That's right...another kissing question. I'm asking exactly what makes one so great and what makes one so bad for some people. Don't tell me to practice on girls, but if I do practice exactly what? (i.e. if it's my hand, what? the side of my index finger? a knuckle? etc.)
2007-04-29 17:48:04 · 16 answers · asked by demon_card99 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont practice kissing. its pointless. unless your trying to win a competition. but if your ur just showing how much you love someone than it doesnt really matter how you kiss. when you find a significant other they wont care how you kiss. but when you do find a significant other you will kiss so much that will start to get better at it.
2007-04-29 17:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
OK, I've looked over your past questions and you seem like a nice kid...so I'll share with you.
I've been told my an embarassing number of people that I'm the best kisser ever so apparently I'm doing something right.
Kissing is about connecting with another person in an intimate way - it's partly tecnique, it's partly awareness of the other person and it's partly hygiene.
Start by keeping your mouth and teeth clean, nothing is grosser than kissing someone with bad breath or an unclean mouth. This doesn't mean a hygenic, toothpaste tasting mouth is best, it means practice good oral hygiene by brushing and flossing every day and being aware of what foods will make bad breath. I actually like to eat a bit of fruit or chew a small piece of a tasty herb before kissing...
Food/beverage kisses can be very sexy, so do explore that when you have a partner you are comfortable with.
Awareness of the other person - don't be thinking about how the kiss feels for you, think about how it feels for them and pay attention to their responses. Kisses should start fairly soft and shallow and move deeper as they become more passionate. Work your way in to deep kissing very gradually, and never push it further that your partner seems to want to go. Having a tongue rammed into your mouth is gross, so pay attention to what the other person is doing, how they are responding. Focus on what you are doing completely, don't be thinking about anything but THE KISS while you are doing it. This will REALLY get your partners attention.
You will find your own tecnique, but I have taught fully grown adult men to kiss by suggesting they think of what it is like to taste something very precious and very delicious. It has surprised me through my life how many men are complete idiots when it comes to kissing.
It's easier to show someone than to describe it, but...nibbling gently with your lips and very little teeth is good, as well as very light sucking on either lip. Lightly inserting your tongue between your partners lips is good, but don't go too far until you get more into it and are being more passionate. If you just relax, don't worry too much about exactly what you are doing, be very aware of your partner and how they are responding and don't think about anything else but the kiss and it will come naturally to you.
If you want to practice on your hand use the cleft between your thumb and the base of your forefinger with your hand loosely closed.
This last suggestion might sound a little trite but it will also help you, pay attention to passionate love scenes in movies, especially in chick flicks and romantic dramas. Lots of tips you can pick up there, not so much on the actual kiss, which is usually not visible but on other bodily movements leading up to the kiss, which is just as important.
Good luck, I'm sure you're a Casanova in the making!
2007-04-29 18:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like everyone will say, pratice makes perfect. But my advice is to do the following before kissing: -Brush teeth and chew sugar free gum to have fresh breath! -Wear some flavored lip balm. Don't wear a lot of lip gloss or lip stick cuz the person that you'll kiss won't want their kisser's make up on them. Also, the November issue of Seventeen magazine has an article on kissing. If you don't have a subscrition to the magazine, buy it at your local book store or a newstand.
2016-03-13 03:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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That's right...another kissing question. I'm asking exactly what makes one so great and what makes one so bad for some people. Don't tell me to practice on girls, but if I do practice exactly what? (i.e. if it's my hand, what? the side of my index finger? a knuckle? etc.)
2015-08-12 05:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by Ruthie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The back of your hand and watch movies. See the techniques that actors use to make the kisses look good. Whatever you do don't use a lot of tongue or start out rough until you know exactly what you're doing.
2007-04-29 17:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by <TiGerEyes> 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
practice practice practice practice makes a perfect kisser just tell the person your with you wanna become a better kisser and you want to practice until you think your better than you were before
2007-04-29 17:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by ms_enjoyable_drop 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find a friend that would help you with that problem. I just wish I lived closer to you, I'd gladly show you how to kiss properly. Just get some more experience.
2007-04-29 17:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
practise makes perfect!! my best kisses have been horrible and sloppy and iv been bitten a few times but its all about the PASSION!! go with the flow and dont be afraid to use ur tongue! and ur hands! oh... and try finishing up by sucking on their lip softly... that trick scored me my now fiance :P
2007-04-29 17:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by leah_wooooo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Each person is different. Communication is key, such as ask her how she would like to be kissed. Some people like being kissed by sharks while others don't.
2007-04-29 17:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
practice on a pillows kissing lip to lip is nice u can try that on a friend or something lol
2007-04-29 17:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by Becky aka queenb 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋