county
no mental/pysical disabilities
watta i do plz lemme no
i might not b kicked out but if i am i need a solution!!!
and fast!

2007-04-29 13:59:13 · 6 answers · asked by musicman1927 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When I left I said that we could work things out if he went for anger management. Over the last year he has asked me repeatedly tocomehome but I stuck to my guns and he never went for"help". I would say that he was verbally and very emotionally abusive and I KNOW I made the right choice by leaving and I KNOW I can't change him.

I found out that he was seeing someone new all the while telling methat he hoped we could work things out and how much he loved me. Okay,so now I know he is a liar and decietful somy decision is confirmed.

I am really upset that he is seeing someone new. Please don't askme why I still care. I don't know why. I keep thinking that he willbe the sweet nice guy he was tome at the beginning ofmy realtionship with him, with her and willstay that sweet with her.

I KNOW that I didn't cause the abusiveness. I know this because he would seriously flip over things that made no sense.

Is it possible that he will be non abusive with his new GF?
Do menlike him change?

2007-04-29 13:58:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-29 13:53:58 · 10 answers · asked by adriana_brandon12 1 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 18 months. We have never been unfaithful, we don't have serious fights too frequently and the day-to-day life usually runs smoothly- uneventful, but smoothly.
About one month ago, we moved in together. I previously lived about 40 minutes away, close to my family. It was a big change. I changed jobs, homes, and towns.
The main issue, is the chemistry. We never really had an 'active' love life by any means, but for the past couple of months, it has drastically gone down-hill. It's like a junior-high relationship-- holding hands and sometimes hugging is about as far as it seems to go any longer.

I feel like I have done everything in my power, talking to him, trying to initiating things. But still nothing. I feel like the relationship is in a rut, or worse, going backwards. Should I come to terms with the fact that real love doesn't need to have that spark or should I move on before we get in even deeper?

2007-04-29 13:53:18 · 4 answers · asked by Kristina 1 in Singles & Dating

Robert agreed to go to the dance with me even tho he says he probably shouldnt. Today on the way to dinner he said that the dance was stupid and he doesnt understand why girls get so excited about them. Why would he say this and then still go?

2007-04-29 13:52:19 · 18 answers · asked by GodsGrl4Real 3 in Singles & Dating

Last night was prom I feel like I ruined everything. I didn't eat much at the dinner that was very expensive, I don't dance, and idk I just know he was disappointed. I really love him. I've never felt this way before. We're best friends and we like eachother and I feel like he doesn't want to be with me anymore or something. I just feel really guilty. As soon as I got home I started crying. And I apologized to him multiple times. He says he had fun but the fact that he didn't have any fun with me makes me feel horrible. Please help.

2007-04-29 13:52:13 · 13 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Singles & Dating