Family & Relationships - 29 April 2007

2007-04-29 18:06:51 · 11 answers · asked by katherine h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am married for past 12 years..i was too young and innocent at the time of marriage.I am shy kid , brought up at remote places.After mariage, he had a relationship with maid , when asked...said that it was a mistake...later on had many affairs when he was out of country....now got a message which says that he already married some other girl and has a kid....which he is denying......plzzzzz help...what to do....????

2007-04-29 17:59:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i been with my partner for 6 yrs. we have 1kid n one in the way and one that passed away last july. recently he was dx with sex addiction. i love this man so much, but now i'am so scared and confussed. he start it taking sex addiction classes to get help but i feel that its not going to help. all this just start it 1 month ago. i found out that he was cheating and having sex. he end up at the hospital due to depression and anxiety due to his guilt. hes guilt made him go crazy he even thought he was gay. but he got over that n now hes back to being normal. normal that it scares me to leave him alone, cuz he might strike again. all this is to much for me that i'm even depressed and now getting help. i feel hate and anger towards him, that i feel leaving him. i ask myself why m'i still here with him? i feel like sreaming my lungs out. he hurt me so much, that i have nasty thoughts in my head about him doing that girl, that sad part is that i know that girl he had sex with.

2007-04-29 17:55:40 · 16 answers · asked by becky m 1 in Singles & Dating

I use to live at my father-in-laws house with my brother-in-law and his girlfriend (it was a full house). One day my B.I.L's girlfriend went up to my husband while I was at work and told him that she thought that I had stolen a sponge from her (yes a sponge, to wash dishes). Ever since that moment I can't not stand the girl, I just thought that it was so petty of her to do that, besides why would I steal a sponge from her? Anyway's it's been 3 years and I can't seem to get over it.....help! Should i be nice to her or just keep ignoring her like I have been for 3 years? There are a few other things that were said and done also, but that was just the icing on the cake.

2007-04-29 17:55:38 · 7 answers · asked by ugly betty 2 in Family

2007-04-29 17:54:29 · 14 answers · asked by jamin t 1 in Family

Ok, so there is this girl who I have known for like 2 years now. I talk to her online like once a month, and very rarely do i text her or does she text me. But last week she texted me and asked me to help her out on some school work. I agreed, and we met up at school the next day and worked on the assignment. The whole time she was sitting noticably closer to me than she ever had. When we were done, i told her i was going to get some pizza down the street, and i did the polit thing , and asked her to come. she said no becasue she had class, but the next day, she txtd me and asked me if i wanted to go get pizza. So, we went, along wiht my firend, and she ended up driving all around town, and we ended up playing frizbee. She texts me more frequently, but not too much, and we talk a little online.
oh yeah, i forgot to mention, she broke up with her boyfriend no more than 2 days before she texted me for help on her homework.

2007-04-29 17:48:08 · 23 answers · asked by CollegeStud09 1 in Singles & Dating

That's right...another kissing question. I'm asking exactly what makes one so great and what makes one so bad for some people. Don't tell me to practice on girls, but if I do practice exactly what? (i.e. if it's my hand, what? the side of my index finger? a knuckle? etc.)

2007-04-29 17:48:04 · 16 answers · asked by demon_card99 4 in Singles & Dating

My best friend has been dating a girl from hell, to put lightly and is always complaining to me about how bad she treats her, how she puts her down, uses her for her money, still flirts with her ex, etc., etc.., I'm trying to be a good friend and have allowed her to vent to me about hee relationship problems for two years now. But I am fed up by now having my friend play the victim and bombard me with all the problems she has because of her girlfriend. I told her that she should just leave her and that any self respecting person would have left her long ago and not continue to put up with her. She has sacrificed so much for this girl and it's clear to everyone but her that she's just using her for her money and a rent free apartment. My friend is very gullible and anytime I try to tell her that she's better off without that girl because she clearly doesn't love her and is using her she starts to become defensive and brings up the few miniscule good things she has done.

2007-04-29 17:46:22 · 6 answers · asked by Angie A 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 24 and my boyfriend is 27. He has his own house. We have been together for a few months. In about 6 months he would like me to move in with him. I'm so excited. It's scary though cos I'm still living at home. It will be a massive change. I can't wait. Just wanted some people to give advice or anything cos this is going to be a massive life change for me!

2007-04-29 17:42:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

besides have a boyfriend

2007-04-29 17:39:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Will it affect our next generation ?
I am jain, i love one girl from our caste ,her mothers family surname and my mothers family surname is same?
now i was was not knowng her untill i met her , she is not related to me , yet everyone is sayng it will be like brother sister marriage! also people talk about genetic problems due to blood relation . we dont dnt know in which generation we were related ! so how can we be blood relatives? please help me out

2007-04-29 17:39:10 · 9 answers · asked by joey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-29 17:36:57 · 21 answers · asked by TantraGoddess 2 in Singles & Dating

He recently met a girl and she calls him everyday. He told her he doesn't like to be called everyday and she says I know you told me, but I got bored. How can he get through to her without hurting her feelings. I tried a few solutions and he's tried them all and they haven't worked. He doesn't want to change his number for various reasons. She also states that she doesn't want to do anything the mess up their friendship. I am worried for him. I think she wants to be more than friends and he doesn't want anything more than friends. He's just cocerned about hurting her feelings.
Please help me, help him! Thanks, Kathy

2007-04-29 17:36:36 · 15 answers · asked by BeachKat 1 in Friends

I'm planning to go and visit my cousin in Austin Texas this Aug!

2007-04-29 17:35:38 · 7 answers · asked by Waz 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-29 17:35:23 · 13 answers · asked by Joffre 1 in Singles & Dating

decides to leave a message on my machine at home saying "Yeah I love you (my name)" and then the message cuts out. It was date stamped on a Thursday afternoon, and Im sure it was happy hour wherever he was at...LOL...what do u make of that? Im still reeling over the message...LOL!

2007-04-29 17:33:11 · 7 answers · asked by you_breeze 1 in Singles & Dating

i wus just wondering because i always get pimples. its not like my whole face is red, there are few pimples on my cheeks. and these days i have been less confident on approaching a girl because they might thing that its disgusting for a guy to have acne. i am a pretty handsome guy without pimples, athletic, smart, and nice body. (i think in my opinion). but when i try to approach a girl im afraid of what shes going to say about my acne. so what should i do?

2007-04-29 17:31:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-29 17:28:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-29 17:25:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey ya'll! I really need some help with this! My 5th anniversary is in December and my husband dosen't take me on dates or do anything special. He has no imagination and I am tired of being the wife, mother, manager and student. He dosen't cook, hates to clean but is improving in that area. What can I do?

2007-04-29 17:25:33 · 16 answers · asked by mrskj007 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I finally got one of my friends to talk to the guy I like for me!! Now i'm just so worried! i don't wanna ruin the friendship with this guy! i really really like him! we danced and kissed at prom, and we didn't even go with eachother originally! we still aren't b/f, g/f. what should i do? I think he does like me, as we hug and stuff during school. (read previous questions for more detail if you want them!) i really don't feel like saying, "i like you, do you like me?"

2007-04-29 17:22:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf goes out with her female freinds to drink a little and dance a little with her freinds about once a month. A freind of mine and I agree that she ought to have protection on her just in case.

Both of us used to go out to the clubs, and often enough we hooked up with girls on girls nights out that we knew had or most likely had boyfreinds - or more (as in, my freind hooked up with a chick with a ring). it wasn't that they were disatisfied, but we showed them some excitement and sometimes it paid off. those were crazier days for me - and i don't live like that anymore - but there were certainly guys who were way better at scoring than i was.

so my thing is, if my gf ends up in the back seat - and i don't think she will (i just think, and at least one other guy i know has confirmed, when your out and booze is involved, **** happens) - i'd like for her not to bring anything home to me. i mean, if it happened, i'd never know. i repeat - i have no suspicion - i just think if your out partying, you ought to have proper equipment.

so is my logic sound? And how do you tell your gf she ought to have protection without 1) making a tacit accustation or 2) giving legitimacy to improper conduct?

2007-04-29 17:18:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Basically where and how did you meet your current/future/ex spouse? Details appreciated. I'm trying to zone in on which approaches work best, and I'll keep a closer eye on certain places. Haha...maybe not really, but I love hearing these stories.

2007-04-29 17:17:39 · 38 answers · asked by Brooke 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I really REALLY do not like his family. His mother is manipulative and controlling and his stepfather is abusive and mean. She demands money from my boyfriend, and she emotionally degrades him at every chance she gets. I've been dating my bf for 4 years, and I should be welcomed to the family. Instead, they did not even invite me to her birthday party. My bf has to ask for permission so I can go over to his place. She doesnt like me, so she doesn't allow me in their home. I love my bf and I would never give him up, but his parents are awful people that I cannot stand to be around. I can't imagine if I marry into his family. I am just so frustrated.

2007-04-29 17:12:06 · 13 answers · asked by lori_luv 2 in Singles & Dating

we men love you alot, worship you , love to kneel to you and kiss your hands and feet
recently in the few last years , feet fetishes increased among men and guys and worshiping female feet become an important part of sexual relationship and now most of us love it
so what is your feeling towards that men love to kiss lickyour feet and suck your toes one by one? do you feel proud ladies and girls that you are desired to that extent?

2007-04-29 17:11:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-29 17:06:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-29 17:00:37 · 10 answers · asked by punchbit 1 in Friends

Is it true that most ladies don't want a sensitive, caring(true care and not just to impress), God centered guy, but instead they would rather have a witty or charming, or strong(personality), aggressive type of guy?

2007-04-29 16:54:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just trying to discover myself and was wondering if anyone had any ideas where to start off...

2007-04-29 16:54:06 · 10 answers · asked by lostgirl 2 in Friends

2007-04-29 16:42:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating