Family & Relationships - 26 April 2007

2007-04-26 19:07:28 · 12 answers · asked by Y 5 in Singles & Dating

I'd asked this question before, but was unsatisfied with the very few replies...
I have a very good friend. Her and I are very close. We attend church together, I often watch her Warriors session, which is a drumming class, just because I WANT to, and more-over we often just drive around to talk.
We're kind-of-dating-kind-of-not. What I mean by this is that we both care for each other in that way. Hold hands, cuddle, etc. but due to her not having dated very many people in her life, she doesn't want to put the 'dating' label on it. Complex, much?
But yea, every moment I spend with her is the only moments I feel truly at peace. I KNOW I'm not in love with her, because that's a word that's easily thrown around these days, but I also know I more then care for her. I guess you could call it a 'Deep Infatuation'.
No matter what, even if we never went any further then where we are now, I just want her to know that no matter what, I'm here for her, and will always care for her.

2007-04-26 19:05:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In fact, low self-esteem is a good one
anyone know when Evanescence is touring
again, I find her fans to be real nut jobs.

2007-04-26 19:04:25 · 8 answers · asked by Brad 3 in Singles & Dating

At the beginning that we decided to live together, we have no any rule. she rarely to clean bathroom or clean dishes or wash clothes!!! They are become my job!!! Should I say to her or just keep doing as usual as I stay alone????

2007-04-26 18:58:19 · 14 answers · asked by Frida y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a guy ask me for something that cost like $35
but told me I "didn't need" a $2 rose!

I happen to LOVE flowers!

2007-04-26 18:54:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

v-day, birthday, x-mas, this guy never gives me anything. he won't take me on dates, or buy me a flower, nothin. even if i try to borrow money he always says no. he has a job, and i see him spend money for his friends and family but not 4 me, y?

2007-04-26 18:52:36 · 14 answers · asked by trickortreat 2 in Singles & Dating

if say yes than y because u think they are in love or if not
so need something for each other that's y they r friends

2007-04-26 18:51:46 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I am, from what I've heard, what every man, 21-35, wants. A nice, good, loyal girl who loves bad girl sex. Yet, with nearly every guy I've dated and gotten to know, it freaks them out. Either they only see me as the angel and won't be open to any experimentation in the bedroom, or they see me as this bad girl and get dissappointed when I say I only have sex when I'm in a committed relationship. I mean, I'm sorry, but can't I be both? Is this really what men want? Or is this something every man says he wants and then as soon as he gets it can't handle it? Oh and I'm an adult female who can make her own choices, so if you don't believe what I do is right, keep your opinion to yourself. I'm not gonna change because of you.

2007-04-26 18:51:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in Pennsylvania..Delaware county to be more specific. I've been "married" for 3 years almost. Now, it wasn't a real marriage, and I guess I just didn't care enough to get it annulled because although we got married, we were only 'married' for like 2 months, and he left me. He dissapeared and cheated on me, oh and he moved to another state so as you can see, I felt like he was already gone from my life.

Anyways, I want to get it annulled. We shared nothing together..no house, no assets, (we were young) he was going to the army. We just have a child who he has never even paid child support for. He's just out of my life. So do you think its possible? and where do i go to get it done? The courthouse? or do I call a lawyer?

2007-04-26 18:48:03 · 10 answers · asked by Bizzy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He says he won't pick anyone because he doesn't know. What should I say or do to make him go to the dance with me?

2007-04-26 18:48:03 · 9 answers · asked by brendagee. 2 in Friends

my hubby's ex didn't put him on the birth certificate and didn't let him see his son now he is 2 and shes coming around saying he needs to sign some papers giving up his parental rights he wants to see his son what can we do

2007-04-26 18:45:41 · 10 answers · asked by Natalie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-26 18:44:07 · 21 answers · asked by JJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I earn a really low wage. So low in fact that I can not quite afford to pay just my basic living cost (rent, utilities, food).

I have a child from a previous relationship. A child that I love and adore and would do anything for.

The CSA want to take a quater of my wages. This will leave me unable to pay my rent. I will become homeless. I don't live in an expensive place. I live in the cheapest place I could find.

At the same time my ex has decided that she no longer wants to let me see my daughter and no solicitors I can find will take on a legal aid case like this because it will take too much time and they get paid per job and I obviously cant afford to pay for one if I can't even afford my rent.

I'm in a total losing situation, with no one to offer me help.

2007-04-26 18:43:18 · 11 answers · asked by Only Mark. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy alex really likes me
and he tells me i'm sexy
even when i'm around my boyfriend
and it makes my boyfriend really mad
so he hates him
and doesn't like it when i hang out with him
but i've been friends with alex since like 3rd grade,
so it's a bit weird.
well now alex wants me to go over to his house on friday after school,
and i KNOW his intentions.

how do i say no, i dont want to have sex with you,
but not ruin the friendship??

2007-04-26 18:43:18 · 34 answers · asked by onlyblonde1 3 in Singles & Dating

Why are southern women harder to pick than northern women. The amount of energy I spend to hook up with a woman with a high shcool education and walks around with no kicks on is crazy down here. I exert the same amount of energy in Chicago / New York, I end up with a bombshell in a law school. What's the deal, shouldn't it be far easier in the south, I mean southern comfort rite?

2007-04-26 18:43:02 · 8 answers · asked by Sam G 2 in Singles & Dating

I am always telling people what to do and especially my boyfriend.Can you give me some good advice please! thank you = )

2007-04-26 18:42:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Before I ask the question, I just want to say if you are gong to be rude and not understand my point of view, just don't answer.
Ok my husband and I have an extremely playful relationship. Normally he never does anything to hurt my feelings, but he went to a strip club with some of his friends. Although this may not be a bid deal to some, this isn't how my marriage works. So, I want to do something to get him back. Just somethng a little naughty that I know he wont like, but really isn't wrong.. ya know? My mom said I should dye all his underwear pink and make him wear them, but I want something a little naughty....
GIRLS!!!!! Do ya have any ideas how to get your hubby back and teach him a lesson with out compromising our relationship?

2007-04-26 18:40:27 · 14 answers · asked by ~C~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-26 18:37:57 · 23 answers · asked by HANUMANT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For starters I have about 4 weeks to go with baby #4. I am now on bed rest, was working 70 hours a week. So other than being worn out from the kids, housework and tired belly, my hubby just will not communicate with me. I try giving him hugs and kisses when he gets in the door. But his usual routine is come in sit on the couch, watch the tube, eat, shower and sleep. It doesn't matter if I am nice or down right b!tchy, I can not get this man to talk to me. When I ask, he says all I do is just grouch. I admit that I do nag alot; but common, if you are ignored every single day, no matter how hard you try; I think you'd be the same way. Does anyone have any suggestions on a way to turn this around?

2007-04-26 18:31:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am in love with my best friend's boyfriend and we have some sort of an affair going on. but he doesn't love me. and i think he feels that i'm just not worth it for him to leave his girlfriend. but we still go out behind his girlfriend's back and sleep together. is there a future in our relationship? should i just forget him and end the affair? but it's just so hard......i really really love him.....

2007-04-26 18:30:34 · 6 answers · asked by yen-e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We were walking out of class and this girl asked me if I had a class. I told her at twelve. She said she had a class also at 12(it was 11:15am when she asked). She also said that she was going to buy something from the caf and then go and eat outside since it was pretty warm outside. I said that was a pretty good idea and said good-bye. I only realized the mistake I made in that case. Tell me what you think is my mistake cause I want to be sure I’m right.

2007-04-26 18:21:26 · 21 answers · asked by ticko 1 in Singles & Dating

I amazed at your sanctamonious answers!

I have not given the details of the sex that I am having and can assure you that I am acting safely. The fact is though that I am loving man love and feel no guilt.

Why not? Because it feels great! And so long as noone knows, noone is harmed. I don`y believe I am the only one going through a similarly exciting and wonderful stage in my life.

2007-04-26 18:13:05 · 19 answers · asked by streched99 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I drop hints about the type of engagement ring I want. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and are planning on getting married. However, we haven't really set a specfic date. I would like to slowly drop a hint or two about what I would like, when the time comes. But, I don't want him to think I'm pressuring him for an engagement within the next few months.

My boyfriends is pretty old fashioned, so my engagement will be a totally surprise. He also believes in getting me jewerly I love or admire. If I say I like something I see someone wearing I often get something similar for a present. Money isn't really and issue for him, he has a good salary.

So, anyway to be very sutle w/o adding pressure.

2007-04-26 18:11:44 · 13 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Weddings

My husband wanted his 17 year old brother to move in with us (we are only 21) and my husband is a marine and so he is hardly ever home. His bother and i hate eachother we always have. but since my husband wanted his bother to get out of the whole gang thing i respected that, but ever since he has been here he has been nothing but trouble and he dont do anything i ask, i cook for him and clean up after him and wash his clothes and i do everything for him but he still dont respect me, so i told my husband i was leaving him because i cant deal with his brother anymore. My husband is never home when his brother is and when my husband is home on the weekend his brother is gone at partties . And i dont want to make my husband pick between his brother and his wife.His brother has stolen so much sutff from the base and he is going to get my husband in trouble....... Am i in the wrong. Or can some one help me get passed this all.. I have had all i can take i cant do it anymore...

2007-04-26 18:05:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

the majority of the men that hit on me are taken or married! im soo tired of it. i dont cross the line physically out of respect, but the majority of my coworkers seem to create or want to create an emotional bond with me. i unfortunately sometimes let that emotional connection take place, please help im not a homewrecker!!

2007-04-26 17:54:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

things such as calling you every night, and wanting to spend every waking moment with you...

2007-04-26 17:51:38 · 12 answers · asked by surferchiq1313 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 17:50:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I get frustrated at people, or anything in general I delete them. Like off of my cellphone, buddy list, etc... I try to remove their presence as best as I can, almost as if they never existed, even if it's just a fight, and there is a chance we'll make up again. Is that a bad thing to do? Would that be considered running away from my problems, in a way?

2007-04-26 17:43:42 · 20 answers · asked by Brooke 2 in Friends

my cousin is 15 (barely) and is used to dating older guys (16,17, and 18). she only dates them for about 2-3 weeks and then gets sick of them so she dumps them. but this time she thinks shes really in love with this one. theyve been together for about a month or so and have known eachother and been very good friends for about a year. only thing is, hes 18. is the age difference wrong, even if both people love and respect eachother equally? what do you think?

2007-04-26 17:39:49 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am marrid 3 years and I don't know how to help my husband anymore. I always tought that if I'm going to get married someone, is gonna by for life. I decide to marry my husbend after sad event and I tought that I can count on him always but our life had turn upside down after a year. My husband likes to get high and that start my problems. It become more often and than every day. We had our own bussines and after two years of marriage we had to close it. I tryed everything. I send him to rehab twice but that didn't help- maybe for a week. He did not work for 8 months and finally he got a job but didn't last for long and he got fired. Our bills are due but he still want money to get high. We started arguing a lot and I started to screem sometimes even trow staff tords him. I'm becoming violent and I hate that. What should I do? I tryed to help him but he likes his lifestyle and he pulling me down with him.Is it the time for divorce or should I still fight for it? I am so tired of it!

2007-04-26 17:39:38 · 17 answers · asked by betty 2 in Marriage & Divorce