Family & Relationships - 26 April 2007

I had a guy ask me for something that cost like $35.
I figured it was his way to test me and see how interested I really was...
Common, what do you think???

2007-04-26 21:18:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok.. before any of you start lending moral judgement, I want you to release yourself of stupid cultural sentiment and please answer this intelligently. Here is the deal:
I am a 32 year old male.
I love my wife unlike any woman. I've never seen another woman as beautiful nor as perfect for me than her. I've been married for almost 5 years, but I still crave sex from other women. I don't crave emotional attachment, I don't want feelings.. I just want to have very animalistically sex with another woman. Just raw. I've tried not thinking about it.. but it is not working. What the hell is my problem or what the heck should I do. Cheat and find out it wasn't all it was cracked up to be and bear the guilt (even worse.. loose my wife).. or screw. This sex drive is very deep rooted within me. It is within my makeup. I feel instinctively sexually insatiable.
Any help appreciated.

2007-04-26 21:14:21 · 18 answers · asked by Sex Crazed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im due to get married in october abroad, and im having second thoughts, the little things that wouldnt really bother you seem a big issue, because you know you have to put up with them for the rest of your life. he keeps being mardy and saying its not working and saying hes going to move out, he already did this a few months ago but came back when he realised he did want to marry me. is this just wedding jitters. i just keep thinking about my family, il be letting everyone down. what if we cancel and them wish we hadn't?

2007-04-26 21:10:42 · 31 answers · asked by clare 2 in Weddings

2007-04-26 20:39:48 · 18 answers · asked by Climie 1 in Singles & Dating

She's 19, and I'm 23? Is this a

2007-04-26 20:38:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 20:36:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner who i have lived with for two years just wont discuss things. We never argue, we just have long silences. If i try to bring things up he wont discuss them and just goes in a huff and wont talk to me for days!. I feel it is emotional punishment. If god forbide i try to talk to him in the car - twice he has got out of the car and walked off.
At times i have been sitting on my bed, head in hands obviously distressed and he will walk into the room, get something and walk back out again.

I feel he cannot consider my feelings, cant reach out to me and will never attempt to resolve problems. i feel like he has no feelings and that i could walk out tomorrow and he would hold the door open for me - in fact he actually did that.
he says he has got feelings but just cant show them - so where does that leave me? I feel lonely and dont even try talking to him about my problems now.
I can disagree with him or not agree to go somewhre or he also goes in a huff. He is 47 years old!

2007-04-26 20:33:29 · 6 answers · asked by cottontail 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend is really quite in bed. she climax's every time we have sex but she is to quite. i want her to be louder. what should i do? when she reaches climax she like squirts alot of girly juice is this normal?

2007-04-26 20:32:29 · 12 answers · asked by codie 1 in Singles & Dating

my X bf left me 2 mounths ago, I wants him to come back to me, i know the reason that he left me was just his stupid freinds, but he never gave me chance to explain things he left me without reason, even without telling me what i did wrong. I dont know wat to do. plz i want u guys to help me from your perspectives . thank you

2007-04-26 20:29:22 · 22 answers · asked by sokote_gharibe_paiiz 2 1 in Singles & Dating

doing anything worth talking about!!!
i am at work and i just thought i would take some time to talk to the rest of the world!!!

2007-04-26 20:27:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why do humans have to have sex or have kids? or get married and etc...

Mature answers only...

2007-04-26 20:27:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have always put my career first, I am not that interested in having kids, and I work 12 hours a day...i love my job and my industry. My boyf does eventually want kids, he works exactly 40 hours a week, no overtime, but makes a lot more money than I do. He thinks that if we get married, because he makes more money, we should nurture his career first, if that requires moving, etc. I find this decision difficult because even though he does make more money, I have very high career goals that I want to achieve and my view is that since he clocks out right at 8 hours a day, never overtime, that he does not care as much about his job as I do. I do not think that I will ever make more money than he does. I am not sure what to do! I would hate being a stay at home mom, that is just not me! I would love it if he would be a stay at home dad and I could keep working my 50-60 hour work weeks. How does a couple of very career minded people make it work??

2007-04-26 20:24:10 · 7 answers · asked by gigi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend gets mad at something and takes its out on me.One day he got mad we start yelling at each other before bed.So I turn around the grab the cover and hit in the face and i didnt mean to.Before i could say i was sry he held me down.Start yelling in my face and shaking me.I try pushing him off but he kept hitting and threw me into a wall.I want to go to the cops but I'm scared that I'll be walking one day and out of no where he be there.I know this is kind of a stupid question.But plz help me what should I do??

2007-04-26 20:16:50 · 7 answers · asked by NJBiTcH4LiFe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend at the time, except me as a package. Meaning I already had a child. We are now married, and, I had his 2 children. He feels there is no bond between my 1 child that isn't his. But you would think, there was a bond, it's been about 8 years. should I be upset with this feeling he has? Then I'm like no, I understand. I would probably feel the same. But at the same time I feel crush that he feels this way.

2007-04-26 20:08:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

keep my relationship with my boyfriend going, im 15 and we are i love... plz dont say we r too young to b in love cuz we r. anyways how do i keep our relationship going for a long time and how do i keep it alive???

2007-04-26 20:07:42 · 4 answers · asked by Tempest6768 2 in Singles & Dating

my nan died yesterday,but because of my real dad i never got to see her much.i have not seen her in over a year and before then it was 4 years and now shes gone.im going to the funeral and wanted to get some flowers.im trying to think of something not to hypercritical to put on the card,as although i never got to see her that much i always wanted to and did think of her and my other half of the family.she had grandchildren she never met because of my real dad and i cant help feeling a bit guilty that i never made enough effort.if someone could help for the flower card to sort of word it right for me.thanks.

2007-04-26 20:06:44 · 12 answers · asked by easty90210 5 in Family

i almost decided to leave my home.1 m 12 passed.i have knowledge in computer.plz give idea where to go...what to do.what to do for a job.what things sud b taken....etc


and also if there was anyone like me..who wants to leave home also can answer.we can together do it.

2007-04-26 20:06:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What's it mean when a girl starts crying on your shoulder asking you why you're so nice to her?

2007-04-26 19:58:49 · 12 answers · asked by wish I knew 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 19:52:14 · 8 answers · asked by love&fury don't mix 1 in Friends

People tell me I "shelter" my 2 younger kids too much (4 & 6yrs old) and that I am codependent. I keep my kids close and I cry just think about them growing up and leaving me. Im pretty sure its because I lost my mom and dad two weeks apart 2 yrs ago and about 10 yrs ago I lost 2 other children during a divorce (LONG story, but husban had more money & better lawyer) I'm still very close to them and they are older now and understand ALL that happened back then. In fact, they both kinda don't care much for their dad now that they know whole story. Anyway, I also found out that I was adopted a couple yrs ago and that my sister was actually my mom. I just think lots of people have their problems & counseling isn't going to help. You just have to deal with it and hope that time will help heal some wounds. Shouldnt it be up to me if I get counseling or not. I think Im fine.

2007-04-26 19:48:53 · 12 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Family

so, about a couple of months ago im in this store doing some shopping and i notice this really beautiful girl working there. im mean she looked great. for the next week or so i thought about her from time to time, but then i kinda forgot about her..... that was until earlier this week. i went back to the same store and was just browsing around. i was looking at something when i hear "excuse me, have you been in here before?" i turn around and there she is, even more beautiful then i remembered. i answer yes and she replies "yeah, you looked familiar" anyway we end up talking for about 30 min or so. i was getting ready to ask her out some time when 2 of her co-workers came over. as soon as this happened i got all nervous and ended up leaving the store without a number or anything. i left simply saying "take it easy, ill see you around" after i left i was kicking myself for the rest of the day. now i cant seem to stop thinking about her. i dont know what my next step should be. ive thought about going back up there or even calling the store and asking her out over the phone. any suggestions?? maybe something different i could do? and also does it sounds like she may be interested considering that she approached me and remembered me after a couple months?

2007-04-26 19:48:02 · 6 answers · asked by sushiking 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, try this on for size:
A while ago, someone once said to me:" If I had legs like yours, I'd walk on my hands." And I don't know until this day if that was meant as a compliment or as an insult.
What's been said to you? And what have YOU said that could have been taken both ways?

2007-04-26 19:46:31 · 13 answers · asked by Snake Eyes 6 in Friends

During this story I'm going to call the one who raised me and adopted me my"mom" (actually my grandma) and I'll call my birh mom my "birth mom" (even though I grew up knowing her as my sister) There were 3 other sisters too (which were actually my aunts) A couple years ago my "mom" was very sick, and knew she didn't have long to live. So she wanted to be there with my "birth mom" to tell me the truth before she passed away. My "birth mom" begged her and my other 3 "sisters" to NEVER tell me. So they all promised Well 2 weeks after that my dad (the man that adopted me) passed away too! A couple months later my "birth mom" told me she was really my mom. Long story short. She claims she tried to get me several times and my "mom" wouldnt let her. My other sisters said she nevercame back that she neglected me &my mom actualy rescued me from her house skinney, 8in worms in my diaper locked in my room with nothing but a matress. Cld u ever have rlship w/ her? Better if not lied?

2007-04-26 19:39:47 · 10 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Family

Hi im 16 and iv been with my bf for 2 years now and latley couple months we kept fighting and being on and off.... also we were two different ppl but we both r crazy in luv..... Now we both decited just to be frineds and we are now but im going crazy missing him and i know its hard for him to but it seems like he wanted to do something or wants to do something that he couldnt do while he was with me i just dnt know what to do.... Were frineds and i wanted this to but im sad because i miss him asa bf but i dnt want him back ..... Aghh i dnt get it what should i do???

2007-04-26 19:30:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 19:29:28 · 23 answers · asked by chandru c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-26 19:29:02 · 5 answers · asked by Stellar 3 in Singles & Dating

I am going to need to look into ... well definitley get a lawyer. My horrible awful ex wants to take my kids age 4 and 5 that he hasnt seen in 3 years!! I am a wonderful mother to them and I have to fight this he is a horrible abusive man. So my question is about lawyer fees if you have any experience on retainer fees hourly cost or total cost. I need to start saving right away for this cost and I need to know what to expect. Thanks 4 your help

2007-04-26 19:25:22 · 6 answers · asked by *Krista* 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend, who is also my cousin, have been friends since birth. We've always been close, but she has very low self esteem and has always competed with me. I've overlooked it until now. I moved a few years ago and now we live 700 miles away. She has just found out that she is pregnant, she's 18. She doesn't want to work and as sad as it sounds, I think the pregnancy was planned so she doesn't have to work. I planned to drive up to be there with her for her appointment. A week before I was leaving, my oil pan blew out. I had to get it fixed and by the time I paid for that and my insurance. I didn't have near enough to make it up and back. I told her, "Bad news hun, don't think I can make it. Call you tomorrow" She told back "Not mad, but youre a coward" This infuriated me. I have always looked out for her. When I was raped, she gossiped about it. She had sex willingly, told me how great it was, then when her mom found out, she said she was raped. Makes me so angry. All about her.

2007-04-26 19:17:33 · 7 answers · asked by Unknown 2 in Friends

when parents send their kids to boo camp what do the kids have to do in boo camp.i'm a girl and i'm 16.i've lied and done things behind my dad's back my dad is a great dad i dont know why i do all this to him.

2007-04-26 19:11:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What are the right words to tell the one you love that you want to be with him when he wants to be with his friends? When you need him the most but you also understand that he loves his friends more and would rather be with them? What can i say to him when i need him so bad but not seem clingy?

2007-04-26 19:07:34 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating