well im single and want a bf, but i dont think i want to date him because he's lied to be before and told a secret of mine, but i know he likes me and i dont want to be mean to him and tell him that he's the last guy i would date(b/c he actually is, i need someone i can trust) When he ask me out, what should i say?
2007-04-29 14:46:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you cant have a relationship with someone you cant trust. I mean you cant have him telling everyone about what you do in private. Either he will take it hard or think about it and change.
2007-04-29 14:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are just looking for someone to tell you that you are doing the right thing by not dating someone that you can't trust--well you are doing the right thing. Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship--and you already don't have that with this guy. Find someone else, and tell this guy that you will just be friends with him, go and have fun but not on a "dating" level.
2007-04-29 21:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell me that you've never lied before. Just go out with him. You seem really young which means you have plenty of time to figure out if he is the one. If it doesn't work out than just break up with him.
2007-04-29 21:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by SAT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no if I were you. It seems he is a man of compromised morals and you need someone who is going to be true and kind. And its far better to have a friend than another ex boyfriend. Just tell him you value your friendship too much.
2007-04-29 21:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by dolcedoja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth... plain and simple... leave the drama at home.
2007-04-29 21:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by WingNo19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like,
no i can't tell you anything since you open your mouth. i don't trust you.
2007-04-29 21:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by xsrhx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that you just want to be friemds with him you don't want to ruin your frienship with him
2007-04-29 21:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋