Family & Relationships - 26 April 2007

She has become one of my dearest friends and now they have broken up...I need advice from anyone on a similar situation.

2007-04-26 17:32:28 · 3 answers · asked by White 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-26 17:30:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-26 17:28:29 · 8 answers · asked by sely c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

for the past year, i have been working my fingers to the bone, in order to save for my very own car. my parents keep borrowing money from me, a few times without even asking (my mom knows my bank account password). since the first time, ive lent about 1000, or more, dollars to them and i havent been able to get past 500 dollars in my savings, no matter how hard i try.

how do i tell them how im feeling without being too harsh?

im an independent person and i want to be mature, and responsible and own something that i worked hard for, but i feel like reaching my goal of owning my own car is downright impossible right now

2007-04-26 17:22:24 · 5 answers · asked by kristina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who cheated on her husband with her husbands brother. She has decided at this point not to tell him. I advised her to come clean about it but she says that her husband is mentally unstable and wouldn't be able to handle this kind of information at this time. She says that she is afraid that if she tells him, he might do something to harm himself. What does everyone think she should do? I know under normal circumstances, the right thing to do would obviously be to tell him, but in the event that he's the way she's described, does anyone have any insight as to what would be the best thing to do? Please no smart comments. I know this is absurd but she actually did indeed make that huge of a mistake and I really need advice right now as to how to guide her. PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-04-26 17:20:04 · 17 answers · asked by McLovin 3 in Marriage & Divorce

In July he began a new job and this woman is his boss. She knew he was married with 4 kids and she started a relationship with him on the computer and would leave "Miss you" cards in his car when he wasn't at work. My life has turned upside down. My kids miss their dad and I miss my husband.

2007-04-26 17:19:04 · 27 answers · asked by Gabrielle's Mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you think about this issue?

2007-04-26 17:11:50 · 21 answers · asked by kewtber 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i made plans to go to see the girl ive been asking about and this was like over month ago when i said this and i wasnt sure how i would go out and see her so i kept calling my friend back east and asking him can i stay with u , but now my sis is getting married at the same time i was suppose to go see this girl and im thinking is this is a sign? is god making sure i see her soon before it get to late cuz now i have to go to see my sister get married and now i have a real reason to see this girl and maybe take her to the party lol well i dunno do u guys think its a sign?

2007-04-26 17:10:46 · 6 answers · asked by bashbro2002 1 in Singles & Dating

A girlfriend and her boyfriend are hanging out and they are joking around with each other. The guy puts his hands up her shirt and grabs her breasts, but not to hurt her just to caress and have a little fun. She is laughing and says "stop, stop" but not in a angry way but in a fun way and the guy keeps going. What if the girlfriend and the boufriend are hanging out and the guy attempts to put his hands down her pants to fondle her and she says "no no no" in a playful way but the guy continues to do so. Not forcing himself but being careful.
Now what if the girlfriend says "no i really dont want to do that right now" in a nice way and the boyfriend continues a little bit but stops when the girlfriend says it more seriously and he realizes he should stop. So what do people think of this?

2007-04-26 17:10:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well you see, my boyfriend and I recently broke up. We're together for 4 years! We have on son and another on the way! We've been through thick and thin together! But I'm a jealous person and he is too but he takes it to a violent stage! He just got out to jail April 8th for DV and went back the 14th! He was threating me and scaring our son! He has an anger problem.And I told him to leave but he wouldn't. I litarlly had to run from him! Someone called the cops and he was taken! I haven't talk to him since!
I love him soo much and I know he loves me too!! What can i say we got tough love! But I know our kids don't need to see any of that! I know we could probably work it out if we talked but I'm fed up with this s**t!! I love him but i think it's time for me to let got! But since I've been with him for 4 years it's difficult for me to let go!!!! I miss him! When I think about me and our kids growing older without him it breaks me heart! HOW DO I LET GO? Please give a some advice THANX

2007-04-26 17:09:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-26 17:08:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been in a relationship for the last three years but there isn't any action in the bedroom. last night i got this gorgeous guys number. i was thinking about deleting the number. what do you think. should i call and get me some or should i delete the number. my conscience is irritating me.

2007-04-26 17:04:18 · 19 answers · asked by hottie hot hot 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 17:00:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that men think that you are just being mean when you are pregnant. They do not seem to understand that you may be emotional. Now morning sickness has kicked in. Fatigue. Men think that we are just one big ball of meaness. This is not true. If they had to carry a baby in them. Puking every mornign. Peeing every five seconds. Tired all the time. Only to gain about 25 pounds and expect to loose it as soon as they have the baby. Then having to go through contractions and push a baby out to have them to hang on your breast for a year, maybe they would understand. They have no clue. I wish that everyone of them could have a baby just once.

2007-04-26 16:50:54 · 13 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend said that she si going to see a friend of hers from chicago, instead of seeing me this weekend. And i have not seen her in 2 weeks. The friend is a guy, and she has cheated on me befor. Should i trust her, or what should i say?

2007-04-26 16:49:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well 2 get started i lik him but kind of confused if he likes me
he touches me lik if i have a cut on my hand he grabs my hand and holds it,he helps me carry my stuff,and we talk online and sends me things like "loosen u would be like a kick in da nuts nd a bullt in my heart"
last time when we were talking he askd me if my best frnd likd him
next day he asked me if i had a bf
when we talk online we talk 4 lik 2 hours n he told that im dat im da 2nd person he trusts
so wat do u guys think

2007-04-26 16:48:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in college, and i like this guy that lives in my building, he is kinda my friend, i see him around, and we talk sometimes, and i like him a lot, how can i get him to like me back??

2007-04-26 16:42:15 · 2 answers · asked by purple_peaches_06 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 16:40:39 · 22 answers · asked by Natalie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I hate when boys like me and i don't like them and then when i like a boy they don't like me. Why does it always happen that way? It can never just be in the middle.

2007-04-26 16:39:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have submitted twice to the drug test and both times were found innocent. My son is having alot of problems due to this. He is scared to go to school. Please help any advice on what to do when Family Members are vendictive?

2007-04-26 16:37:51 · 5 answers · asked by slyle13 2 in Family

Okay, I am sixteen and live in Ontario, I am legally allowed to move out of my parents home. Well, I told my mom that I want to start providing for myself and move out on my own, which is true. The reason why I want to move out? Its personal, and I'm not allowed to tell people why. Her reaction? She got angry at me and hardly talked to me on the walk we took after I told her. Why is she mad at me?

2007-04-26 16:37:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A man boarded an airplane and took his seat. As he settled in, he glanced up and saw the most beautiful woman boarding the plane.
He soon realized she was heading straight towards his seat. As fate would have it, she took the seat right beside his.

Eager to strike up a conversation he blurted out, "Business trip or pleasure?"

She turned, smiled and said, "Business. I'm going to the Annual Nymphomaniacs of America Convention in Chicago ."

He swallowed hard. Here was the most gorgeous woman he had ever seen sitting next to him, and she was going to a meeting of Nymphomaniacs.

Struggling to maintain his composure, he calmly asked,
"What's your business role at this convention?"

"Lecturer," she responded. "I use information that I have learned from my personal experiences to debunk some of the popular myths about sexuality."

"Really?" he said. "And what kind of myths are there?"

"Well," she explained, "one popular myth is that African-American men are the most well-endowed of all men, when in fact it is the Native American Indian who is most likely to possess that trait.

Another popular myth is that Frenchmen are the best lovers when actually it is men of Jewish descent who are the best.


I have also discovered that the lover with absolutely the best stamina is the Southern Redneck."

Suddenly the woman became a little uncomfortable and blushed.
"I'm sorry," she said, "I shouldn't really be
discussing all of this with you. I don't even know your name."

"Tonto," the man said, "Tonto Goldstein, but my friends call me Bubba."

2007-04-26 16:35:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 16:16:46 · 7 answers · asked by mrjigglezworth 1 in Singles & Dating

I looked up and saw this person coming towards me and i had a weird feeling and i feel so happy around this person.Then i met her and I started knowing this person more and more that i started sneaking out and staying over at this persons house without my parents permission.Im doing the nicest things ive never done before and Ive change to good! And i dont know whats happening to me? HELP ME PLEASE???????

2007-04-26 16:15:46 · 11 answers · asked by bballer c 1 in Singles & Dating

i think marriage cause a lot of problem, its like a contract hard to get out, you can get the same amount of happiness by live together with your spouse, so is staying unmarried the best insurance for your happiness?

2007-04-26 16:14:05 · 16 answers · asked by df a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why can't people just admit their decision to have children was BAD ?

2007-04-26 16:11:27 · 12 answers · asked by df a 1 in Family

All answers were good, I wished to give 4 best , but A@Q would not let me. I am the guy who asked about giving the wife lingerie after 32 years of marriage. Really on paper it is 34, I couldn't handle her driving 50 miles to work, work a 12 hour shift at night), then drive another 50 miles back home 4 to 5 days in a row in one week. After a total wreck, off the road snowy fender bender, flooded areas, snowing roads and flat tires. I always went. I suggested she rent an apartment, it turned out the city life offered her more than back home, clubbing and dancing. She threw the lingerie issue up to me as a fault. She is not shy about enjoying what off time she has in the city and is only working 3 nights a week. I have without hesitation NOT used her as ,my check book. I pay with what I earn. I guess the next step is waitng for her to find the right guy and the paper work..

2007-04-26 16:10:05 · 1 answers · asked by michael d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Once again for a friend...she's too scared to post. :p So I'm doing the dirty work. Supposedly what went down is she said I love you..and he goes I can't say that back...apologized profusely....and then finished wiht not yet. She wants to know is it a good thing?? Meaning...that he could eventually say it?

2007-04-26 16:08:44 · 6 answers · asked by Stitch 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 16:05:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for three years now... However, all of a sudden my attention is diverted into one of my close friends...yeah i'm actually falling inlove with him...i think im not falling..im inlove with him... But considering that me and my bf have been together for 3 years, i cnt just dump him... Now, i cant really determine whether what i feel for my bf is love or pity... Yes i do care for him a lot.... and i dnt want him to be hurt that much...most especially now for he is undergoing problems that concerns his family.

With regards to my close friend, though how i try to suppress my feelings for him...still it always linger to my mind...Gosh....im definitely confused.. What should i do...??? Can you please help me?

2007-04-26 16:03:51 · 12 answers · asked by yhen 1 in Singles & Dating