i mean i had this boyfriend right but he broke my heart really bad, he basically was cheating on me but yet i still kept a lil hope he may still love me, but know i completly understand what i was for him, nothing much but some past time, he left with this other girl who at first he use to told me alot of bad stuff about her, but know they are together which i dont understand, i dont understand what i did wrong or soemhting i mean he left with the girl he use to hate and left me all broken hearted. but i also dont wnat to go like nothing have happen,i am angry at him hes nothing but an ingrate he didnt appreciate what i felt for him, so anyone can be kind and tell me how can i let him know how much he hurt me, but also whitout feeling desperate.
2007-04-26 14:31:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Instead of telling him off or telling him how much he hurt you, because trust me it won't make a difference because he doesn't care.
You have to focus on your healing. Start journal writing, vent on paper - write him an UNSENT letter even, telling him exactly what you think of him and what he did. And in an UNSENT letter, you can be as vulgar as you want. Burn it when you are done. Write one daily if necessary.
You didn't *do* anything wrong. His morals, values, standards and expectations dictate his behavior, choice and decision to cheat.
iVillage has a great support board: Breaking Up is Hard to Do, check it out:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlbreaking
2007-04-26 15:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old adage goes: There's other fish in the sea.
Now, I realize that this particular cliche is often overused and, in reality, may seem a bit trite......but know this.....there is some eternal wisdom in that saying.
Image the look on his face if you met him on the street one day, and you had some hot, young, buffed, Greek Adonis on your arm. You think for one minute that he won't think to himself, "dang!"?
You go find yourself someone else. Someone who can love and respect you for the woman you are!
And if you think that maybe you need some time to get over the hurt before you find someone else, then all the better. Take as much time as you need.
You know, in this world, there are men, then there are boys....and sounds to me like your ex boyfriend was just that....a BOY-friend.
Girl, get out your pole....it's time to go fishin'.
2007-04-26 15:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by art_is_my_religion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk away. Actions speak louder than words. Besides, do you really think anything you say is going to phase him? He doesn't care for you, so don't waste an ounce of thought on him. Forget him! There's nothing you could say or do to him that wouldn't make you look desperate except for dropping the very thought of him.
2007-04-26 14:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 16:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling him he hurt you will not do any good. He has shown that he didn't care before, so there is no reason to think he will care now. The best thing you can do is move on as best you can. Yes, it hurts but think about yourself & your future. Don't waste time on him anymore. You have wasted too much already...
2007-04-26 14:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by ScarlettBegonias 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't care how you feel anyways. Telling him how much he hurt you doesn't mean nothing to him so don't waste your time and get with someone that wants to be with you! He is a idiot and you know it but if you want to hear someone say it yes, he's an idiot.
2007-04-26 14:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by Luv2no is in the house 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for revenge and to make him think twice about you is to go on like you've completely forgotten him and have a ball. Nothing is more attractive to a dog like that than the hunt. If he knows he can have you, he'll have you and her and her and her.
2007-04-26 14:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by LaMorena 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First please post your questions in the right section. This is divorce and marriage not your issue. Second if you really want help be sure what you post makes sense.
2007-04-26 15:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Hate him....its simple!!!!
2007-04-26 15:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋