i am in love with my best friend's boyfriend and we have some sort of an affair going on. but he doesn't love me. and i think he feels that i'm just not worth it for him to leave his girlfriend. but we still go out behind his girlfriend's back and sleep together. is there a future in our relationship? should i just forget him and end the affair? but it's just so hard......i really really love him.....
2007-04-26 18:30:34 · 6 answers · asked by yen-e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is a terrible situation to put yourself into. Not only are you disrespecting yourself, but your best friend as well. This is not the way a best friend acts. It sounds like you have self-esteem and jealousy issues. You really need to stop sleeping with him now. He does not respect you, he does not love you. He is using you and now you have put yourself in a situation where you could lose a friend. I think you need to distance yourself from them and take some time to deal with what is going on with you. You need to learn self-respect and how to be a true friend. Find yourself a single man who will care for you the way you deserve and then you can build a real relationship. You have gotten yourself into a situation where all three of you will be hurt. Stop this before it goes any further. You deserve better and your friend deserves better from the both of you. I know that you believe you love him, but love is based on a lot more than what you have with this man. Once you are out of this and have moved on, you will look back at what you thought was love and realize it was not. Anyway, there is no future with him. He cannot be trusted, and in time he will discard you as easily as he cheated on her. I am honestly trying to help, but you have gotten yourself into a very bad place. Now it's time to make things right where you can.
2007-04-26 18:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by Krissi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you don't want a lecture because I know that you know that what you are doing is wrong. Be fair to your "best friend." Obviously, there's no future with your relationship with the guy so leave him. If your best friend finds out about your secret, she'll dump you for sure and you will be in the losing end.
2007-04-27 02:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by mars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of so called friend are you to be sleeping with your best friends boyfriend? you need to leave him alone, he doesnt love you and will never be with you the way you want, he is only using you there is no future for you and him, why would you want someone who doesnt love you and who cheats, and has no respect for relationships and cant be with one person, move on and find someone else...
2007-04-30 18:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch honey, its not gonna work. he is clearly showing you he doesnt love you by not leaving his girlfriend. quit sleeping with him and stay as far away from his as possible because the only person you are gonna hurt is yourself. and believe me when youre down and out he wont care.
2007-04-27 01:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sleeping with your best friends bf? 1 advice tell your friend your not worthy to be her friend!
poor girl.. (not you your friend) not only gets cheet on by her bf but by the person she should go to when she finds out aswell...
what scares me is that you dont see this as wrong! you only want to end the afair because he claims to not love you (so you sleeping with him is kind of disrespectfull to yourself dont you think?)
2007-04-27 01:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by trisha d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure glad that you don't call yourself my best friend!! What kind of a person would cheat with her best friend's boyfriend? You make me feel dirty.
2007-04-27 01:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋