Family & Relationships - 26 April 2007

What would you do?

My bf and I met when we were 16. We fell head over heels for eachother, and I moved in with him shortly before my 18th bday.

I'm now 23, we've been together for 7 years, and lived together for almost 6 years. No children, just us.

We bought our own home a year ago and ever since, I have felt so bummed out. After we moved in I was over come with this feeling of "thats it? now what?".

I feel so dissatisfied. And like maybe everything moved too fast. Yes, it's been 7 years but we're still soo young and looking back, I wish I had stayed at home with my parents longer. And I wish that I had maybe got a place of my own first.

My boyfriend is my best friend, but after living together so long there isn't much spark anymore. He's so settled, and I feel the complete opposite which he doesn't understand. And we haven't even married yet.

I feel like there has to be more to life then this. I need to know, but I dont want to lose my boyfriend.

What would u do?

2007-04-26 23:57:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

stay and be unhappy or should i tell bill to kiss my ***?

2007-04-26 23:48:36 · 4 answers · asked by iris b 2 in Singles & Dating

What's the best way to get revenge on my ex girl?

2007-04-26 23:47:54 · 10 answers · asked by Sad 1 in Singles & Dating

Y do we feel insecured in a relationship, whatever its is, friendship, or any other family relationship.

Are we the people who feel insecure or are our loved ones are not capable to provide us a security?

why do we feel insecure?

2007-04-26 23:46:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i felt really ditched as i felt i was his first love like he was mine . I also discovered the lip marks of this girl in his wallet when i inquired he told me tht he didnt even remember and care abt them and that wallet was 3 yrs old atleast and if he knew he would have removed them from there .I dont knw but i feel very jeaolus abt the whole matter i just cant tolerate that my husband loved someone before me i know i cant do anything abt the past and now my husband is totally dedicated to me but still i want to knw abt their relationship how deep was it how was the girl and all and i have asked it to my hubby but he just says that its his dead past an inconsequential and he doesnt wanna talk abt it but i feel very disturbed abt his past and wanna knw abt it though i knw its useless to do so but at certain contexts i just remember abt my hubby s past relationship and get disturbed
dnt knw wht to do ?

2007-04-26 23:44:06 · 14 answers · asked by kamya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel really bad because I lost mine and only realised on the train home... i've tipped bins upside down at work to look in there.. but no luck.. only thing left to do is to turn the bedroom upside down... anyone had any similar experiences. i feel so bad..............

2007-04-26 23:41:20 · 17 answers · asked by Curious kitten! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My worst was 2005 when i was stuck in a dead relationship and it took me the whole year to leave. The best is 2007 as i am finally with the man i should have been with all along.

2007-04-26 23:41:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 23:39:42 · 43 answers · asked by Miss Koko 2 in Singles & Dating

I have an old friend which i lost contact with over five years ago. I know he used to live in Columbus, OH, and i believe he now lives in West Lafayette, IN. But there are no phone listings for him. His name is Jeffrey L Dimos and he is 41 now. If anyone has heard about him, please respond as I would be most grateful.

2007-04-26 23:36:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hey everyone give me you funnay comments ? or your must finiest lines hehe for example mines "dont wear white cos people wil think michelin man is back" hehe. wats you favorite funny comment that makes people laugh ?

2007-04-26 23:36:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do guy mates always say that?

2007-04-26 23:29:56 · 29 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

Well my gf will be movin in or around june or july and she is 16 and I am 18 dont worry we are legal......anyways shes movin...... right now I live in CT and she will be movin to NC and this was somethin I didnt mind until her grandma said that she should find a new bf and it kinda made me feel sad but the thing is I know my gf wouldnt go find another bf becuz she loves me that much.......I know considering my age I could go see her if I wanted to like take the train or w.e any type of transportation and even her grandma told her that I could come on every other weekend......so im just wonderin is there anythin I should worry about does any of this sound realistic cuz I think it could very likely happen.

2007-04-26 23:28:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 23:21:38 · 19 answers · asked by Desperate Loser 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 23:17:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

mr.s and mr.p both r my gud frnds.but i confused .pls help me

2007-04-26 23:10:43 · 4 answers · asked by geet 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it important and can you have one in a relationship, lacking in the next and still lead a productive long term relationship? While talking to a friend yesterday who stated that the sex was gone in a relationship and they felt no need to stay it got me to thinking on how important it truly is to have sex AND/OR intimacy and why is it so important... .what is its significance, can it end a relationship when its lacking. Being single and all I am quite curious to see the responses. So let me hear your views on this..

2007-04-26 23:00:33 · 13 answers · asked by Neva See It! 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this written out, but I don't know if I plan on just copy/pasting it, or just using it as kind of a reference when I confront her so I don't leave out important stuff. She doesn't have a phone right now, and I won't be able to see her for 2 more weeks at this rate, so the best chance I'll have of talking to her is over aim, if she logs on.

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What is really going on? It is always something else; Between being busy, your phone breaking, getting grounded, getting ungrounded but still not able to see me or call me. It all doesn't really matter honestly, I beleive you when you say you arn't "avoiding" me. What does matter is; if you really wanted to get to know me like you say you do, you would put in atleast a little more effort than you are. In the almost 4 months we've known each other, we have gotten to do 4 things together, and usually we didn't even get to talk to each other during those because of the other people around.

2007-04-26 22:56:47 · 2 answers · asked by Jojo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 22:55:25 · 5 answers · asked by mya 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 22:49:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-26 22:47:41 · 9 answers · asked by Mannnu Bhai 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I know this boy who says that he likes my 12 year old sister. I think he needs help because that’s sick. Am I wrong?

2007-04-26 22:43:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it's been a year and my partner really changed.. he said it was because of the influence given to him by his peers.. and now i miss the sweetness he usually shows me the first time he had me as his girlfriend.. i've told him so much about it but he just gets angry and says his sorry but never do anything at all..

2007-04-26 22:29:14 · 17 answers · asked by natalie marie 2 in Singles & Dating

Like I know one of my friends that I used to fancy lied to me loads of times and it hurts because I used to like him bare. I was spose to go to his house one day to stay there while I was bunking, but he said he went out thwn he told ma 12 year old sister that he was at home but didn’t want me around (he fancys my sister and he is 17), he called me boring behind my back and etc..
I do like him a little bit but I think he made it clear he don’t like me. We had and argument bout a month ago and I decided I would never talk to him but he said sorry after a few days and I forgave him. We are talking now and the other day he was spose to come my house and he didn’t so I called him and he said he couldn’t come up. He texted my sister saying sorry and I think that’s a bit rude because I am the one who actually called him. Then he texted me saying if he could come around the next day to walk round with me I didn’t text back because my sister said I should live him to come after me.
As I said I fancy him a little bit and it hurts to know he likes my lil sister. But I don’t like him like I used to, should I tell him how I feel, that I found out what he said about me and all that??

2007-04-26 22:27:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well here it goes........ I have been having the weirdest dreams ever! They are sexual dreams. I mean the best sexual dreams that I have ever had, but who the are with is scaring me. It is my mom's cousin. I know nasty right. I don't know why I am having them or even how to make them stop. Why is this happening? Please help!! Thanks!

2007-04-26 22:27:33 · 7 answers · asked by Shavon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mum and fiance hate each other and have recently gave me an ultimation i have to choose one or risk losing both what do i do?

2007-04-26 22:14:34 · 9 answers · asked by mum of four 1 in Family

I hate him so much because of his changed behaviour.
He drinks much when i asked he said he will stop when he reach 40 years and as of know he is 32, come home late hour eg. around 3-5am, and yet during working day, no time to chat with his family, making plans like starting bussiness without cosulting me. etc.
Last time I was pregnant instead of help me in other ways he was teasing me.

2007-04-26 21:59:03 · 23 answers · asked by Xxx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering if it's true because someone told me that once. I am not really sure about that so I am asking? If it's not then what does it mean? I thought that was odd.

2007-04-26 21:51:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Happy birthday to me
Happy birthday to me
Happy birthday dear MEEeeee!
Happy birthday to me!

;o)

2007-04-26 21:39:26 · 5 answers · asked by Andy C 3 in Friends

Im an 18 yr old male in college in a relationship with one of the most beautiful women you'll ever see. Ever since I was little I would get talked down to and looked over by peers and even family members. I don't even know a time that I was confident or even thought about what I could do without 2nd guessing. I try and try to be, but it just won't work. This is ruining my relationship b/c I often worry about somebody taking my girlfriend from me b/c I think that someone could. What are some confidence boosters that could help me?

2007-04-26 21:33:41 · 22 answers · asked by SMD 1 in Singles & Dating

Her mom died suddenly of a heartattack. She is only 22 and doesn't have any family except for her 3 kids. I've told her I'm here whenever she needs to talk or cry but I want to do more for her. She lives in Virginia and I live in Nebraska and I have school. I told her I'd ditch school for a while but she doesn't want me to. It breaks my heart everytime I hear her cry and I just want to be there to hold her. Any advice on what else I can do??

2007-04-26 21:19:37 · 8 answers · asked by Aaron G 1 in Singles & Dating