2007-04-26 17:28:29 · 8 answers · asked by sely c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
humm.. you let yourself be like that
2007-04-26 18:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not falling in love. You in love with the idea of love. No one falls in love that many times. My guess is that you need to be loved so badly that you settle for less than you really want. You are insecure. You need to realize that you are a good person, even when you are not with a man.
Take the time to read some self help books. These will build your self esteem. When you feel more confident, you will realize that you are a whole person without a man at your side. When you learn to love yourself, you will be much happier, and a lot more choosy about who you give your love to. good Luck!
2007-04-26 17:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of us are very desperate and lonely. We hope each time that this will be the one. If we appear too insecure about ourselves and have little self esteem this can cause a lot of
pain and we end up getting hurt very easily.If this sounds like
what you are going through it is time to start over. Think about
what you could do to change whatever is not working for you.
Some of us are called love junkies. There are some interesting books to read on this subject. Do things to try to
built a good self sense of worth and self esteem. This will
make you stronger within yourself. Spend time alone and really
try to enjoy your own company. The less needier women are the more attractive they are to men. Men like a women who has confidence in herself and they like it better if you have the attitude you don't need them to make yourself happy.
Good Luck!! and KEEP YOUR FAITH!
2007-04-26 17:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by messenger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's biological. Some women or girls just get the feeling and fall in love. I was always this way. Other girls, its a game to see who can get the most guys, who can take a bf away from another girl, if they can get him and his friend, etc.
Some girls section it off by the part of town they are from, and some by the semester. I always fell in love. It is purely biological to me. I never stared at boys, and the boys I did date, knew I would fall in love. I didn't date many, but almost all the boys I dated were really very nice.
2007-04-26 17:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by Marissa Di 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought that it could be just lust or physical attraction? Our minds play games with us to the point where it makes us believe that we're actually falling for someone Be careful, the only one hurting here is you. Put a barrier and guard your heart. Take things slow and let them develop calmly, most importantly, try not to have any sexual contact (it usually helps us get more emotionally attached). Wait at least a month or two before you hit the bedroom. Don't forget to take care of yourself!!!
Good Luck ^_^
2007-04-26 17:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by Dr.Helpful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you arent falling for them but you are falling in love with the ideal of love and that they are the person who you should be with and just looking at their positive traits of what they present to you, there is another side to them that you havent considered, if you can say you like everything about them and can look past their negative traits and could live with it and still feel strong feelings for them when they make you mad, ect then you are in love with them....
2007-04-30 11:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a giving person and have a lot of love to give.But be careful, Learn when and who to give it to.We pick people to like, but our hearts don't pick who we fall in love with.
2007-04-26 17:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats cuz you might as well face it you're addicted to love.
2007-04-26 17:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by kingjustinpants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋