I have this written out, but I don't know if I plan on just copy/pasting it, or just using it as kind of a reference when I confront her so I don't leave out important stuff. She doesn't have a phone right now, and I won't be able to see her for 2 more weeks at this rate, so the best chance I'll have of talking to her is over aim, if she logs on.
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What is really going on? It is always something else; Between being busy, your phone breaking, getting grounded, getting ungrounded but still not able to see me or call me. It all doesn't really matter honestly, I beleive you when you say you arn't "avoiding" me. What does matter is; if you really wanted to get to know me like you say you do, you would put in atleast a little more effort than you are. In the almost 4 months we've known each other, we have gotten to do 4 things together, and usually we didn't even get to talk to each other during those because of the other people around.
2007-04-26 22:56:47 · 2 answers · asked by Jojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe I am expecting too much, I don't know... I don't really think I am. I know we can't go on dates, but it is more than just that. For instance, every time we got to talk while you were grounded, I kept asking if / when you are going to be ungrounded. When you finally did get ungrounded, instead of even considering me, you plan out 2 more weeks worth of "I can't see you" activities. I know you probably wanted to hang out with some of your other friends, I can accept that.
Honestly though, it feels more and more like you do not want me in your life lately. All of the conversations we've had have been completely one sided, like you would rather I not have even tried to start a conversation... again though, you just give more excuses when I try to bring that up. Excuses are fine, for the person giving them, but all of these excuses have added up to one bad feeling that has been eating away at me for awhile, since I have been trying so hard to beleive them.
2007-04-26 22:57:04 · update #1
I am not asking this because I am mad at you, I just want to figure out what the problem is. You say you want to get to know me better, you say you arn't avoiding me, you give me perfectly reasonable excuses for everything that I try to ask you, but as everyone else says; actions speak louder than words.
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Sorry it is so long, but I have been dwelling on tihs for awhile...
2007-04-26 22:57:36 · update #2
Wow, I would say she is avoiding you, and if she keeps getting "grounded" then I think her parents have something to do with you and hers relationship.
I believe her parents are having a lot of say in this matter, like they do not want you to be with her for some reason.
Either find a new girlfriend, and leave her alone and get on with your life and stop bugging her.
Stop now, before you find a restraining order slapped on you!!!
There is a reason for her madness!
2007-04-26 23:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about just asking her if she is still interested in being your girlfriend or would she rather just be friends.
Honestly, I think that you would do better finding someone that does not have all of this drama in their lives.
2007-04-27 06:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋