i wus just wondering because i always get pimples. its not like my whole face is red, there are few pimples on my cheeks. and these days i have been less confident on approaching a girl because they might thing that its disgusting for a guy to have acne. i am a pretty handsome guy without pimples, athletic, smart, and nice body. (i think in my opinion). but when i try to approach a girl im afraid of what shes going to say about my acne. so what should i do?
2007-04-29 17:31:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah...they do. If they didn't then they are shallow and you didn't want them to like you anyways. I have a bad acne problem and all my past girlfriends and my current one don't have a problem with it becasue i'm a nice guy with a good personality...isn't that what really matters
2007-04-29 17:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by gimli5878 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf has pimples now, he had more when we were single and i still liked him than and i love him now. Honeslty if when u approach a girl and she's scared or said hellz no ( not saying that it would happen/ happens ) but if she does that, than she's not the gilrl 4 u. Like my bf n highschool (b4 we went out) ppl called him pizza face. And look at us now we've been dating 4, 2 yrs. And frm the way u describe urself ( if ur telling the truth no offense) than ur not as bad as he was. So go 4 it, have confidence, and c wat happens.
P.S. i has bad acne and honelsty don't spend the money on those cream and medicince, jus take a face cloth and scrub ur face in the shower with soap and water, than when u get out ur face is going to be all dry, so LIGHTLY take lotion and put it on ur face, don't put 2 much were its all oil but just enough so that it doesn't feal like ur on a roller coaster and ur face is all tight. Do this every day and only once a day n the morning. Hope this helps cause it didn't for me and it doens't hurt to have soem advice.
2007-04-29 17:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
acne is just something that u deal with when u grow up, some has worse cases than others. What u do is maintain it, make sure that it doesn't leave permanent scaring. U can seek advice from a pharmacist.
Else try &zone into ur other attributes like ur good pysic, intellegence. There are many ways to attract a women other than ur face.
by the time ur acne problem is gone u would have learnt how to get a girl without banking on just ur outer appearence (",)
2007-04-29 17:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you think girls feel about getting acne? I don't think it would really matter too much. If you're the good guy you claim you are, then I don't think you have to worry too much about a few pimples. And also, there are plenty of treatments out there that could clear that small problem up in no time.
2007-04-29 17:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by *_* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry so much... confidence is everything...
If you show that you are confident then girls will be attracted to you...
Since you know you re handsome already then use that ... don't obsess over your pimples or let them get in your way of what you really want...
along the way , try murad acne complex or proactive...
but it's no big deal , my boyfriend has a few pimples, doesn't bother me at all... :)
good luck
2007-04-29 17:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by brokenbutterfly27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviosuly every person would prefer to have a bf/gf with a clear face and all. But it's not that big of a deal in my opinion. Pimples will eventually go away and if someone won't want to date you because of your pimples, then she is completely not worth your time. She should first concentrate on getting to know you. But don't be less confident! If you aren't confident, you will miss out on soo much in life. You have to stand up to what you want and not care about people who judge you about pimples. They aren't worth your time. :)
2007-04-29 17:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by Diamond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of girls are shallow but you wouldnt want someone like that anyways. To me pimples are not a big deal(heres a secret-I get alot too),apperances change and pimples pop. Dont worry about the acne b/c if a girl is so vain that she cant see past it then shes not worth your time.
2007-04-29 17:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by melissa f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your making a mounting out of a pimple...
If you keep placing importance on the aspects of you that you dislike they will become more and more important.
So the next time you talk to anyone you like, disregard the fact that you have acne, and let them see you for what you are.
2007-04-29 17:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never really popped a pimple, I'm like you, i dont get them.
2016-05-17 06:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by cleopatra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls won't comment on it, especially the ones who like you, because they know that it's a temporary thing, and that it's something that everyone is insecure about. take a deep breath, and relax. if a girl likes you, she won't even see your acne, much less talk about it. most people won't say anything anyways, because if they did, it would be as appropriate as walking up to a girl and saying, "Wow, you look really fat today." be confident, and your acne won't mean a thing in terms of the relationship.
2007-04-29 17:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋