Is it true that most ladies don't want a sensitive, caring(true care and not just to impress), God centered guy, but instead they would rather have a witty or charming, or strong(personality), aggressive type of guy?
2007-04-29 16:54:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What I mean by sensitive is honest and cares about the ladies feelings and not so selfish.
2007-04-29 17:01:44 · update #1
Personally, I'd prefer a guy who has a little of everything that you've listed - each trait balances another, and then he's well-rounded.
2007-04-29 16:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by melissa_53105 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Females don't know what they want until they're out of college. Before then they will say they want the nice guy but then shun every nice guy who comes along and then get hurt by the bad guy. Some girls mature after college, others don't.
By always catering to her needs you become a friend. She no longer sees you as the provider/security that she needs in a relationship quality man.
Aggression shows confidence. And it's all about confidence. You got the confidence, you got the girl.
So you have to find a way to be everything to her at the right time. When she needs you, be caring but don't go too far. But also don't be too insensitive. It's a tight line, and it's a bit different for each girl.
Know your woman, and act accordingly.
Best of luck.
2007-04-29 17:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by vthokie4ever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's true that most women are more ATTRACTED to the second guy you described, but in the end they WANT the first guy. This happens around the time the second guy's charm wears off and he seems "too cute" (his wit is getting old), too self-centered, or other not so pleasant things.
2007-04-29 16:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of questions on here where people ask what "women" or "guys" like or want. I don't think that these things are that generalizable. There will be some women who like sensitive guys, some who like aggressive guys, so who like a mix, and some who want something else entirely. Whatever type of guy you are, one of the fortunate things about life is that there are women out there who are into that. Good luck finding her!
2007-04-29 17:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by SexyScientist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd love a bit of everything...God-centered tops my list. The problem is that movies depict the first type you descibed as weird, psycho, sometimes gay, etc. The leading men in most movies is the second guy you descibed.
2007-04-29 17:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we want someone who is caring but at the same time we want them to be strong and charming. so a little bit both
2007-04-29 16:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Brunette♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Caring, Sensible, Pragmatic, Strong in his convictions on right and wrong..and someone who has definetly earned Respect...
2007-04-30 04:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the lady... my man is so sweet! I know he cares for me and its awesome! Just be yourself that is the best you can do...! Just find someone that wants what u have and never be someone else!
2007-04-29 17:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not. i would rather have a sensitive man that loves God because i need sumone that can understand me. not someone to b "witty" with me
2007-04-29 16:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its totally not true...what you think girls want is what the media has portrayed to today's society...its destroying the reality of this world and objectifying the most sacred institutions of our lives
2007-04-29 16:59:03 · answer #10 · answered by gimli5878 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋