Family & Relationships - 26 April 2007

I think im an ok dancer... but i just want some pointers from the girls who love to dance and are good....my gf is a singer/performer.... she can dance and were going to a dance for the first time and im nervous and i know she is nervous that i will be bad...so i just want some pointers from the ladys that love to dance... what do you like the guy to do should he move with you or back up and do his own little thing how much touching what would you concider a good guy to dance with thats all i want is a little help thanks!!!

2007-04-26 15:12:49 · 7 answers · asked by stiffler 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 15:12:05 · 1 answers · asked by anderssonliz 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 14:57:22 · 1 answers · asked by Zach 1 in Friends

So like yesterday I said I was having problems with my man ... well I'm not sure if we are still having problems or what ... today we had sex for the first time in almost a week because we haven't been getting along, well anyways I asked him if I was just a piece of meat or if we was good and he won't answer me for a while then finally he said he just wanted sex. Well then I asked him if he still loved me and he said yes and he will always. Then I asked him if he still wanted to be with me and he never answered me. I asked a few more times before he went to work and he still never answered me. By the way we have been married for 4 years and together for 8 years. Please someone give me some advice, good advice if possible. Also we have a two year old daughter together. One more thing PLEASE ONLY SERIOUS ANSWERS AND DON'T BE JERKS ABOUT IT NEITHER!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-26 14:50:49 · 17 answers · asked by T 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have two brothers, 14 and 9. My parents are divorced and we live with my mom. The 14 year old, "Matt" has severe anger problems and takes it ALL out on "Joey" the little one. Matt wails on him and calls him names and screams at him to the point where if Joey even tries to defend himself he gets it even worse. A lot of this happens when we're home alone. My mom has him in counseling but it's not working. It's just become a "normal" thing in our house and I constantly hear Matt smacking Joey around. Tonight, Matt threw a chair, knocked four more over, and swung at me. I am 17 years old. I want to get out of this, and only have one more year but my problem is- what about Joey??? I can't leave him someone bigger than him that will physically and emotionally tear him down! What do I do??

2007-04-26 14:48:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok this is sorta creepy! Every single time i get in the shower, there is a naked woman in there! and i was wondering how to get rid of her... but the weird thing is she is only in there when i am went i get out she does too! it's freaky!!!1 :(

2007-04-26 14:44:21 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Colie♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

When an 8 year old boy initiates s e xual contact with his 3 year old stepsister, like touching private parts?

And this continues for several years? Is ths s e xual abuse?

2007-04-26 14:39:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-26 14:38:55 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What was the worest line that someone has droped on you to get your attention ... !?

2007-04-26 14:38:50 · 4 answers · asked by Franko From the Bronx 2 in Singles & Dating

with nothing but a feather

2007-04-26 14:36:28 · 7 answers · asked by Doona 5 in Singles & Dating

hi! my bf of 2 years said last night that he wants to have sex on prom night. i'm scared because i'm not ready, but he says he'll tell his friends that we did even if we didn't.

i know what y'all are sayin, but i love him, i honestly do, and i can't imagine my world w/out him. he was there when my dad left us, and he's been everything for me.
i don't know why he's a jerk about sex.
plz help!

2007-04-26 14:32:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will tell you this story and you tell me if I am being stupid or what I might do. In the beginning of this year I started going to this youth group with my friends. During this time I met this guy named evan at church. I started going out with him behind my parents back(not allowed to date). I also started lying and hanging out with the bad crowd. my mom has really cracked down on me and I am a much better person. I broke up with this guy about thankgiving and haven't talked to him or seen him since. I feel so bad about what i have done, sometimes I get so upset i make myself sick and i have constant headaches. I have moved on from that phase I can tell that i am a new person i feel like I am better. anyways I started going to this new youth group and my mom totally attack me last night, and her just talking to me about what happened the last time made me bust out in tears. I felt like she just punched me. then she got mad at me for crying and yelled some more.

2007-04-26 14:31:39 · 8 answers · asked by lalala 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean i had this boyfriend right but he broke my heart really bad, he basically was cheating on me but yet i still kept a lil hope he may still love me, but know i completly understand what i was for him, nothing much but some past time, he left with this other girl who at first he use to told me alot of bad stuff about her, but know they are together which i dont understand, i dont understand what i did wrong or soemhting i mean he left with the girl he use to hate and left me all broken hearted. but i also dont wnat to go like nothing have happen,i am angry at him hes nothing but an ingrate he didnt appreciate what i felt for him, so anyone can be kind and tell me how can i let him know how much he hurt me, but also whitout feeling desperate.

2007-04-26 14:31:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I live in Arkansas so the court papers are sealed. I know that I was born in Camden. I was born on Aug.24.1975. My mother has a twin and was 15 to 16 when she had me. I was wondering if anyone might know her or some other of my relatives. I checked out a company to help me to high and they didn't know if they could find her. Please be repectful when answering. This means the world to me.

2007-04-26 14:31:22 · 5 answers · asked by muybonita30 2 in Family

There was a guy who really like me. We met and talk and at the time i taught this relationship would work. I kinda push him away, I really don't know why. We stop talkin because of me. Now years how pass and now feelings have come. Should I dwell on the pass and try make a relationship work again or try to supress these feelings and move on. What do you think ? Do I need help?

2007-04-26 14:28:38 · 13 answers · asked by tanlaask 3 in Singles & Dating

any suggestions. i want to go out to dinner with some friends tommorrow and then a movie. but i have to talk my mom in to letting me drive her car, by my self. and this would make this the first time i have drove it by myself. any suggestions on talking her into this. i need help ASAP

2007-04-26 14:28:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why is it that a man will most likely go to jail for hitting a woman but a woman probably wont go to jail for hitting a man??

and if men and women have "equal" rights doesn't it kinda seem like a women should go to jail for hitting a man??

2007-04-26 14:27:47 · 4 answers · asked by the idiot down the road 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Husband and I have been married for 1 year. He owes his ex-wife $1,000.00 (court ordered) a month for child support. They have 50/50 custody, and we honestly have them more than their mom does. For the last several years he has been paying $1320.00 a month ($519 comes out of his check auto. for her car payment, and he writes her a $400.00 check 2x a month, when he gets paid.) Finally he has realized that OUR bills need more attention and has told her that he can't just GIVE her an additional $320.00 a month. Here is my problem... He has already paid the car (519) and written her a check for $400.00...so all he owes her for this month is $81.00. Well, he doesn't want to just give her the 81 he wants to give her $240.00 (half of what he'll owe her monthly, in additiion to the car payment). Am I wrong for getting upset about this? I don't understand why he just wants to give her money. We need it for OUR bills, the girls live here too! Any suggestions?

2007-04-26 14:27:02 · 14 answers · asked by Amers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Can someone tell me their most difficult adjustment and it could be anything like working new days or going to a hard class for the first time, etc.

What made this experience or adjustment so difficult?

2007-04-26 14:26:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every time I try to motivate my husband to do his part for our future (get a job or do what he says he's going to do) he threatens to leave me.I moved to a new city w/ lots of jobs and opportunity with my husband 6 weeks ago. He hasn't been looking but found a part-time temporary under-the-table through a friend. I told him tonight that it's find and I appreciate the cash but why isn't he looking for a permanent real job anymore. Of course, he threatens to leave me again and this time adds that I should be happy he's helping ME out. No, he doesn't have savings or a trust fund that help with living. So, I told him the last time that I don't deserve a husband that is always threatening to leave me. I'm guessing that if I don't make good on it being the last time, it'll continue and I'll be stuck insecure and feeling used (again). So, how long am I supposed to put up with it? Is there a better way (besides having ltalks about how unfair it is to always threaten divorce)?

2007-04-26 14:24:41 · 10 answers · asked by LaMorena 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister always lets her kids have control. They run everything in her house. They are theifs, brats, lairs, one of her kids has done hard time. From when these kids was small, we have told her and told her that she needs to "straighten" them out. She has never set rules, her reasoning is that we had so many rules when growing that it made her childhood hell. I had those same rules and had a great childhood. Now the youngest is almost 16 and she comes crying to us that he beats her. Her boyfriend left her because of this. He tells lies to the neighbors, they complain, he threats the neighbors. So now she asks us what should she do?

2007-04-26 14:22:15 · 8 answers · asked by sunrise27_73 2 in Family

First...she is a dirtball never does dishes or cleans, but also...
But the big problem is this. Everything in the apt is mine. When we first moved in we had a futon in our living room and my tv. When I would get home from work she would already be on the futon with papers and crap everywhere so I had nowhere to sit. So I went out and bought a comfy chair and ottoman. Well she started taking that over. So whatever if she beats me to it fine I will move her **** off the futon and sit there. However, yesterday I had the chair. I got up and went into my room to print something and she yells she is taking my chair. I said like hell you are. she goes i am already in the chair. i say when lost comes on i am getting it back. she goes we'll see about that. i grow silent and over annoyed and want to cry because this is the bratty **** she does and she doesnt clean. so then i grow silent she goes its not like you will stay awake anyway. i dont respond. am i wrong for being mad at this?

2007-04-26 14:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by vuwildcat06 1 in Friends

I'm a university student going back home for the summer. Whenever I go back, my neighbours and people I do work for (they're mostly elderly and middle aged men and women) always keep asking whether I have a boyfriend. I tell them no and they just think I am being coy and they don't believe me. I know that most of them consider me to be very pretty (because many of them have told my parents this) and most of them think that it's very odd that year after year I come home from school boyfriendless. I know that they mean well, and they just assume that I am living an active and exciting life and am getting lots of attention from men. The truth is that I'm 21 and I've never had a boyfriend or a date, which upsets and embarasses me. I really don't want to have to tell anyone this, but I just want these people to stop asking me because it's a really sore subject.

2007-04-26 14:19:10 · 6 answers · asked by Cybele 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-26 14:16:46 · 11 answers · asked by melody k 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 50 and semi attractive and notice that men my age are not really happy to give back physically....Is there any age group that does or is it just a person by person situation or maybe geographical?

2007-04-26 14:14:36 · 16 answers · asked by flame57 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Then somehow he grew on me - (like a fungus)

2007-04-26 14:14:08 · 10 answers · asked by baby boo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

MY WIFE AND I HAVE TWO KIDS BETWEEN US AND SHE BROUGHT THREE INTO THE RELATIONSHIP WHILE I BROUGHT TWO INTO IT. SHE'S VERY MENTALLY ABUSIVE TO THE KIDS AND SOMETIMES PHYSICAL. SHE DEGRADES MY CHILDREN ON MOST OCCASIONS BY USING RACIAL WORDS I.E. WET BACK ,ETC. NEEDLESS TO SAY I'VE DECIDED TO END THE MARRIAGE AND START NEW. WHAT LEGAL RIGTH DO I HAVE WITH GETTING CUSTODY OF MY TWO KIDS? AND WHERE DOD I NEED TO TURN?

2007-04-26 14:12:44 · 6 answers · asked by R C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

'' when i was your age..we had to walk 5 miles in the snow to get to school...or....'' you kids have it made''...''when i was your age''....my granpa is constantly using that one...im like...ohhhh god..here we go.

2007-04-26 14:11:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how do you have girl and girl sex cause me and my friend want to do id because its not like its dangerous or anything. it looks pretty fun... if you did, would you lick the v-a-g-i-n-a of the other girl? and how would you do it?

2007-04-26 14:07:51 · 3 answers · asked by stick the p in the v 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are walking around and you grab or rub your girlfriends butt, is that sexual assault since she did not consent to it?

2007-04-26 14:07:20 · 1 answers · asked by whoa 1 in Singles & Dating