My boyfriend gets mad at something and takes its out on me.One day he got mad we start yelling at each other before bed.So I turn around the grab the cover and hit in the face and i didnt mean to.Before i could say i was sry he held me down.Start yelling in my face and shaking me.I try pushing him off but he kept hitting and threw me into a wall.I want to go to the cops but I'm scared that I'll be walking one day and out of no where he be there.I know this is kind of a stupid question.But plz help me what should I do??
2007-04-26 20:16:50 · 7 answers · asked by NJBiTcH4LiFe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sry I was upset and messed up Alittle
2007-04-26 20:18:50 · update #1
first kill your parents, then when the cops come, blame it on your boyfriend then that'll serve his *** for 2 years hope that helps from Fred W lawyer/director/Tom Hanks brother/Jet Li cousin/Jackie Chan enemy
2007-04-28 13:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by umaga man guy red hair sabu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First and foremost, the police department can issue a restraining order against him and if he does come near you, he will be arrested. You can go down to the police station and you'll have to talk to someone and fill out a couple forms.
If you don't want to do something that drastic yet, you could talk with your boyfriend about the situation and see if it can't be resolved [and ended] without bringing in outsiders and to each of your mutual satisfaction.
But I would like to stress that what he did is not right and should be taken seriously. People get mad, they get angry, but most can control themselves enough not to end in domestic violence. He's done it at least once, there's no reason to believe it won't happen again and again.
I recommend trying to end the relationship amicably without incident. If that doesn't work, a restraining order could be the way to go.
I hope this helps!
2007-04-27 03:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by EddieD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, recognize that you deserve an honoring, loving, caring and supportive boyfriend. If you are in a relationship with a boy who is not this way, get out now. If you and he get into yelling matches, there is something seriously wrong in the relationship. He is bigger and stronger than you...there is no excuse for abuse. Leave. Where can you go? Consider the options. There are shelters for battered women. There is always the police. The courts can issue a restraining order you don't need an attorney). Go to your parents, your friends, check the local religious groups for assistance and advice. But get away from someone who throws you against the wall.
2007-04-27 03:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be very careful. The best thing to do is try to get out of that relationship that is only bringing you trouble. Now that you are able to. He is a violent person, and he will get worst, and blame you for this, making you feel you deserve to be treated that way. Try to take pix of the marks he leaves you, and if it's really bad, make a police report, and eventually a restraining order. You should also try to talk to him, let him know that he is doing wrong by hurting you physically, not only emotional, because this is something that will stay in you forever, if you're a Strong person you can probably overcome it, but if you're not, you will take it out on your own kids later. Be careful, and hope everything works out for you !!!
2007-04-27 03:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by nelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie...that's why he's only going to become more violet each day. He feels like he owns u and he senses that ur too scared to go to the police. Make sure u take pictures of any markings. It may be hard to go but seriouslly just do it. You'll feel so much better! I bet u feel traped now. Go and everything will be alright. If u don't want to make a report you can always break up with him and get a restraining order.
2007-04-27 03:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by blondie15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better break up with him---immediately! Make no mistake: abuse is about control, not love. You might be confused about whether what's happening to you, but remember that what is happening to you is still abuse. Abuse in a relationship is about a pattern of behavior that one person uses against another to intimidate his/her partner and to get them to do what they want. It is about dominance.
If he can do this right now, even if he's just your boyfriend. Imagine what he can actually do when you two are already married.
2007-04-27 03:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by Charmed_Prue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him
2007-04-27 03:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋