i think marriage cause a lot of problem, its like a contract hard to get out, you can get the same amount of happiness by live together with your spouse, so is staying unmarried the best insurance for your happiness?
2007-04-26 16:14:05 · 16 answers · asked by df a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best insurance for your happiness is to be secure in yourself. Living with someone eventually becomes just the same as marriage except for the marriage long term commitment and financial responsibility. All relationships come with some problems. It takes a lot of mutual trust and respect. Sharing the same views about money, sex, children
religion, jealousy issues and space for each partner is very
important. Communication is the key to a successful living
arrangement weather you are married or not. There are no
guarantees in life no matter which path you choose. You have to work hard to keep any type of relationship. If both parties
agree about not getting married it is great, but usually one
or the other will sooner or later want the deep commitment
that leads to the alter. Good Luck! And keep your faith.
2007-04-26 16:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by messenger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people need to slow down and get to know a potential spouse before jumping into marriage. My parents were married 60 years before my dad died, and they were very happy. My dad brought my mother flowers every day for the entire 60 years. They were flowers he found in the woods or fields, but still, he gave his wife flowers. Daily. Of course, they had some hard times, and bad times, but that just goes along with different personalities living together. So no, I don't think being unmarried is an insurance for happiness. It just depends on a whole lot of variables.
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RE :Is staying unmarried the best INSURANCE for being happy?
i think marriage cause a lot of problem, its like a contract hard to get out, you can get the same amount of happiness by live together with your spouse, so is staying unmarried the best insurance for your happiness?
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2016-09-12 05:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoiding having a string of divorces is good insurance for being happy.
You could do that by a) never marrying, b) marrying the right person, or c) learning how to work things out when problems come.
I know a lot of single people who are miserable.
Singleness does not = happiness, any more than marriage = happiness. True happiness comes from inside you.
2007-04-26 17:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by joe b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you don't wanna get married b/c your affraid you might get in a fight some day and just wanna leave or something? Marriage is for people who really love each other and know what they are getting into. Its different when you have to get a divorce for something thats uncontrollable like your spouse cheating or something. If your not for sure don't get married but don't expect to stay together a long time either. B/c too many people make a joke out of marriage anymore with divorce. And marriage wouldn't exist if god didn't make it to last.
2007-04-26 16:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage can cause a lot of problems, however, being single can also cause a lot of problems.
No I wouldn't say being unmarried is the best insurance for being happy.
There is no such thing as insurance for being happy.
2007-04-26 16:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Like being a DINK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live together you still have the same troubles when you split up as you do if you were married. Who gets what? Who gets the kids? Who gets the money in the joint bank account? and so on. In some states you even have to go through a legal divorce even if you didn't get married.
So no, lack of a legal marriage does not guarantee happiness. The thought of it is pure stupidity.
2007-04-26 16:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ther is no insurance for happiness. I am certain that lots of unmarried people are totally miserable with their lives, and lots of married people are far happier than many single people.
Life doesn't come with a warranty package. You do the best with the cards your dealt.
2007-04-26 16:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by Randy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no one solution that fits all sizes....
Different people has different personailities and character to handle issues.. and be happy about it or sad about it....
If you feel that marriage could be a burden for you.... and remain unmarried is good for you.. by all means go for it... you will be happy..
If you think that married is part of life cycle.. and whether you ended up divorces is also part of life cycle.. then why not be happy just for a while could be enough...
take care..
2007-04-26 19:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by trymejames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no!!! Would you rather rent or own? When you rent, there is never a real sense of stability. When you own, you feel fully vested and committed. The key is marrying the RIGHT person, someone who can be your friend, someone you want to come home to, that sort of thing. Statistics show that married people are happier and live longer than singles. There is a wonderfully comforting feeling knowing that you will share your life with just one special person forever.
2007-04-26 16:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋