Before I ask the question, I just want to say if you are gong to be rude and not understand my point of view, just don't answer.
Ok my husband and I have an extremely playful relationship. Normally he never does anything to hurt my feelings, but he went to a strip club with some of his friends. Although this may not be a bid deal to some, this isn't how my marriage works. So, I want to do something to get him back. Just somethng a little naughty that I know he wont like, but really isn't wrong.. ya know? My mom said I should dye all his underwear pink and make him wear them, but I want something a little naughty....
GIRLS!!!!! Do ya have any ideas how to get your hubby back and teach him a lesson with out compromising our relationship?
2007-04-26 18:40:27 · 14 answers · asked by ~C~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok you guys aren't listening.... I have a PLAYFUL marriage. I want to have a little fun with my hubby. You guys are taking this too seriously.... think fun stuff... come on now. If you can't have fun with your hubby who can you have fun with??? Chill out
2007-04-26 18:48:58 · update #1
The strip club is a big no no for me to. I would say fight fire with fire. Meaning hire a male stripper for you and your friends. Get somes pictures taken and then see what his expression is. Best of luck!
2007-04-26 18:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your marriage is ‘playful’ but yet you’re upset that he went to a strip club (where presumably ALL he did was look at some women)? Wow. Your idea of ‘playful’ and mine must be entirely different.
I have no advice for you because I don’t believe in seeking revenge. It’s a childish way to handle problems.
And I hope you didn’t relate this story to your mother (since she gave you advice), because generally speaking, discussing issues such as this with your mother is not the most wonderful idea. These are issues between you and your husband only.
That’s all just my opinion though.
2007-04-27 02:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by kp 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want to 'get him back,' that's already building a relationship of untrust and anger. Vengence isn't a cornerstone of marriage. Tell him how you feel and how it is disrespectful of him to do such a thing, like going to a strip club. If it really bothers you, you should be able to tell him, and he should respect your feelings.
Once you start down the path of one-upping each other, it gets hurtful. There's no playful way to teach him a lesson. TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND. If you can't do that, you two are in serious trouble.
2007-04-27 01:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think I have the best answer yet LOL of course But its just making me laugh so hard just thinking about it. They have amateur night at almost all strip clubs take a girlfriend along to video you while you give your stripping abilities a whirl!! Ask your husband to watch a video with you and push play and watch his face LOL Its not like he can get mad right, thats what he went to see, I think you would both end up laughing if not more :) about this. I dont see him getting angry but I dont know him. Good Luck & TAKE IT OFF!!!!
2007-04-27 02:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by *Krista* 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
u can hire a wino to decorate your home,so he want have far to wonder,when the bar room closes.....u can take out the dinning room table,put a bar along that wall and a neon sign pointing to the bathroom down the hall, i heard you can keep his and his buddies money that way, he can be sleeping it off while your putting it in the bank ........ lol or you can play fair and keep him at home and be a striper for him, don't get him peeved at you it would just make it worse on the marriage.
2007-04-27 02:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by jazzy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I built my guy a cardboard doghouse, complete with a cardboard bone on the front with his name on it. He knew before hand that I wasn't cool with him going but he did it anyway. So I gave him his doghouse (at his work) and told him I was really upset with him because he knew I wasn't okay with it. I said it had to sit on his desk (i taped it there) at work until I wasn't mad at him anymore. Then at home I just did my own thing, not acting mad at him or ignoring, just not doing anything for him. he never did it again!
2007-04-27 02:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by mrs. lady 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
lol I say to write on his body with a magic marker while he is asleep. If mine did it I would set every clock we own backwards and let him go to work about 4 hours too early and tell him when he called that if he has a few hours for stripper I figured he would have no trouble going to work early.
2007-04-27 01:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by wantajeannie 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If I were on your shoes, I won't bother to do these crazy things. I just have to talk to my husband straight forward that I don't like him buzzing around a stipping club. If he insists on, then it is over for both of us. Simple..
2007-04-27 01:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by Leonie A 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
These people need to lighten up. How about shaving his chest or somewhere farther south while he is sleeping?
2007-04-27 02:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by kitkat 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a girl, but I feel pretty shocked at your immaturity. Your and your partner must have truly hideous communication and problem-solving skills. If you don't like what he did, TELL HIM. If he continues doing it and you two cannot work things out, then end it.
Don't be small-minded like this.
2007-04-27 01:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 4 · 4⤊ 3⤋